• The Eight Key Elements to Political Wellbeing: Anna Miley of Locale Learning
    Jan 30 2025
    Welcome to the Healing Our Politics Podcast!Join Our Community and Receive Free Tools + How to Guides:Join “The Leader’s Handbook” newsletter https://leadershandbook.substack.com/about· Always free· Once per month email· Curated selection of tools, techniques, and practices discussed on this podcast· Delivered in simple to follow how-to-guides· To try and test in your life, and teach your teams.JOIN HERE https://leadershandbook.substack.com/about Guest:Anna Miley is a powerhouse in mindset and mental well-being, working with leaders to create a successful balance in their lives as Lead Coach at Locale Learning, an organization committed to transforming the experiences of Australia’s elected leaders. A graduate of the University of Canberra with degrees in sports science, physiology, and psychology, Anna is also a certified hypnotherapy practitioner, a neuro-linguistic programming expert, an accredited exercise physiologist, and yoga therapist. Anna’s professional mission is to educate on the power of self-care in leadership. She has a deep understanding of the impact of stress on the body and the mind, and how to boost performance and reduce the mental load through mindfulness techniques.About the Episode: In today’s episode, I sit down with Anna Miley, an expert in mindset, mental well-being, and leadership. We dive into her personal journey, starting with a genetic childhood condition that set her on the path to healing and helping others do the same. We cover practical strategies for building your own “mental health first aid kit,” the importance of movement, the “Middle Way,” and how to tackle people-pleasing and perfectionism. Plus, we get into the science behind affirmations and how to use them to amplify your leadership. Anna shares her insight and experiences as lead Coach with Locale Learning, an Australian-based company focused on transforming the experience of elected leaders developing ethical, mindful, and high-performing leaders. Recognized by the Apolitical Foundation as one of 26 international political well-being trailblazers, Locale Learning is revolutionizing leadership development in Australia, mirroring the work of the Elected Leaders Collective here in the U.S. We’ll explore how their Eight step Political Well-Being Framework can help you pinpoint the areas in your life and leadership that need the most growth—and how to take action. It’s a packed episode, so let’s dive in!Key Topics Discussed:· [00:00:58] Epidsode/Guest Intro · [00:04:20] “It’s All Too Hard Basket” · [00:05:55] Our Twin in Australia· [00:07:40] The Mere Mortals Report: A-Political Foundation · [00:09:24] How the Health Journey Began · [00:12:38] Lessons Learned Early · [00:16:02] What was the “Story” · [00:18:30] What was Working? · [00:20:26] The Permission into Self Inquiry · [00:22:13] “Mental Health First Aid” · [00:29:40] 15 Second Meditation · [00:33:00] Anna’s Broad Skill Set: Anna’s Style · [00:35:44] ELC Foundation donors (https://www.electedleaderscollective.com/donate)· [00:38:07] Describing the Work of Supporting our Leaders· [00:40:27] How Anna Got Roped In · [00:42:12] The Stats of Stigma · [00:44:20] A Pharmaceutical Approach: Not Right for Everyone · [00:45:40] The Perks of “The Work”· [00:47:13] High Performance, Passionate People · [00:48:42] Ahead of the Curve(ball) · [00:50:20] Boundaries are Your Job · [00:52:40] Modern Politics · [00:53:55] Prescriptive vs. Self Directed & The Middle Path · [00:56:44] None of this is Easy· [00:57:37] The Transformational Coach vs. The Athletic Coach (YES! AND! ) · [01:00:28] Locale Learning Containers · [01:05:48] Session Methods & Takeaways · [01:08:00] Locale Learning’s Wellbeing Framework · [01:12:12] How to Navigate the Framework: I. Awareness II. Identify III. Adopt Mindset IV. Developing Micro Skills V. Access Resources · [01:13:54] The 8 Core Elements of Political Wellbeing: i. Physical and Mental Health ii. Social Connection iii. Digital Safety iv. Technical Know-How v. Motivation & Attitude vi. Time & Capacity vii. Relationships & Conflict viii. Ethical Action · [01:20:52] Mindsets & Affirmations · [01:23:55] Empowering with Tools of Self Reflection & Action · [01:26:00] Affirmations are Science !!!· [01:28:48] Feedback about the Framework· [01:30:53] Financing · [01:33:15] We’re All Human: Performance is Relative · [01:34:54] Heartlead Work: The Human Side of Politics · [01:36:30] Overcoming People Pleasing & Perfectionism · [01:37:22] Saying No & Taking a Literal Step Back · [01:40:30] Stop Apologizing: Thank & Acknowledge · [01:42:47] Humor in the Work? · [01:44:32] The Best People · [01:45:00] Getting Braver: Letting Go of Inner Doubt · [01:48:45] Final Question: Remind Yourself of Your Purpose · [01:50:00] “The Leader’s Handbook” (https://www.healingourpolitics.com/#...
