In this episode we will be continuing the story of Gentleman Jack, where we uncover the captivating life of Anne Lister and her trailblazing romance with Ann Walker, celebrated as the first recorded lesbian marriage in the UK. Through Anne's detailed diaries, we follow the couple’s passionate journey, from their secret marriage vows to their daring travels across Europe, all the way to Anne’s untimely death. This episode offers an intimate glimpse into their shared life, the challenges they faced, and the adventurous spirit that made Anne a revolutionary figure in LGBTQ+ history.

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In this episode, we dive into the world of Halloween costumes, slut-shaming, and the evolution of gender norms around dressing up. We'll unpack the origins of the “sexy costume” as a queer culture celebration, explore Halloween’s roots and the influence of gender stereotypes, and examine the fortune-telling rituals of 1800s Scotland and Ireland when busy women sought glimpses of their future husbands. Join us as we challenge assumptions, celebrate self-expression, and uncover the fascinating history that shapes our modern Halloween traditions.

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In this episode we explore the extraordinary life of Anne Lister better known as Gentleman Jack, a daring lesbian diarist from the early 1800s, who documented her romantic, carnal adventures and pioneering spirit across Europe. Known for her sharp wit, rebellious nature, and a unique secret code she developed at private school, Lister's diaries reveal the boldness of a woman who defied society’s norms. Autistic-coded, gothic, and unapologetically tomboyish, Anne balanced her love for high society with scaling mountain ranges in her signature black petticoats and men's boots all while recording over 1 million words in her many diaries which she systematically filled throughout her life. Join us as we uncover the hidden life and love stories of this trailblazing figure in LGBTQIA+ history!

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In this episode, Emily Sin continues to interview Porcelain Victoria, a professional dominatrix and sex worker, to explore the dynamics of client etiquette in the world of BDSM and sex work. Victoria shares candid insights into her experiences, discussing the fine line between a respectful client and one that crosses boundaries. With real-life stories from her work, she delves into what makes an ideal client—respectful, communicative, and mindful of consent—versus the challenges posed by her most difficult encounters. Tune in for an open, eye-opening conversation on etiquette, boundaries, and the realities of her profession.

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In this episode, Emily Sin interviews Porcelain Victoria, a professional dominatrix and sex worker, to explore the dynamics of client etiquette in the world of BDSM and sex work. Victoria shares candid insights into her experiences, discussing the fine line between a respectful client and one that crosses boundaries. With real-life stories from her work, she delves into what makes an ideal client—respectful, communicative, and mindful of consent—versus the challenges posed by her most difficult encounters. Tune in for an open, eye-opening conversation on etiquette, boundaries, and the realities of her profession.

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In this episode, we take a deep dive into the world of unusual kinks and paraphilias, from age play to puppy play and beyond. Porcelain Victoria, shares intriguing stories from her experiences in the sex work and kink community, shedding light on how these practices emerge in her work. Plus, we invite you to play along as we try to guess different kinks based on their scientific names. Join us for a fun, insightful, and open-minded exploration of diverse sexual expressions!

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In this compelling episode of Behind the Paddle, Porcelain Victoria, tells all about the unique challenges of dating while working as an escort and dominatrix. Together, we dive deep into the personal and emotional complexities of balancing a career in the sex industry with romantic relationships.

We explore critical questions such as: When and how do you disclose your profession to someone you’re dating? What are the biggest challenges in maintaining boundaries between work and personal life? How do societal stigmas affect your relationships, and what strategies help manage the emotional demands of both worlds?

Misstress Victoria shares memorable stories, addresses common misconceptions, and offers advice to others in similar situations. Whether you’re curious about the intersection of love and sex work, or simply looking to understand a different perspective, this episode provides eye-opening insights into the realities of dating in the world of escorting.

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What does the Japanese Penis Festival (Kanamara Matsuri), Disney's Moana, and the cult horror film "Teeth" have in common? They all reflect aspects of ancient cautionary tales about sexuality, power, and fear. In this episode, we explore the ancient and fascinating concept of vagina dentata—the myth of a toothed vagina found in folklore around the world. We dive into folk stories from different cultures, examining how they use vagina dentata to warn, control, or empower. Through these modern and historical lenses, we explore how these myths are retold and reimagined today.

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