• The Emotional Toll of Procrastination
    Dec 17 2024

    Today we're talking all things ADHD and procrastination. Longtime FOCUSED member and certified FOCUSED ADHD Coach, Steev, joins me to share his story and discuss the struggles he's faced as a late-diagnosed ADHDer. We dive into the challenges of procrastination, particularly in the context of ADHD.

    I've never met an ADHDer who didn't struggle with procrastination, so buckle up and let's go.

    Find more information about Steev on his website http://damnhealthydose.com/

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    58 mins
  • Self-Seduction: The Secret ADHD Strategy That ACTUALLY Works
    Dec 10 2024

    Dr. Nachi (Michael) Felt, Ph.D. is an ADHD & Executive Functioning specialist who has lectured at Yale University School of Medicine, and is a professor at Columbia University where he teaches Psychopathology and co-directs the Cognition and Neuroscience Research Lab.

    In this episode, Dr. Felt talks about the ADHD 'Cycle of Ambiguity,' and introduces his 'Felt Five' method for creating clarity and aligning with personal values.

    Learn more about Dr. Felt and his work at adhddoctor.org.

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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • 292 ADHD Diagnoses EXPOSED: What Doctors Don’t Tell You!
    Dec 3 2024

    Dr. Jessica McCarthy, a licensed clinical psychologist and neuropsychologist specializing in ADHD assessments is here to discuss the assessment process, the importance of finding the right clinician, and the steps involved in obtaining an ADHD diagnosis.

    Dr. McCarthy shares insights on how to navigate the often daunting assessment experience, emphasizing the need for a supportive and understanding environment. The conversation also touches on personal experiences with ADHD, the role of lifestyle in managing symptoms, and the importance of comprehensive testing to understand individual challenges.

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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • 291 Navigating ADHD Unemployment: The Tough Truth About Self-Worth and Career Identity!
    Nov 26 2024

    I'm here today with FOCUSED member Matt Ciciarelli who lost his job as a Marketing Director in November of 2023 and has been navigating life for the last year as an unemployed father of 3.

    A few months ago Matt decided he needed to do whatever it took to help his family out financially, and he's been digging graves ever since.

    Matt shares his experiences from diagnosis to navigating family dynamics, employment challenges, and the impact of COVID-19 on his mental health.

    You're going to be so inspired by Matt's resolve and his determination to evolve into the man his wife and children need him to be. I am always impressed by my clients, and Matt is no exception.

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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • 290 The Truth About ADHD Families: How to Finally END the Drama with Dr. Tamara Rosier
    Nov 19 2024

    MY HERO Dr. Tamara Rosier is here to discuss her new book, 'You, Me, and Our ADHD Family.'

    The conversation delves into the complexities of relationships within ADHD families, the challenges of rejection sensitivity, and the importance of understanding oneself to foster healthier connections.

    Dr. Rosier shares her insights on navigating family dynamics, the significance of cycle-breaking, and the distinction between safe and toxic relationships.

    The episode emphasizes the need for emotional regulation and transformational thinking in overcoming the struggles associated with ADHD. In this conversation, Kristen Carder explores the themes of survival versus transformational thinking, the importance of witnessing others' experiences, and the processes of reaching, repairing, and reconnecting within family dynamics, especially in the context of ADHD.

    She emphasizes the significance of understanding emotional boundaries and the journey of parenting, highlighting that it's never too late to make amends and grow from past experiences.

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • 289 Self-Awareness (And Why People With ADHD Suck At It)
    Nov 12 2024

    Self-awareness is one of our deficient executive functioning skills and it can REALLY hold us ADHDers back if we're not careful.

    Feel like you make the same mistakes over and over? That's in part because of lack of self-awareness. Feel like you don't know yourself, who you are, and what you want? Yeah, that's because your self-awareness isn't great.

    In this episode, my client Joe Corpus is here to discuss his path to self-awareness and the crucial role that acceptance played in the process.

    Joe was diagnosed with ADHD as a child but told by his mother that he was "fine" and "didn't need medication." What ensued was decades of feeling disconnected from others, but mostly disconnected from himself.

    Joe shares his journey of developing self-awareness and how this can only be done with a hefty dose of self-acceptance. And the pathway? Well, you may not like it (I sure don't!): GRIEF.

    We talk about it all...you're going to feel so nurtured by this episode, I just know it.

    Joe Corpus is from Houston Texas. He owns a small, full-service gardening company dedicated to the stewardship of a limited number of high-end residential properties. Joe has been a part of FOCUSED for 10 months. He was diagnosed with ADHD approximately two years before the pandemic.


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    57 mins
  • 288 "I Thought Taking Medication Was Cheating!" Self-Motivation & Task Initiation For Adults With ADHD
    Nov 5 2024

    Liz Poggi went from what her doctor labeled as "the worst case of undiagnosed ADHD I've ever seen" to someone who helps people with ADHD achieve to their goals on a daily basis.

    Our discussion will address societal skepticism about ADHD and the clarity that a diagnosis brings.

    Together, Liz and I explore the role of medication, community support, and structured routines that incorporate mindfulness and movement to boost motivation.

    We’ll tackle misconceptions linking ADHD with laziness and address the stigma of feeling unlovable due to past experiences.

    You're not going to want to miss this heartfelt episode!

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    53 mins
  • 287 Is Your Life An ADHD Dumpster Fire?
    Oct 29 2024

    I've got another solo show for you this week and as always you're going to need to strap in for the ride!

    First: I'll explain the concept of living in survival mode and help you to work your way out of the dumpster fire that is your ADHD life.

    Then, I answer YOUR questions! We discuss how to transition smoothly between tasks and how to advocate for yourself.

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    I AM SUPER EXCITED ABOUT THE RESOURCE OF THE WEEK - so make sure to tune into that around minute 38:00.

    We discuss this research on sunlight helping us sleep better, and lastly, I share what triggered me (hint: my Instagram comments). We end on a spicy note, as usual.

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    59 mins