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    1 hr and 53 mins
  • The Peaceful Warrior and the Three-legged Stool: Paul Andersen and the Huts for Vets Methodology
    Jan 16 2025
    Welcome to the Healing Our Politics Podcast!Join Our Community and Receive Free Tools + How to Guides:Join “The Leader’s Handbook” newsletter https://leadershandbook.substack.com/about· Always free· Once per month email· Curated selection of tools, techniques, and practices discussed on this podcast· Delivered in simple to follow how-to-guides· To try and test in your life, and teach your teams.JOIN HERE Guest:Paul Anderson is a writer, historian, and humanitarian with a jaw-dropping 40+ years of experience. He’s written thousands of news columns, authored 17 books, and even scripted over a dozen movies and IMAX films. But Paul’s story doesn’t stop there. He’s a changemaker. He founded 'Nature and Society,' a groundbreaking seminar at the Aspen Institute, and 'Huts for Vets,' a nonprofit offering transformative wilderness experiences for veterans in the stunning 10th Mountain Division hut system near Aspen, Colorado. Inducted into the Aspen Hall of Fame just last year, Paul is a force of nature who’s always aiming higher—whether it’s growing 'Huts for Vets' or living by his mantra to give 'meaning to every interaction.' If you’re looking for a masterclass in creativity, resilience, and purpose-driven leadership, you’re in the right place.About the Episode: In this episode, we explore the profound connection between nature, philosophy, and healing. Discover the Japanese practice of Shinrin-yoku, or 'forest bathing,' and how immersing yourself in nature can help you reconnect, rejuvenate, and boost performance. We challenge the label of PTSD as a 'disorder,' reframing it as PTS—the body's natural response to life-or-death trauma—to reduce stigma and support healing. We delve into the overlooked issue of sexual trauma in the military and uncover lessons civilians can learn. Our conversation takes us into the world of classic philosophy, examining the links between disconnection—from others, from purpose, and from something greater, and self —and mental health. We unpack the 'Aspen Idea,' exploring the “three-legged stool” of mind, body, and spirit, and share practical ways to cultivate balance in your life. We discuss the transformative power of a “solo”, the ways we shape and are shaped by our environments, and the enduring impact of history and service. Finally, Paul shares his extraordinary journey to founding Huts for Vets, a nonprofit that has touched countless lives.I hope you enjoy this soulful, wide-ranging, and thought-provoking conversation with Paul Andersen.**Content Advisory: Suicide and SA are discussed in this episode. Key Topics Discussed:· [00:02:00] Episode/guest intro · [00:05:35] What is ‘Huts for Vets?’ · [00:06:25] The 10th Mountain Division Huts System· [00:07:03] Why this cause? · [00:08:27] The “Choice” of War for the Solider: The Unavoidable Repercussions · [00:11:03] Huts for Vets origin story · [00:11:53] Authentic, selfless motivation speaks volumes· [00:16:52] What is the Process? · [00:17:30] What is the Aspen Idea? · [00:19:52] The Aspen Idea as a Tripod: Balance· [00:22:03] The Methodology at Huts for Vets · [00:22:45] Shinrin-yoku · [00:26:36] Military Unit as the Family Unit · [00:27:18] It's a ME world, not a WE world.· [00:29:10] What is The Aspen Institute?· [00:30:39] “No man is an island” · [00:32:34] “Thank you for your service" · [00:33:35] What can we do? · [00:35:38] SPONSOR: ELC (https://www.electedleaderscollective.com)· [00:38:05] Huts for Vets in Ukraine· [00:39:02] The Science of Spirit · [00:44:35] Self-realization and the power of a Solo · [00:47:57] Soldiers, Civilians and Enemies all need Healing · [00:48:40] Some Aspen History · [00:49:45] Founders from both sides of the Civil War · [00:50:58] A population primed for violence · [00:53:26] The History of Trauma · [00:54:40] The many names of PTS(D) or Moral Injury · [01:59:55] From Convincing to Waitlisting · [01:02:22] Women in Military Service · [01:03:53] SA prevalence in Military Service · [01:04:55] Offering Tools through a Dialogue· [01:05:48] Other Tools for Coping · [01:06:44] Funding and Facilities · [01:08:35] Can Huts for Vets Expand to Other Wilds? · [01:09:38] How can Leaders use the Huts for Vets Methodology? · [01:10:44] The Power of 20 minutes in Nature · [01:12:50] Transcendence in Nature marks the Leaders of 3 Major Religions · [01:14:18] Your Inner Voice · [01:16:24] Converting “Matter into Spirit” · [01:18:49] Living your Values· [01:22:40] “Let us not live trivial lives” · [01:25:05] “The Leader’s Handbook” (https://www.healingourpolitics.com/#newsletter) Newsletter · [01:26:06] Sponsor: ELC; Coaching for Public Servants (https://www.electedleaderscollective.com)Key References and Resources Mentioned:· [00:06:25] The 10th Mountain Division Huts System · [00:13:20] Oliver Wendell Holmes Sr. · [00:17:14] Nature and ...
