In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) dive into the importance of identifying and asking for what we truly desire in relationships, intimacy, and personal growth. Jess shares her experience of launching a retreat called "The Temptress," focusing on helping women explore empowerment through seduction and self-expression. The hosts discuss how self-discovery, setting boundaries, and confidently expressing desires can transform relationships. Lisa opens up about her journey of learning to ask for her needs within polyamory, while Jess and Ella emphasize the impact of honesty and clear communication on maintaining healthy dynamics.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] – Welcome & Disclaimer: Jess sets the tone for a deep conversation on self-expression, confidence, and sensuality.

[00:02:00] – Jess’s Healing Journey: From being shamed for her seductive energy to reclaiming it as a gift.

[00:08:00] – The Temptress Retreat: How a misheard word led to the creation of an event centered on feminine magnetism.

[00:15:00] – Seduction as a Superpower: How attraction, confidence, and desire are all deeply interconnected.

[00:25:00] – Lisa on Empowered vs. Disempowered Pleasure: How many women settle for ‘good enough’ instead of what they truly crave.

[00:33:00] – Magnetism & Receiving: The difference between chasing and attracting the love, pleasure, and experiences we desire.

[00:40:00] – A Personal Challenge to Listeners: Jess and Lisa encourage women to practice asking—without shame, without apology.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website – Exclusive after-hours content, workshops, and intimate coaching.

• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin – A framework for understanding giving, receiving, and pleasure dynamics.
Midori’s Teachings on Seduction & Sensual Mastery – Tools for stepping into feminine power.

• Power Priestess Retreats – Jess’s upcoming sensual embodiment experience for women.

• FetLife – Mentioned as a resource for those curious about expanding their desires in safe and informed ways.

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In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) and Lisa (The Poly Wife) discuss the importance of recognizing and celebrating personal achievements, big or small. They share their recent experiences with growth, empowerment, and gratitude, highlighting how often people, especially women, skip over their wins and move straight to the next goal. Jess recounts a “champagne moment” when she celebrated recent accomplishments with champagne and caviar, reflecting on the importance of pausing to honor milestones. Lisa also reflects on her journey, noting how sisterhood and mutual celebration among women create a supportive environment for personal growth. They encourage listeners to celebrate themselves and their friends, reinforcing a mindset of abundance and joy.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess and Lisa kick off the episode by reflecting on the importance of celebrating personal and shared wins.

[00:02:00] – Jess’s Transformative Week: How shifting her mindset led to unexpected abundance—new lovers, new career opportunities, and a deep sense of joy.

[00:08:00] – Redefining Intimacy & Play: Jess opens up about stepping outside of her comfort zone and embracing new experiences without guilt.

[00:15:00] – The Power of Sisterhood: Lisa emphasizes how women uplifting each other creates a ripple effect of empowerment.

[00:25:00] – Champagne Moments: Jess shares how she honored her achievements with a personal ritual—champagne, caviar, and deep gratitude.

[00:33:00] – Letting Go of Scarcity Mindset: The discussion shifts to dismantling limiting beliefs around love, intimacy, and success.

[00:40:00] – A Challenge to Listeners: Jess and Lisa invite listeners to actively celebrate themselves and others in the upcoming week.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website – After-hours content, workshops, and events.

• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin – Understanding personal boundaries and pleasure dynamics.

• Midori’s Teachings on Sensual Mastery – Exploring feminine empowerment through intimacy.

• FetLife – A platform for connecting with kink-minded individuals and communities.

• Veuve Clicquot Champagne – Mentioned as Jess’s go-to for celebrating big moments.

• Lisa’s TikTok (@ThePolyWife) – Real-life insights on intimacy, relationships, and non-monogamy.

Support the show

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Want more?😏

Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session.

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In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) reflects on her ongoing journey with her partner Josh as they navigate the challenges of polyamory. Jess expresses her struggles with Josh’s desire to have other partners, despite their deep connection and fulfilling intimacy. Jess, Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) explore the roots of jealousy, emotional triggers, and self-reflection in relationships, particularly in polyamory. The hosts discuss the importance of personal growth, self-soothing, and accepting one’s partner without control or expectations. They also emphasize the necessity of building trust, open communication, and inner work in creating a healthy dynamic that respects individual autonomy and connection.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess sets the stage, explaining that this episode is deeply personal.

[00:02:00] – The Hamster Wheel Argument: Jess explains how she and Josh keep returning to the same conversation about his desire for multiple partners.

[00:05:00] – Is It Really About Intimacy?: Lisa challenges whether Josh is truly seeking multiple partners for connection—or if it’s a way to avoid deeper emotional work.

[00:10:00] – Jealousy as a Mirror: Lisa reframes jealousy as a tool for growth rather than a roadblock.

[00:15:00] – Josh’s Struggle with Making Friends: Jess questions why Josh seeks emotional fulfillment through intimacy instead of friendships.

[00:25:00] – The ‘Not Enough’ Fear: Jess unpacks her own wounds and why the fear of being replaced feels so real.

[00:33:00] – The Work is Yours, Not Theirs: Lisa explains why expecting men to "do the work" can lead to frustration—sometimes, the real work is choosing to accept them as they are.

[00:45:00] – Can You Love Them Anyway?: The key question Jess is left with: can she love Josh exactly as he is, without expecting him to change?

[00:55:00] – Final Reflections: Ella, Jess, and Lisa process the emotional heaviness of the conversation and how to move forward.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website – After-hours content, workshops, and coaching.

• Lisa’s TikTok (@ThePolyWife) – Real-talk on polyamory and relationship dynamics.

• More Than Two by Franklin Veaux & Eve Rickert – A deep dive into ethical non-monogamy.

• The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy – The ultimate guide to open relationships.

• Polysecure by Jessica Fern – A must-read for anyone navigating attachment styles in non-monogamy.

• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin – Understanding boundaries, power dynamics, and authentic connection.

Support the show

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Want more?😏

Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session.

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#ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts