
The Assertiveness Workbook (Second Edition)
How to Express Your Ideas and Stand up for Yourself at Work and in Relationships
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Do you feel uncomfortable in situations where you disagree with others? Do you struggle to express your opinions or assert your boundaries? If you've ever felt paralyzed by confrontation, or have bitten your tongue rather than offer an opposing point of view, you know that a lack of assertiveness can leave you feeling marginalized and powerless. Assertiveness is a critical skill that not only influences your professional success, but also your personal happiness! So, how can you make sure your voice is heard?
The Assertiveness Workbook contains powerfully effective skills grounded in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) to help you communicate more effectively, improve social interactions, and express yourself with confidence and clarity. You'll learn how to set and maintain personal boundaries while staying connected, and discover ways to be more genuine and open in your relationships. Finally, you'll learn to defend yourself calmly if you're unfairly criticized or asked to submit to unreasonable requests.
Fully revised and updated—this new edition includes information on the impact of social media, mini-dialogs to help you navigate tricky social interactions, and skills to shift your behaviors to be more assertive—so you can improve your communication skills, and your life!
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Over his decades of experience as a therapist and mindfulness meditation practitioner, Dr. Christopher Germer has learned a paradoxical lesson: We all want to avoid pain, but letting it in and responding compassionately to our own imperfections are essential steps on the path to healing. This wise and eloquent book illuminates the power of self-compassion and offers creative, scientifically grounded strategies for putting it into action.
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Mmm-hmm
- By hoo haa on 10-06-17
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The Self-Confidence Workbook
- A Guide to Overcoming Self-Doubt and Improving Self-Esteem
- By: Barbara Markway PhD, Celia Ampel
- Narrated by: Mike Fraser
- Length: 4 hrs and 49 mins
- Unabridged
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Self-confidence begins with knowing yourself. From facing fears to practicing acceptance and self-compassion, The Self Confidence Workbook offers practical, accessible strategies to get to know your best self and see real-world results.
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The last chapter had great pieces of advice to carry on in the lifetime.
- By Ladi on 02-09-25
By: Barbara Markway PhD, and others
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Not Nice
- Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, and Unapologetically Being Yourself
- By: Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD
- Narrated by: Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD
- Length: 18 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
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Are you too nice? If you find it hard to be assertive, directly ask for what you want, or say "no" to others, then you just might be suffering from too much niceness. In this controversial book, world-renowned confidence expert, Dr. Aziz Gazipura, takes an incisive look at the concept of nice. Through his typical style, Dr. Aziz uses engaging stories, humor, and disarming vulnerability to cut through the nice conditioning and liberate the most bold, expressive, authentic version of you.
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Changed my life forever
- By Shannon Slater on 12-07-18
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The Better Boundaries Workbook
- A CBT-Based Program to Help You Set Limits, Express Your Needs, and Create Healthy Relationships
- By: Sharon Martin MSW LCSW
- Narrated by: Anna Caputo
- Length: 5 hrs and 54 mins
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Establishing clear personal boundaries is essential to creating and nurturing mutually respectful relationships based on equality. Setting limits can also protect you from getting involved in exploitative relationships, and help you avoid toxic personalities who don't have your best interests at heart. This evidence-based workbook will show you how to set healthy boundaries across all aspects of life - without sacrificing your kindness or compassion for others.
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Super helpful!
- By H. Lee on 08-11-24
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People Skills
- How to Assert Yourself, Listen to Others, and Resolve Conflicts
- By: Robert Bolton
- Narrated by: Jonathan Todd Ross
- Length: 12 hrs and 6 mins
- Unabridged
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People Skills is a communication-skills handbook that can help you eliminate these and other communication problems. Author Robert Bolton describes the twelve most common communication barriers, showing how these "roadblocks" damage relationships by increasing defensiveness, aggressiveness, or dependency. He explains how to acquire the ability to listen, assert yourself, resolve conflicts, and work out problems with others. These are skills that will help you communicate calmly, even in stressful emotionally charged situations.
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Not bad
- By Mariam on 10-16-20
By: Robert Bolton
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Stop People Pleasing
- Be Assertive, Stop Caring What Others Think, Beat Your Guilt, & Stop Being a Pushover
- By: Patrick King
- Narrated by: Steve Campbell
- Length: 3 hrs and 44 mins
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Stop People Pleasing is a frank look at people-pleasing tendencies - where they come from, how they manifest, and exactly what to do about them. Most importantly, the audiobook emphasizes real, actionable tactics to change your relationship with yourself and others.
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OK Material, but a little Offputting
- By MDW 77 on 04-28-20
By: Patrick King
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Messages
- The Communications Skills Book
- By: Matthew McKay PhD, Martha Davis PhD, Patrick Fanning
- Narrated by: Melinda Wade
- Length: 10 hrs and 37 mins
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Many people assume that good communicators possess an intrinsic talent for speaking and listening. The reality is that communication skills are developed with deliberate effort and practice, and learning to understand others and communicate your ideas more clearly will improve every facet of your life. Messages has already helped thousands of people build communication skills and cultivate better relationships. With this fully revised and updated fourth edition, you’ll discover new skills to help you communicate your ideas more effectively and become a better listener.
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interesting
- By Physalia on 01-24-20
By: Matthew McKay PhD, and others
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The Art of Everyday Assertiveness
- Speak Up. Set Boundaries. Say No. Take Back Control. Get What You Want.
- By: Patrick King
- Narrated by: Russell Newton
- Length: 4 hrs and 11 mins
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The Art of Everyday Assertiveness is a guide for the chronically “nice”, “overwhelmed”, and “accommodating”. It is a deep psychological dive into the beliefs that makes us lack assertiveness and describes how to systematically combat and replace compulsions with healthy mindsets. This is an audiobook that stands apart from others because of the plethora of real-life examples and solutions.
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A must read if you lack assertiveness
- By Henry Reimert on 03-27-19
By: Patrick King
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The Disease to Please
- Curing the People-Pleasing Syndrome
- By: Harriet Braiker
- Narrated by: Bernadette Dunne
- Length: 4 hrs and 20 mins
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Best-selling author and frequent Oprah guest Dr. Harriet Braiker offers help for anyone who has ever felt the resentment of giving 100 percent of themselves to others and getting nothing in return. The Disease to Please explodes the dangerous myth that “people-pleasing” is a benign problem. It is the first book to treat people pleasing as a serious psychological syndrome, and it breaks new ground in its approach to offer a cure.
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Best book for People Pleasers
- By Amazon Customer on 04-05-22
By: Harriet Braiker
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Difficult Conversations
- How to Discuss What Matters Most
- By: Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, Sheila Heen, and others
- Narrated by: Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, Sheila Heen
- Length: 11 hrs and 54 mins
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We attempt or avoid difficult conversations every day—whether dealing with an underperforming employee, disagreeing with a spouse, or negotiating with a client. From the Harvard Negotiation Project, the organization that brought you Getting to Yes, Difficult Conversations provides a step-by-step approach to having those tough conversations with less stress and more success.
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Too much filler, and the narration was mumbled
- By Bill on 03-08-24
By: Douglas Stone, and others
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People Skills
- A Simple Guide to Reading People, Mastering Small Talk, and Getting People to Like You (Social Intelligence Training)
- By: Andy Gardner
- Narrated by: Alex Smith
- Length: 43 mins
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The truth is, we all have a deep need to feel understood and connected to others. And yet, most of us do not know how to create those connections. Some may have given up all hope, but it does not have to be this way!
By: Andy Gardner