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    1 hr and 28 mins
  • Feeling to Heal: Emotional Mastery for Leaders w/ Jamie Butemeyer
    Jan 2 2025
    Join Our Community and Receive Free Tools + How to Guides:Join “The Leader’s Handbook” newsletter· Always free· Once per month email· Curated selection of tools, techniques, and practices discussed on this podcast· Delivered in simple to follow how-to-guides· To try and test in your life, and teach your teams.JOIN HEREGuest:Jamie Butemeyer is a transformational mastery coach + movement facilitator, and former musical theater artist whose coaching practice exists at the intersection of artistry and entrepreneurship. Based in Aspen, Colorado, Jamie’s client roster includes women CEOs, billionaires, and leaders of all kinds, working one-on-one and in group formats. Her signature program, “Leading Lady,” helps women step out of the background and into the main stage of their lives. Jamie is the head female coach for the Elected Leaders Collective and the co-creator of the Body Alive practice at Aspen Shakti, transforming bodies and lives nationwide. She is also a certified breathwork facilitator. Her journey includes achievements as a prestigious University of Oklahoma’s theater program graduate and a Miss Teen Oklahoma title. Jamie’s mission as a coach is to help individuals step into their most authentic, empowered selves through emotional mastery and personal transformation.About the Episode: In this episode, I sit down with the best human I know, my better half and partner in life and love, Jamie Butemeyer. We discuss the intersection of authenticity, leadership, emotional intelligence, and success. We delve into Jamie’s background, growing up in Lawton, Oklahoma, and being on stage as a beauty queen from a young age. We talk about childhood patterns and the unconscious programming she picked up as a little one. Jamie shares where her insecurities and limiting beliefs held her back from becoming the Broadway star in NYC she wanted to be but ultimately planted the seeds of her success. Jamie talks about how making big bets on herself paid off and reflects on how embracing emotions, owning her fear, and cultivating emotional mastery skills freed her to become the world-class coach and leader of leaders she is today —all essential skills for leaders like you in high-stakes environments.We dive into practices like nonviolent communication, somatic awareness, and the power of community to foster healing and connection. Jamie offers unique insights into being a partner to a public servant and what she learned about how you, as a spouse or partner, can contribute to a conscious relationship that safeguards and supercharges the relationship and your service.This episode is a heartfelt invitation to claim your fullest potential by integrating the full human experience into your leadership. Jamie has been right here with me, helping me find the courage, compassion, and authenticity to be here with you today, and I know in her wisdom that you will find more of these things for yourself.**Content Advisory: SA is discussed beginning at [01:06:03] and ending at [01:06:51]**Key Topics Discussed:· [00:01:50] Episode Overview· [00:04:13] Guest Introduction · [00:06:42] Early life in Oklahoma· [00:09:09] Miss Oklahoma· [00:10:53] Young Jamie stood out· [00:13:52] Personas and masks· [00:15:37] When is it time to hang it up? · [00:18:34] Paralyzed by fear· [00:19:39] Kobe Bryant’s keys to success · [00:21:21] The efficacy of unconditional lover · [00:25:46] Lifestyle to support goals · [00:27:42] Learning from my past· [00:29:09] Working with fear· [00:30:53] Knowing what I know now· [00:31:34] Feel it to free it· [00:33:40] Make BIG: bet on yourself· [00:36:51] Are you ready to die?· [00:39:24] What is a transformational coach? · [00:42:10] What does one do in coaching? · [00:43:40] Unconscious emotional suppression· [00:46:00] SPONSOR: ELC · [00:48:25] Avoidant behaviors· [00:51:46] Emotional Indulgence· [00:55:03] Finding Balance· [00:57:45] Owning your fears· [00:59:12] Effective confrontation · [01:00:30] 4 F’s of the nervous system - fight, flight, freeze, faun· [01:03:00] “Poet Lauriet” Macklemore· [01:04:25] Victim to empowerment mindset · [01:05:22] Happening for you, not to you· [01:06:03] Podcast: Suffering to Strength: Ashley Grimmel on Transmuting Pressure into Power, Resilience, and Health· [01:07:16] Caroline Myss; archetype work· [01:08:00] Nonviolent communication framework· [01:11:15] The fire of love· [01:14:25] The partner/spouse of public leaders experience· [01:18:59] Supporting yourself as a partner· [01:20:56] Approaches to support your partner· [01:22:50] “The third entity” - Family first· [01:24:20] Work/life harmony · [01:25:14] Abundant time use· [01:27:12] Closing question: Feel your feelings!· [01:28:40] “The Leader’s Handbook” Newsletter· [01:29:43] Sponsor: ELC Key References and Resources Mentioned:· [00:04:50] Leading Lady · [00:05:07] Body Alive @ Aspen Shakti· [00:05:30]...
