In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) dive into the importance of identifying and asking for what we truly desire in relationships, intimacy, and personal growth. Jess shares her experience of launching a retreat called "The Temptress," focusing on helping women explore empowerment through seduction and self-expression. The hosts discuss how self-discovery, setting boundaries, and confidently expressing desires can transform relationships. Lisa opens up about her journey of learning to ask for her needs within polyamory, while Jess and Ella emphasize the impact of honesty and clear communication on maintaining healthy dynamics.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] – Welcome & Disclaimer: Jess sets the tone for a deep conversation on self-expression, confidence, and sensuality.

[00:02:00] – Jess’s Healing Journey: From being shamed for her seductive energy to reclaiming it as a gift.

[00:08:00] – The Temptress Retreat: How a misheard word led to the creation of an event centered on feminine magnetism.

[00:15:00] – Seduction as a Superpower: How attraction, confidence, and desire are all deeply interconnected.

[00:25:00] – Lisa on Empowered vs. Disempowered Pleasure: How many women settle for ‘good enough’ instead of what they truly crave.

[00:33:00] – Magnetism & Receiving: The difference between chasing and attracting the love, pleasure, and experiences we desire.

[00:40:00] – A Personal Challenge to Listeners: Jess and Lisa encourage women to practice asking—without shame, without apology.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website – Exclusive after-hours content, workshops, and intimate coaching.

• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin – A framework for understanding giving, receiving, and pleasure dynamics.
Midori’s Teachings on Seduction & Sensual Mastery – Tools for stepping into feminine power.

• Power Priestess Retreats – Jess’s upcoming sensual embodiment experience for women.

• FetLife – Mentioned as a resource for those curious about expanding their desires in safe and informed ways.

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In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) and Lisa (The Poly Wife) discuss the importance of recognizing and celebrating personal achievements, big or small. They share their recent experiences with growth, empowerment, and gratitude, highlighting how often people, especially women, skip over their wins and move straight to the next goal. Jess recounts a “champagne moment” when she celebrated recent accomplishments with champagne and caviar, reflecting on the importance of pausing to honor milestones. Lisa also reflects on her journey, noting how sisterhood and mutual celebration among women create a supportive environment for personal growth. They encourage listeners to celebrate themselves and their friends, reinforcing a mindset of abundance and joy.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess and Lisa kick off the episode by reflecting on the importance of celebrating personal and shared wins.

[00:02:00] – Jess’s Transformative Week: How shifting her mindset led to unexpected abundance—new lovers, new career opportunities, and a deep sense of joy.

[00:08:00] – Redefining Intimacy & Play: Jess opens up about stepping outside of her comfort zone and embracing new experiences without guilt.

[00:15:00] – The Power of Sisterhood: Lisa emphasizes how women uplifting each other creates a ripple effect of empowerment.

[00:25:00] – Champagne Moments: Jess shares how she honored her achievements with a personal ritual—champagne, caviar, and deep gratitude.

[00:33:00] – Letting Go of Scarcity Mindset: The discussion shifts to dismantling limiting beliefs around love, intimacy, and success.

[00:40:00] – A Challenge to Listeners: Jess and Lisa invite listeners to actively celebrate themselves and others in the upcoming week.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website – After-hours content, workshops, and events.

• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin – Understanding personal boundaries and pleasure dynamics.

• Midori’s Teachings on Sensual Mastery – Exploring feminine empowerment through intimacy.

• FetLife – A platform for connecting with kink-minded individuals and communities.

• Veuve Clicquot Champagne – Mentioned as Jess’s go-to for celebrating big moments.

• Lisa’s TikTok (@ThePolyWife) – Real-life insights on intimacy, relationships, and non-monogamy.

