Have you ever felt the growing pains of friendships in adulthood or the weight of balancing motherhood with your own well-being?

What if the key to deeper, more fulfilling connections lies in how we regulate our stress and nurture ourselves first?

In this episode, I sit down with stress regulation coach Tejal V. Patel to explore the complex yet rewarding journey of friendships and motherhood in midlife.

We dive into:

✨ The realities of adult friendships—how they shift, evolve, and sometimes rupture before deepening

✨ The power of self-relationship—why prioritizing your inner world transforms every relationship around you

✨ Emotional well-being for children—how your regulation directly impacts their resilience and growth

✨ Pivoting from a high-stress career to purpose-driven work—Tejal shares her journey and tips for making the shift without burnout

This heartwarming conversation is packed with wisdom, real-life stories, and practical tools to help you cultivate more nourishing relationships—both with yourself and those you love.

00:00 Introduction: Navigating Friendships and Motherhood

00:55 Meet Tejal V. Patel: Stress Regulation Coach and Author

01:33 Deep Dive: Personal Challenges and Adult Relationships

02:39 Finding Your Tribe in Motherhood

06:35 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Friendships

09:38 The Importance of Self-Acceptance in Social Situations

14:27 Navigating Relationship Ruptures and Healing

21:33 The Power of Repair in Relationships

33:33 Free Mini Training: Healing Stress Patterns

36:39 Embracing Imperfection in Parenting

37:51 Navigating Adult Friendships and Communication

38:55 Launching a Podcast and Overcoming Anxiety

41:11 Transitioning from Law to Healing Work

43:58 Integrating Yoga and Meditation into Life

53:01 Balancing Motherhood and Personal Well-being

01:00:55 Final Thoughts and Advice

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When life is lifing—when everything feels like it’s coming at you at once, knocking you down, and testing every ounce of your strength—it’s easy to feel stuck, overwhelmed, and exhausted. But here’s the truth: while pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.

In this episode, I’m sharing how I’ve navigated one of the hardest weeks of my life while still finding flow, resilience, and a way forward. We’ll talk about:
🔥 Why suffering often comes from our resistance to what is
🔥 The power of pendulation—how to move through emotions instead of getting stuck in them
🔥 Practical ways to support your nervous system when you feel like you're drowning
🔥 How to borrow energy, beliefs, and perspectives to shift your state
🔥 The difference between numbing out and truly resourcing yourself

If you’re in a season where everything feels heavy, I see you. You are not alone. Let’s talk about how to not just survive these moments but actually thrive through them.

🎧 Tune in now, and if this episode resonates, share it with a friend who might need it.

🔗 Resources mentioned:

• Free Align & Thrive Workbook
• The Art of Thriving Workshop – Join me live on Feb 28!

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Have you ever wondered how pleasure and healing can intertwine to create profound transformation? In this episode, we explore the world of Tantra, embodiment, and sexual alchemy with Lauren Harkness, diving deep into how these practices expand pleasure, process trauma, and awaken life force energy.

We unpack:

✨ How Tantra practices like embodiment and extended orgasm help heal trauma and unlock deeper pleasure

✨ Lauren’s path to discovering Tantra, overcoming her own wounds, and stepping into her role as a guide

✨ The surprising connection between BDSM, kink, and boundary work—and why they’re powerful tools for personal empowerment

✨ How Lauren creates safe, nurturing spaces for exploration through her programs and workshops

If you’re curious about how these practices can expand your pleasure, deepen your healing, and transform your relationship with power, this conversation is for you. Tune in and explore what’s possible when you fully embrace your life force energy.

Today, you’ll learn all about:

00:00 Introduction and Reconnecting 00:55 Burnout and Seeking Healing 03:28 Transformative Retreat Experience 06:00 Understanding Tantra and Embodiment 13:34 Exploring Extended Orgasm and Peaking 25:59 BDSM and Kink Workshop Insights 36:43 Personal Journey and Professional Path 42:58 Closing Thoughts and Upcoming Events

Episode Resources:

Connect with Lauren Harkess!

https://www.instagram.com/sensualalchemistress/

👩‍💻 Grab the FREE Align & Thrive Workbook!

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💖 Episode Description:

Love is always here. But are you allowing yourself to receive it?

In this special mini-bonus episode, I share a powerful realization that changed everything—the shift that helped me move from longing for love to fully receiving and embodying it in my body, my relationships, and my life.

For so long, I felt a gaping hole in my heart, searching for love in places it never lived. But when I finally shifted my focus, something incredible happened:
✨ The pain neutralized.
✨ My body softened.
✨ My heart opened to the love that had been there all along.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from love, this is for you.

Take a deep breath, listen in, and let this be the reminder you need today. 💖

🎧 Listen now & DM me your thoughts!

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Have you ever felt like you were trying to force yourself into a way of living that just doesn’t fit? What if there was a system that could help you understand exactly how you’re meant to operate—without burnout, frustration, or constant second-guessing?

In this episode, I sit down with Human Design expert Erin Claire Jones to unpack how this powerful system can transform your well-being, relationships, and life flow. We break down:

✨ What Human Design actually is (and why it’s different from astrology or personality tests)

✨ The five Human Design archetypes and how to discover your type

✨ How understanding your energy, decision-making strategy, and strengths can bring more ease into your daily life

✨ How Erin uses Human Design in her marriage, parenting, and business to create alignment and flow

✨ Practical ways to apply your unique design to work, love, parenting, and self-growth

Whether you’re completely new to Human Design or looking to deepen your understanding, this episode will help you see why honoring your true nature is the key to unlocking more joy, success, and ease in your life.

Plus, Erin teases her upcoming book, where she brings the wisdom of Human Design to a broader audience, making it both practical and accessible for everyday life.

Today, you’ll learn all about:

00:00 Introduction and Catching Up

01:02 Discovering Human Design

03:30 Impact of Human Design on Personal Life

06:06 Building a Business with Human Design

12:29 Human Design in Relationships

16:11 Parenting with Human Design

20:44 Overview of Human Design Types

25:02 Creating Space for Projectors

25:47 The Importance of Rest for Projectors

26:38 Recognizing Genuine Invitations

27:51 Managing Energy and Avoiding Burnout

29:35 Understanding Manifestors

31:10 Exploring Reflectors

33:38 The Not-Self Theme and Alignment

38:12 Applying Human Design in Real Life

44:03 Human Design Resources and Tools

46:55 Mainstreaming Human Design

Episode Resources:

Website: Human Design Blueprint

Book: How Do You Choose by Erin Claire Jones

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Welcome to Your Well Life, a podcast devoted to creating harmony in the ecosystems of our bodies, guiding us to alignment of our true, authentic selves and leading us to living lives that feel in flow through releasing the stress and trauma patterns that impair our liberation and ability to flourish and thrive.

I’m your host, Misha Vayner, a certified, trauma informed holistic health and life coach and mother of 3. I support moms in reclaiming their most authentic and expanded versions of themselves in mind, body and soul through helping them heal and rewire the patterns that are taking them out of alignment.

In this podcast, I will engage in thought provoking, inspiring, deep, relatable and healing conversations that continue to explore the roots of our misalignment coupled with unconventional and varied ways to realign.

I was led to this work from my own radically transformational healing journey that resulted in profound and wild shifts. I will bring conversations here from my own ever evolving healing journey, as well as bring my clients, friends and teachers on to share their stories and wisdom. I deeply believe that no matter what you’ve been through, you have the opportunity to access your most aligned self and live a life of magic and flow.

Now let’s get cozy and let’s dive in.

To learn more about Misha’s work, please visit: www.mishavayner.com