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    1 hr and 32 mins
  • Rethinking Health: Connection, Purpose, and Joy w/Lifestyle Medicine Dr. Jasdeep Saluja
    Dec 19 2024
    Join Our Community and Receive Free Tools + How to Guides:Join “The Leader’s Handbook” newsletter · Always free· Once per month email· Curated selection of tools, techniques, and practices discussed on this podcast· Delivered in simple to follow how-to-guides· To try and test in your life, and teach your teams.JOIN HEREGuest:Dr. Jasdeep Saluja is the Chief Medical officer and Co-Founder of the Aroga Institute, which has served over 10,000 patients through the six pillars of lifestyle medicine: nutrition, fun physical activity, stress management, avoidance of risky substances, restorative sleep, and social connections, and his seventh pillar, purpose and meaning. With this integrative approach, he helps patients improve their lifespan and healthspan while reclaiming their joy and impact in the world. Dr. Saluja is widely regarded as a preeminent leader in his field, serving as a diplomat at the American Board of Obesity Medicine, an advisory council member of the Global Positive Health Institute, an advisory board member of the American Board of Lifestyle Medicine, and at the Elected Leaders Collective. About the Episode: In this episode, we explore Dr. Jasdeep Saluja’s deeply personal path to discovering Lifestyle Medicine. This journey began with changing his habits to support his father and evolved into transforming the health of thousands. Dr. Saluja shares how Lifestyle Medicine bridges the gap between lifespan and healthspan, empowering you to take control of your health future. We discuss the six pillars of Lifestyle Medicine and actionable steps to improve your well-being—whether you’re struggling with weight, hypertension, pre-diabetes, brain fog, or want to feel better in your body and mind. We explore how to integrate these tools effectively, from the essential health screenings and evaluations you should consider to wearable technology for tracking fitness. We also dive into the critical role of mindset, language, and culture in shaping health outcomes—like why framing movement as “fun physical activity” leads to better results than mandated “exercise.” Jasdeep introduces Aroga's Journal Club process, a collaborative method for evaluating new research and integrating evidence-based decisions into your health and leadership. Additionally, we uncover lessons from Blue Zones, regions with the highest concentrations of centenarians, and how their insights can inspire healthier, more connected communities. Dr. Saluja shares practical resources, books, and tools to help you create the mind, body, and life you want—while uplifting those around you. If you’re ready to make small changes that deliver big impacts, this insightful and applicable conversation with Dr. Jasdeep Saluja is for you.Key Topics Discussed:· [00:01:57] Guest Introduction · [00:02:28] Episode Overview· [00:03:34] Get ready to nerd out with us! · [00:03:50] Summary of Tools/Practices we discuss· [00:05:25] Origin Story: What made Jasdeep want to be Dr. Saluja · [00:07:19] The meeting point of caring and learning· [00:08:02] Deeds and actions come from people· [00:08:22] Who inspired your drive to help others? · [00:08:50] Teachers & Doctors· [00:09:33] 3 Sikh Principles· [00:09:46] An Honest Living · [00:10:19] The Systems do not incentivize or support. · [00:11:15] What is Lifestyle Medicine? · [00:11:29] (It should just be called “Medicine”) · [00:11:50] The 6 Pillars of Lifestyle Change. · [00:12:20] Positive Psychology · [00:12:57] The “7th Pillar” · [00:13:24] Meaning vs. Purpose· [00:13:43] Clarity of purpose & meaning in the everyday· [00:14:32] The winding path, the obstacles, and trusting the universe. · [00:15:52] Putting out fires - at a price. · [00:15:52] Not the person I want doing surgery! · [00:17:00] Convincing the Medical Community · [00:17:27] The pivotal point: “My Pops.”· [00:18:19] He had “excellent care” · [00:18:44] That one friend. · [00:18:56] We all knew: something’s got to change.· [00:19:17] Heart Attack · [00:19:17] This does not make sense. · [00:19:40] Not just genetics· [00:20:09] Literally a Google Search· [00:20:15] Dr. Dean Ornish & Dr. Caldwell B. Esselstyn · [00:21:07] Wait, you said Google?· [00:21:22] There was nothing lacking in his standardized medical care. · [00:21:49] HOW. IS. THAT. POSSIBLE?· [00:21:52] Nutrition study in medical school was minimal. · [00:22:04] Nutrition and Lifestyle are not given time. · [00:22:22] Nutrition and Lifestyle is not Assessed, aka unimportant. · [00:23:02] In the meantime, we are ruining our Ferraris!! · [00:23:41] Learning from Blue Zones · [00:24:15] We’ve traded one set of problems for another. · [00:24:43] Healthspan vs. Lifespan · [00:25:51] We make healthspan a personal responsibility · [00:26:11] Health is a societal concern. · [00:26:40] The healthy decision should be easy · [00:27:35] Prioritizing ...