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In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) reflects on her ongoing journey with her partner Josh as they navigate the challenges of polyamory. Jess expresses her struggles with Josh’s desire to have other partners, despite their deep connection and fulfilling intimacy. Jess, Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) explore the roots of jealousy, emotional triggers, and self-reflection in relationships, particularly in polyamory. The hosts discuss the importance of personal growth, self-soothing, and accepting one’s partner without control or expectations. They also emphasize the necessity of building trust, open communication, and inner work in creating a healthy dynamic that respects individual autonomy and connection.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess sets the stage, explaining that this episode is deeply personal.

[00:02:00] – The Hamster Wheel Argument: Jess explains how she and Josh keep returning to the same conversation about his desire for multiple partners.

[00:05:00] – Is It Really About Intimacy?: Lisa challenges whether Josh is truly seeking multiple partners for connection—or if it’s a way to avoid deeper emotional work.

[00:10:00] – Jealousy as a Mirror: Lisa reframes jealousy as a tool for growth rather than a roadblock.

[00:15:00] – Josh’s Struggle with Making Friends: Jess questions why Josh seeks emotional fulfillment through intimacy instead of friendships.

[00:25:00] – The ‘Not Enough’ Fear: Jess unpacks her own wounds and why the fear of being replaced feels so real.

[00:33:00] – The Work is Yours, Not Theirs: Lisa explains why expecting men to "do the work" can lead to frustration—sometimes, the real work is choosing to accept them as they are.

[00:45:00] – Can You Love Them Anyway?: The key question Jess is left with: can she love Josh exactly as he is, without expecting him to change?

[00:55:00] – Final Reflections: Ella, Jess, and Lisa process the emotional heaviness of the conversation and how to move forward.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website – After-hours content, workshops, and coaching.

• Lisa’s TikTok (@ThePolyWife) – Real-talk on polyamory and relationship dynamics.

• More Than Two by Franklin Veaux & Eve Rickert – A deep dive into ethical non-monogamy.

• The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy – The ultimate guide to open relationships.

• Polysecure by Jessica Fern – A must-read for anyone navigating attachment styles in non-monogamy.

• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin – Understanding boundaries, power dynamics, and authentic connection.

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In this deep and emotionally charged episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) and her partner Josh join Lisa (The Poly Wife) and Ella (The Virgin) to discuss Jess and Josh’s evolving journey with polyamory. They dive into the complexities of maintaining autonomy, trust, and open communication while balancing individual desires and boundaries. Jess shares her struggles with accepting Josh’s exploration of polyamory, while Josh reflects on his need for freedom and deeper connections. The hosts openly address themes of jealousy, self-worth, and the tension between embracing personal desires and respecting partnership boundaries, making this a heartfelt exploration of vulnerability and growth within polyamory.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] – Welcome & Disclaimer: Jess introduces the topic, emphasizing that this episode is an unfiltered look into her relationship with Josh.

[00:02:00] – The Push & Pull of Polyamory: Jess recounts the back-and-forth cycle with Josh, the deep love they share, and the struggle to let go of control.

[00:04:00] – Josh’s Perspective: Why he feels the need to explore multiple relationships and how that affects his connection with Jess.

[00:08:00] – The Fear of Not Being Enough: Ella gets emotional about the idea of sharing a partner and struggles to understand the poly mindset.

[00:15:00] – Lisa’s Hard-Earned Wisdom: She reflects on her own journey through polyamory, letting go of control, and learning to celebrate her partners' happiness.

[00:25:00] – Trust, Freedom, & The Power of Letting Go: Jess talks about learning to release her grip and embrace the unknown.

[00:35:00] – The ‘Not Enough’ Wound: How self-worth plays a role in poly relationships and why comparison is the thief of joy.

[00:45:00] – Navigating Communication & Boundaries: The group discusses setting realistic expectations and working through discomfort in real time.

[00:55:00] – Final Reflections: What they’ve learned from this journey so far, and how they’re continuing to grow together and separately.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website: Access after-hours content, live Q&As, and workshops.

• Lisa’s TikTok (@ThePolyWife): Real-life insights into navigating polyamory.

• More Than Two by Franklin Veaux & Eve Rickert: A must-read for anyone considering ethical non-monogamy.

