Episodes

  • Episode 290: Living In Your Marriage

    Episode 290: Living In Your Marriage
    Mar 9 2025
    Alli and Melisa reflect back on what life was like during the transistion of knowing they were gay and figuring out what to do about their marriages. Also, how to cope with "PTSD" from past relationships.
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    43 mins
  • Episode 289: The Wonder That Is Loretta Bush/Introducing Your Person to Your Kids

    Episode 289: The Wonder That Is Loretta Bush/Introducing Your Person to Your Kids
    Mar 2 2025
    Alli and Melisa cover a wide variety of topics this week...
    -Melisa's co-parenting trip to Colorado
    -The internet's infatuation with Loretta Bush (the FBI agent from Netflix's Gabby Petito doc)
    -When/how to introduce your partner to your kids
    -How life feels so insecure when you're early on in your coming out journey
    -Late in life coming out support group in Atlanta (Melissa Lester, LCSW Coming Out Support Group)
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    52 mins
  • Episode 288: Hot Pursuit!

    Episode 288: Hot Pursuit!
    Feb 23 2025
    How do you pursue someone you're interested in? Do you slide into their DMs? Or send a hot pic right out the gate? Melisa and Alli explore this topic -- and their own success (ahem, failures)
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    33 mins
  • Episode 287: Long Distance Dating

    Episode 287: Long Distance Dating
    Feb 16 2025
    Melisa and Meredith are in the hot seat to talk the reality of dating long distace -- with Melisa in Atlanta and Meredith in Austin.
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    38 mins
  • Episode 286: Age Gaps in Relationships

    Episode 286: Age Gaps in Relationships
    Feb 9 2025
    Alli and Melisa discuss age gaps in romantic relationships and what factors to consider when it comes to moving forward with an age gap relationship. Also, what happens to a friend group when a couple within the group breaks up? The percieved feeling of "keeping your friendships" in tact while also losing your friend/ex all within the confines of a social group.
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    42 mins
  • Episode 285: Time is Currency

    Episode 285: Time is Currency
    Feb 2 2025
    Alli and Melisa discuss questions you should ask yourself about your relationship...
    1. If someone said, "You're just like your partner," would that feel like a compliment?
    2. Are you truly fulfilled by this relationship or just less lonely?
    3. Can you unapologetically be yourself?
    4. Are you in love with who they are right now? Or the potential of who they could eventually become?
    5. Would you choose a relationship like this for your child as an adult?
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    58 mins
  • Episode 284: Meet Kayla/ Finca to Filter

    Episode 284: Meet Kayla/ Finca to Filter
    Jan 26 2025
    Kayla Bellman, Owner and Founder of Finca to Filter, joins the podcast to share her coming out story and how she started her very own coffee shop in Atlanta.

    Finca to Filter Website
    Finca to Filter Instagram
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    51 mins
  • Episode 283: Meet Julie Birke

    Episode 283: Meet Julie Birke
    Jan 19 2025
    Actress and comedian Julie Birke joins the show to share her Loves, Lies, Lesbians story from TikTok. Buckle up for gaslighting, breadcrumbing and a random bath in the midst of a breakup!

    Julie Birke TikTok

    Julie Birke Instagram
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    46 mins