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    1 hr and 42 mins
  • Neuroscience and Trauma Healing: Dr. David Rabin’s Tools for Leadership
    Dec 5 2024
    Welcome to the Healing Our Politics Podcast! Join Our Community and Receive Free Tools + How to Guides:Join “The Leader’s Handbook” newsletter · Always free· Once per month email· Curated selection of tools, techniques, and practices discussed on this podcast· Delivered in simple to follow how-to-guides· To try and test in your life and teach your teams.JOIN HEREGuest:Dr. David Rabin is an MD PhD board-certified practicing psychiatrist, neuroscientist, and entrepreneur who has studied resilience and the impact of chronic stress on our lives for over 15 years. He is the co-founder and chief medical officer at Apollo Neuroscience, which developed the first scientifically validated wearable technology to improve sleep and mood. In his practice, doctor Dave specializes in treatment-resistant illnesses, including PTSD, personality disorders, substance abuse, and more, using minimally or noninvasive treatment strategies. He is a co-founder of the Board of Medicine, a MAPS-trained MDMA-assisted therapist, and a trained ketamine-assisted therapist studying the epigenetics of trauma. He invests as part of the Noetic Fund. Dave is the host of the Psychedelic Report + You Brain Explained podcasts.About the Episode: In this episode, we dive into how Dr. Dave Rabin stays highly productive and how you can use his methods to tackle the issues you care about most effectively. Dr. Dave shares simple physical practices to help you stay calm and centered, even when triggered so that you can respond with clarity and connection. We talk about his Jewish upbringing, a culture of curiosity and questioning, and how it shaped his approach to leadership and teamwork. He explains how creating psychological safety within yourself and with your team leads to better conversations, stronger decisions, and improved outcomes. We also explore the fascinating world of epigenetics, uncovering how trauma can be passed down through generations and how you can break the cycle to heal yourself and your family. Plus, Dr. Dave reveals the surprising top predictor of weight gain, burnout, and anxiety—and shares actionable tools to address it. This conversation is packed with energy, practical advice, and wide-ranging insights. I hope you enjoy this engaging and inspiring talk with my friend and expert, Dr. Dave Rabin!Key Topics Discussed:· [00:01:51] Episode/guest intro· [00:05:23] Question everything· [00:08:40] Beneath the surface of perceptual reality· [00:13:18] A culture of questioning· [00:16:05] Coming of age ceremony · [00:19:22] Casting “spells”· [00:21:07] The Torah· [00:22:19] Multi-hyphenate-human· [00:23:01] Ketamine-assisted therapy· [00:24:23] Multi-tasking effectively · [00:27:05] Practicing Presence· [00:29:30] Increase your cognitive capacity· [00:30:19] What is “manifestation” really?· [00:35:35] Technology moves us forward· [00:36:50] A new mental health paradigm · [00:39:20] The contribution of LSD to knowledge of psychology · [00:40:30] Depression: What comes first? · [00:42:54] Handwashing as heresy · [00:42:25] Mental health cures coming? · [00:47:21] Could it be me?· [00:48:42] Shame is your teacher· [00:50:07] ELC Foundation donors· [00:50:46] SPONSOR: ELC· [00:53:16] The neuroscience of familiarity · [00:55:13] Neuroscience of psychedelic therapy· [00:56:42] Create an environment for life-changing growth· [00:58:27] Vulnerability is where healing occurs· [00:59:48] Amplifying safety pathways for healing · [01:01:45] MDMA therapy: What happens in the brain· [01:02:27] Vagus nerve· [01:04:40] Why stress makes your tummy hurt· [01:05:03] Stress: Body and mind· [01:07:10] You control your physiology · [01:08:50] PTSD + MDMA therapy · [01:12:08] Oh fuck - It’s not my fault! · [01:13:20] Cognative Vs. embodied knowledge · [01:15:23] Epigenetic code· [01:16:50] Healing generational trauma · [01:20:49] How to treat someone who has been hurt· [01:22:41] Being a “victim” is not your fault, and you are in control· [01:24:25] Breaking a fearful mindset· [01:29:15] Hugs matter· [01:31:27] 1-minute breathing practice · [01:32:30] Regulating fear in public meetings· [01:34:00] What ALL humans need· [01:36:40] Sharing aliveness· [01:38:22] Structure public meetings for trust and efficacy · [01:39:54] Where to find Dr. Dave (links below)· [01:41:03] Final Question: Temple of Delphi (links below) · [01:50:47] “The Leader’s Handbook” Newsletter· [01:51:25] Sponsor: ELC Key References and Resources Mentioned:· [00:04:00] Jewish upbringing · [00:11:24] Goosebumps books · [00:11:24] X-Men· [00:15:46] Bar-Mitzvah coming of-age ceremony · [00:20:31] Torah· [00:21:07] Dark Matter + Dark Energy · [00:23:07] Apollo Neuro · [00:23:01] Ketamin Assisted Therapy · [00:23:06] The Noetic Fund · [00:36:50] Biological Psychology · [00:36:50] Sigmond Freud· [00:36:50] Carl Jung · [00:36:50] Theory of Mind · [00:39...