• The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy: A foundational book on open relationships and radical honesty.

• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A tool for understanding power dynamics in relationships.

Support the show

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In this episode, Lisa (The Poly Wife) shares her experiences and insights from her journey on TikTok, where she openly discusses ethical non-monogamy and polyamory. Lisa talks about the positive impact of her content, including heartfelt messages from followers who find comfort in her openness. She recounts the pushback and criticism she faces, particularly around traditional societal expectations, yet emphasizes the power of speaking her truth and inspiring others. Jess and Ella praise Lisa's courage and reflect on how her authenticity breaks stereotypes and encourages other women to explore joy, confidence, and unconventional paths.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess sets the stage for a conversation about speaking truth and breaking societal molds.

[00:02:00] – Lisa’s TikTok Journey: How she started sharing about ethical non-monogamy and the reactions she’s received.

[00:03:00] – The Power of Representation: Lisa reads a moving message from a follower who finally felt seen.

[00:05:00] – Shame, Judgment & Family Opinions: The common pushback Lisa gets and how she responds.

[00:08:00] – The Taboo of Women Dating Multiple Partners: Challenging outdated double standards.

[00:15:00] – Trailblazing & Visibility: Jess and Lisa discuss how normalizing diverse relationship structures can empower others.

[00:25:00] – Overcoming Internalized Fear: The emotional impact of stepping into the public eye and dealing with criticism.

[00:33:00] – TikTok as a Platform for Change: How short-form content is reshaping conversations around love, intimacy, and freedom.

[00:40:00] – Final Thoughts: The importance of continuing to show up, regardless of societal resistance

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website: Join the after-hours community, workshops, and coaching sessions.

• Lisa’s TikTok (@ListenToLisa): Follow Lisa’s journey and her honest take on ethical non-monogamy.

• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A foundational framework for understanding boundaries and self-awareness.

• Statistics on Ethical Non-Monogamy: Lisa references data showing that 17 million people in the U.S. have practiced ENM at some point in their lives.

• Books on Relationship Structures:
- More Than Two by Franklin Veaux & Eve Rickert
- The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy

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In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) is joined by her friend Harry, who shares his experiences and insights into predicament play—a BDSM technique where one partner is placed in a scenario that makes them face physical or mental challenges, requiring them to fully let go. Harry explains how predicament play can foster a deep level of trust and surrender, describing scenes that use restraints, tension, and balance to create intense sensations and a heightened state of awareness. Jess and Harry discuss the dynamics of dominance, trust-building, and self-discovery in BDSM, with Ella and Lisa posing questions to learn more about these practices from a beginner's perspective.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess introduces Harry and sets the stage for an in-depth exploration of predicament play.

[00:03:00] – Harry’s Journey into Kink: How he stepped into his Dom role and discovered the power of play.

[00:08:00] – What is Predicament Play?: Breaking down the art of putting a submissive in an inescapable situation—where surrender is the only option.

[00:15:00] – The Beauty of Letting Go: The psychology behind why some people crave structured torment and surrender.

[00:25:00] – The Role of Trust & Negotiation: How detailed negotiation ensures safety and satisfaction for all parties.

[00:33:00] – Lisa’s Anal Hook Excitement: A lighthearted moment where Lisa shares her curiosity and upcoming exploration.

[00:40:00] – Negotiating with a Sadist: Jess discusses the nuances of balancing pleasure, limits, and intensity in play.

[00:47:00] – Final Thoughts: The importance of curiosity, trust, and playfulness in any dynamic.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website: Explore after-hours content, upcoming workshops, and exclusive coaching.

• Midori’s The Art of Feminine Dominance: A go-to for understanding dominance and control dynamics.

• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A framework for understanding how to give, take, allow, and receive in intimate play.

• FetLife: Mentioned as a space to connect with kink-minded individuals and explore dynamics.

• Recommended Book: Anal & BDSM (Book 3): A deep dive into advanced anal play and its psychological effects.