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    1 hr and 46 mins
  • Beyond Bipolar: Shakeyla Ingram’s Journey of Healing, Forgiveness, and Resilience in Public Office
    Nov 21 2024
    Welcome to the Healing Our Politics Podcast! Join Our Community and Receive Free Tools + How to Guides:Join “The Leader’s Handbook” newsletter· Always free· Once per month email· Curated selection of tools, techniques, and practices discussed on this podcast· Delivered in simple to follow how-to-guides· To try and test in your life, and teach your teams.JOIN HEREGuest:Shakeyla Ingram served on the city council in Fayetteville, North Carolina, where she focused on community empowerment, small business support, and housing issues. It was not all roses. Shakeyla was diagnosed with bipolar disorder while in office and faced significant challenges as she found herself embroiled in the middle of factional community anger during the COVID-19 epidemic and immersed in dysfunctional behavior between council members and herself. As a councilwoman, Shakeyla released a book, Intentionality Here, ran her consultancy, Haus Host, and relaunched her podcast, The Key to the City. Since losing re-election, Shakeyla has blossomed - releasing Provisions Boot Camp, an Entrepreneur's Toolkit, and starting a newsletter, Intentional Impact, along with traveling the country to train newly elected officials on effective governance.About the Episode: In this episode, we dig into adolescence’s impact on our adult leadership: the importance of family and role models in shaping who we become. How early childhood experiences, adverse childhood events (ACEs), and trauma manifest unconsciously in our leadership and how to discover and break those patterns to uplevel and expand our leadership. We discuss coming out as battling bipolar depression on council and how you can disclose and work with your challenges. Shakeyla shares stories of inter-council conflict and the impact of public hate - being stuck in the middle of community factions - and its effect on our well-being and performance as leaders. Shakeyla shares some of her most significant learnings from her journey, including techniques to identify and work with triggers, practices to exhume yourself from depression, creating “goal friends” and “journey agreements,” the distinction between trauma and healing as she understands it, what “intentionality” is and how to use it for your success, and so much more. Key Topics Discussed:· [00:01:51] Episode/guest intro· [00:04:45] Heart-centered leadership · [00:06:16] The secret commonality between us· [00:07:10] Grandparents· [00:07:30] The essence of community · [00:10:04] The forgotten history of racism · [00:11:37] LOVE no matter what · [00:12:15] Grandparents supplanting parents· [00:14:22] Healing parental wounds · [00:15:08] The impact of divorce · [00:15:35] The shadow of childhood in office · [00:16:45] Unethical behavior· [00:19:42] Childhood patterns in leadership · [00:21:50] Be the soulution · [00:22:30] Three ways to use your energy · [00:23:59] “Leader” Vs. “Human” personas · [00:26:10] Public service and romantic relationships · [00:31:42] Fear to win· [00:32:28] Internal duality· [00:33:10] Patterns and vlaues · [00:35:59] Bi-polar diagnosis in office · [00:37:14] Public response to bi-polar · [00:39:14] Techniques to mitigate depressive symptoms · [00:41:57] Bi-polar mitigation practices summary · [00:43:40] How to identify triggers · [00:46:05] Meditation + Journaling · [00:47:27] The importance of self-honesty · [00:48:25] Therapist of solo work?· [00:50:20] COVID-19 challenges in office · [00:50:40] ELC Foundation donors · [00:51:18] SPONSOR: ELC Coaching · [00:54:00] Shakeyla’s COVID collapse · [00:55:13] Keep doing the work · [00:57:00] A cold welcome to office · [00:58:15] Self-work post office · [01:00:01] A different type of podcast · [01:01:30] Post-loss integration · [01:02:55] The secrets we keep · [01:03:24] Fear at the grocery store · [01:05:55] Train people how to treat you· [01:06:30] Create conscious email boundaries · [01:10:25] Public record traps· [01:11:25] Day one elected: How-to-guide · [01:14:10] Trauma vs. connection-based partnership · [01:15:50] The functional power of a trusting relationship · [01:16:50] Trauma Vs. healing· [01:19:02] Dealing with falsified personal attacks · [01:20:48] Apolitical Foundation’s “Mere Mortals” report· [01:24:28] Victimization to healing · [01:26:55] Intentionality - what is it?· [01:27:21] “Goal friends”· [01:28:04] Healing in the environment you got sick in · [01:31:59] Final Questions: You must show up· [01:33:30] Where to find Shakeyla· [01:34:09] “The Leader’s Handbook” Newsletter· [01:35:19] SPONSOR: ELC Coaching Key References and Resources Mentioned:· [00:19:42] Transference: Psychology · [00:19:42] Childhood Patterns: Psychology · [00:19:42] Trauma: Psychology · [00:22:30] Three things you can do with your energy video· [00:43:40] Triggers: Psychology · [00:46:05] Meditation · [...
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    1 hr and 38 mins
  • Human-Centered Design & Entrepreneurial Strategies for Public Leaders: Testing, Failing Fast, and Maximizing Growth w/ Andrew Hutton
    Nov 7 2024
    Welcome to the Healing Our Politics Podcast! Join Our Community and Receive Free Tools + How to Guides:Join “The Leader’s Handbook” newsletter · Always free· Once per month email· Curated selection of tools, techniques, and practices discussed on this podcast· Delivered in simple to follow how-to-guides· To try and test in your life, and teach your teams.JOIN HEREGuest:Andrew Hutton is co-founder of Day One, which supported early-stage founders and their teams in navigating from 0 to 1 by taking a customer-discovery-led approach to go-to-market. Andrew is an industry-leading expert in human and user-centered design principles, a master at customer interview techniques, a teacher, coach, a former illustrious Parsons School of Design professor, and an Elected Leaders Collective board member. This episode is all about transferrable knowledge, learning from another wisdom tradition to set yourself apart in public service - in this case, entrepreneurship and start-up mindset. About the Episode: In this episode, we discuss how a pig farm in Uganda took Andrew from West Wing dreams to the mean streets of entrepreneurship. The principles, practices, and strategies of an entrepreneurial mindset and how they can be applied in your public service journey. Human-centered design and design thinking, how you can use small tests to improve professional and personal efficacy and mitigate downside risk to drive public policy innovation. Creating positive constraints to encourage growth and nimbleness to shake your organization out of its rut. How to re-frame “failure,” learn to fail forward, and use setbacks to build resilience and organizational power. How can we work with societal factors and constraints to more effectively measure and plan around risk - professionally and otherwise? How can we speak to citizens differently, using customer discovery techniques to create better policies and bring people together? I hope you enjoy this wide-ranging conversation with my friend, Andrew Hutton.Key Topics Discussed:· [00:01:51] Episode/guest intro· [00:03:20] The value of entrepreneurial mindset · [00:05:55] West Wing Dreams · [00:09:47] Building a pig farm in Uganda · [00:11:51] Throw your hat over the wall· [00:15:30] Raising the bar to do harder things· [00:16:50] The invisible public hand in individual success · [00:18:49] You CAN fail + survive · [00:19:58] The fear of failure· [00:21:30] Using failure as a ladder · [00:22:35] Progress in action · [00:23:18] Andrew’s framework for challenges · [00:27:50] Strength and success through vulnerability · [00:29:20] Skippy failing forward · [00:31:00] Compressing the learning curve· [00:31:42] Build an entrepreneurial mindset · [00:32:55] Supercharge your personal growth· [00:35:22] The value of cohort work · [00:36:50] The experiential approach to life · [00:39:23] For victory: Chunk down· [00:42:36] Design thinking + strategy· [00:43:32] IDEO· [00:44:10] Human-Centered Design· [00:44:55] TED Human-Centered Design in Affordable Housing · [00:47:05] Principals of User-Centered Design· [00:51:10] Moving policy forward w/o institutional support· [00:51:50] Leading through trust· [00:55:00] Day One Accelerator · [01:02:52] ELC Foundation donors· [01:03:30] SPONSOR: ELC · [01:07:26] The more I know, the more I know I don’t know · [01:08:00] VC’s + politicians · [01:08:58] Happiness = reality - expectations · [01:13:05] The value of entrepreneurial mindset · [01:13:37] The Tim Ferriss Show· [01:14:28] Performing like a superstar· [01:15:00] Bend your bell curve · [01:17:04] “Internet literacy”: Busting the bubble · [01:20:00] The mirage of comparative success · [01:22:10] Businesses lie · [01:23:30] Should everyone be civically active? · [01:25:17] Design thinking in public spaces · [01:29:22] Carbonated water foundations· [01:31:12] Question all assumptions · [01:32:36] The problem with public comment · [01:33:42] Going rouge for citizens · [01:34:46] Customer discovery · [01:43:51] Asking the “right” questions· [01:45:15] The emotional danger in identification· [01:48:00] Secret name game · [01:49:28] Final question: Create the space you want to lead in· [01:50:47] “The Leader’s Handbook” Newsletter· [01:51:25] Sponsor: ELCKey References and Resources Mentioned:· [00:05:55] West Wing Dreams· [00:09:47] Uganda· [00:35:22] The value of cohort work· [00:42:36] Design thinking· [00:43:32] IDEO· [00:44:10] Human-Centered Design· [00:44:55] TED Human-Centered Design in Affordable Housing · [01:13:37] The Tim Ferriss Show· [01:29:22] Carbonated water foundations: Paris· [01:34:46] Customer discovery; The Mom Test; Rob Fitzpatrick Where to Find Andrew Hutton:Linked In Twitter: @AWHutton Where to Find Host Skippy Mesirow:Receive Support at the Elected Leaders Collective Follow on Instagram www.instagam.com/skippymesirowBook a free ...