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In this episode, Ella (The Virgin) poses questions to Jess (The Playful Domme) and Lisa (The Poly Wife) about maintaining intimacy and keeping the spark alive in long-term relationships. Ella shares concerns about aging and energy levels affecting her desire for frequent intimacy, prompting Lisa and Jess to discuss their approaches to balancing multiple partners, maintaining boundaries, and managing emotions. Lisa shares her recent experience with jealousy regarding her partner's connection with another lover, leading to insights on self-reflection and understanding personal desires. Jess emphasizes the importance of honoring oneself, communicating desires, and exploring self-care as a means of sustaining intimacy.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess kicks off the conversation with an invitation to explore seasons of desire and play.

[00:02:00] – Ella’s Question on Keeping Passion Alive: How do you keep things exciting when life gets in the way?

[00:05:00] – Lisa’s Reality Check on Non-Monogamy: Not all poly relationships involve frequent intimacy—Lisa breaks down the reality of time, energy, and connection with multiple partners.

[00:10:00] – Pheromones, Menopause & Chemistry: Lisa experiments with scent-based attraction and questions whether hormonal shifts impact desire.

[00:15:00] – Jess’s Perspective on Dry Spells & Seasons of Desire: How life, stress, and even small conflicts can impact passion.

[00:21:00] – What Would Please Me Now?: Jess explains how shifting from what’s expected to what would feel good creates new pathways for connection.

[00:28:00] – Lisa’s Unexpected Jealousy: How watching two partners connect sparked an unfamiliar feeling—and what she learned from it.

[00:35:00] – Reframing Jealousy as an Insight: Instead of seeing jealousy as a problem, Lisa unpacks it as a sign of unmet needs.

[00:39:00] – Communication as the Key to Reconnection: The trio shares strategies for talking through shifts in intimacy, attraction, and expectations.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website: Access exclusive content, workshops, and coaching sessions.

• Midori’s Teachings on Feminine Power: A reference to tools for owning desire and sensuality.

• Betty Martin’s The Wheel of Consent: A resource for understanding giving, receiving, and setting boundaries.

• Lisa’s TikTok (@ThePolyWife): Insights on non-monogamy, communication, and emotional intelligence.

• Aphrodisiac Pheromone Oils: Lisa experiments with pheromones and discusses their effect on attraction.

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In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) recounts her recent "Passionatrix Ignited" retreat, an immersive weekend designed for women to explore empowerment, sensuality, and self-expression through BDSM and intimacy practices. Jess, alongside her mentor Rina Trevi, guided seven women through activities like Shibari (Japanese rope bondage), the use of floggers, blindfolds, and goddess transfiguration rituals. The event provided a safe space for women from diverse backgrounds to connect deeply, explore their desires, and release past emotional burdens. Jess shares heartwarming stories of participants’ transformations, describing how they reconnected with themselves and even brought this newfound energy back into their personal relationships.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess introduces the episode, sharing the inspiration behind Passionatrix Ignited.

[00:03:00] – The Power of Women-Only Spaces: How removing men from the room allows women to step into their full selves.

[00:08:00] – Shibari as Emotional Release: Exploring rope bondage as a tool for surrender, catharsis, and healing.

[00:15:00] – Goddess Transfiguration Ritual: A sacred ritual where men honor women as goddesses and experience deep eye-gazing.

[00:25:00] – Josh’s First Kink Play: Jess’s partner Josh enters the scene, experiencing his first taste of submission and impact play.

[00:33:00] – The Beauty of Surrender: Women share their personal breakthroughs in trust and vulnerability.

[00:40:00] – Final Reflections & Takeaways: The lasting impact of the retreat and what’s next for future events.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website: For after-hours content, upcoming retreats, and coaching.

• Midori’s The Art of Feminine Dominance: A resource for stepping into confidence and sensual power.

• Rina Trevi’s Shibari Workshops: An introduction to the art of Japanese rope bondage.

• Betty Martin’s The Wheel of Consent: A foundational guide to understanding boundaries and power exchange.

Support the show

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