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    1 hr and 54 mins
  • Suffering to Strength: Ashley Grimmel on Transmuting Pressure into Power, Resilience, and Health
    Oct 24 2024
    Welcome to the Healing Our Politics Podcast! Join Our Community and Receive Free Tools + How to Guides:Join “The Leader’s Handbook” newsletter · Always free· Once per month email· Curated selection of tools, techniques, and practices discussed on this podcast· Delivered in simple to follow how-to-guides· To try and test in your life, and teach your teams.JOIN HEREGuest:Ashley Grimmel is the founder of both Grimel Biometrics and the Fresh Program and an ultra-endurance athlete. With a passion for pushing the limits of human performance, she trains UFC fighters, endurance athletes, race car drivers, and even everyday individuals. Ashley herself is a seasoned athlete, having competed in extreme events like the World’s Toughest Mudder—a grueling 75-mile race over 24 continuous hours featuring over 350 obstacles, including freezing water submersion, in which she places in the 10 top women, in the world. Ashley has faced innumerable personal challenges, coming our stronger on the other side, and can teach you how, too. In addition to her athletic achievements, Ashley serves as a board member for the Elected Leaders Collective, bringing her dedication to high performance and well-being to the political realm. Simply put, Ashley is the real deal.About the Episode: In this deep and personal episode, we explore a range of topics designed to help you enhance both your physical and mental well-being. Ashley shares actionable tips on improving your diet with minimal time and budget, strategies for sustainable weight loss, and how to boost brain health and longevity. She introduces the concept of the "human audit" to improve relationships and workflow and walks us through the 7 S’s of stress reduction. Ashley also opens up about how her life was shaped by tragedy, death, and sickness and offers a raw and honest discussion on overcoming personal trauma, including rape. This episode contains potentially triggering content, but it’s real, and Ashley’s story shows how even the most difficult moments can fuel personal growth and self-improvement. You’ll walk away with tangible tools and inspiration from this real, deep, and highly tactical conversation.Key Topics Discussed:· [00:01:52] Episode/guest intro· [00:04:35] Little Ashely· [00:07:45] Staying small for safety· [00:09:23] Growing up with sick parents· [00:11:41] Abandonment wounds· [00:12:54] Trauma catalog· [00:13:52] Human impact of rape· [00:16:30] Silencing and victim self-blame · [00:19:52] Personal and collective healing through sharing· [00:25:09] Finding positivity in depravity · [00:28:55] Where to shine your spotlight· [00:30:48] Physical transformation and weight loss· [00:39:50] Med school false start · [00:42:35] Inheriting our parent's mindset· [00:43:45] Boliemia as control · [00:47:35] Mind, body, spirit connection · [00:50:17] Animal balloon theory of “fucks to give”· [00:52:30] Healthy eating for high-stress, time-limiting jobs· [00:55:03] Micronutriants for brain health · [00:59:10] You brain = BMW 1200GS moto· [01:01:30] Eat REAL food· [01:02:45] Minimal time diet protocol· [01:04:20] Health eats w/o cooking· [01:05:37] How to determine if your diet is working· [01:07:35] Diet non-negotiable cheat sheet· [01:09:32] ELC Foundation Donors Add 2min 18 seconds· [01:17:30] Animal protein and anxiety/depression· [01:25:01] Where and how to source animal protein· [01:26:56] Sedentary vs. active diet· [01:28:16] Ashley’s mindboggling athletic achievements· [01:33:06] Self-talk in extreme conditions· [01:39:10] Do something you believe you can’t do every year· [01:39:38] “Suffering is one of life’s greatest gifts”· [01:42:09] Discerning when to push through and when to give up· [01:46:34] Human relationships· [01:47:21] The Human Audit· [01:54:25] Annual “Human Audit” review process· [02:00:16] Is the audit “mean”?· [02:03:16] How does the “Human Audit” affect your work?· [02:04:44] Direct feedback is LOVING· [02:08:36] What is stress?· [02:10:01] Skippy’s definition of stress· [02:12:01] “6 S’s of Stress Relief”· [02:22:51] Choose what is in YOUR control· [02:24:40] Use the stress· [02:25:31] Final Question: Treasure the hard shit.· [02:26:18] “The Leader’s Handbook” Newsletter· [02:27:18] Sponsor: ELC Key References and Resources Mentioned:· World’s Toughest Mudder · David Goggins' Book - Can't Hurt Me · The Grand Traverse · MegaFit Meals · Ice Age Meals · Breathwork Where to Find Ashley Grimmel:Website: The Fresh Program (https://www.thefreshprogram.com/)Website: Grimmel Biometrics (https://www.grimmelbiometrics.com/)Linked In (https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashley-grimmel-762055b7/)Instagram: @shlee.mariel (https://www.instagram.com/shlee.marie)Where to Find Host Skippy Mesirow:Receive Support at the Elected Leaders CollectiveFollow on Instagram www.instagam.com/skippymesirowBook a free Clarity Call to see...
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    2 hrs and 28 mins