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After years of saying yes to everyone and everything, I hit a breaking point in nursing school that forever changed my perspective on people-pleasing. The revelation that my behavior was a trauma response rooted in the fear of rejection was both eye-opening and transformative. Join me as I unravel the emotional toll of people-pleasing, from the sleepless nights filled with anxiety to the resentment that quietly builds when we neglect our own needs for the sake of others. This episode is not just a recount of struggles but a guide to reclaiming your worth and well-being by learning how to set boundaries without guilt.

Imagine shifting from being the dependable go-to person to someone who prioritizes personal desires and capacities. We'll explore how deeply ingrained patterns, often developed in environments where love and approval were conditional, can impact every aspect of life—from work to personal relationships. As the Empowerment Goddess and Your Somatic Trauma-Informed Coach, I offer practical steps to help you move from automatic people-pleasing to honoring your true self. Learn how to practice the pause before responding and engage in inner dialogues that align with your authentic needs. It's time to break free from the cycle and step into a more fulfilling, authentic life.

• Understanding the impact of conditional love and approval
• Recognizing the cycle of saying yes and its consequences
• The emotional exhaustion tied to people-pleasing patterns
• Exploring the connection between trauma and people-pleasing
• Practical strategies for breaking the habit of people-pleasing
• Importance of practicing the pause for mindful responses
• Checking one's inner dialogue to combat guilt
• Starting with small boundary-setting actions
• Encouragement to challenge habitual responses
• Affirmation that unlearning people-pleasing is possible through self-compassion

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What if the trauma you've experienced no longer had the power to define you? Join Krystal Jae, The Empowerment Goddess, and Your Somatic Trauma Informed Coach, as we embark on a transformative journey of healing and self-discovery. We'll explore how to transition from feeling overwhelmed and numb to finding peace and clarity. Discover concepts like the Traffic Lights of Intolerance that help you recognize safety and embrace your authentic self while breaking free from the shackles of self-doubt and shame. With Krystal Jae's compassionate guidance, learn three actionable tools to recalibrate your nervous system and start living a life of worth and confidence.

We'll also equip you with invaluable resources for managing anxiety and fostering personal growth. Experience the 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 grounding exercise, a simple yet effective method to center yourself in moments of stress. Reimagine your personal narrative and envision the life you aspire to lead by stepping out of survival mode and into intentional growth. Finally, dive into the "Breakthrough to Authenticity" program—a six-month journey designed to help you overcome barriers and uncover your true self. With accessible financing options, this transformative experience promises to elevate your life to new heights of purpose and joy. Don't miss out on reclaiming control and crafting the life you truly desire.

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What if the secret to overcoming life's obstacles lies in finding contentment and faith in yourself and something greater?

We explore the profound message of finding contentment and fulfillment through faith while overcoming challenges and self-doubt. Join us as we share personal stories, biblical insights, and encouragement for creating a life filled with purpose and peace.

- Unpack the powerful message of of Philippians 4:13 and its impact on faith and strength
- Journey of Self-Doubt to Empowerment
- Embracing your inner strength can lead to true fulfillment
- Share personal experiences of overcoming struggles and self-doubt
- Peace, joy, and fulfillment aren't just distant ideals but present realities
- Examining concepts of embracing contentment and fulfillment in our everyday experiences and within a biblical context.
- God's presence is constant, even in difficult times.
- An intimate relationship with God provides comfort and strength.
- Trusting God's purpose can guide us through trials.
- Address the importance of community and connection during tough times
- Believing in oneself is crucial for personal growth..

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In our journey through life, we often carry the weight of past traumas, feeling as though they define who we are. But what if I told you that you have the power to break free from these chains and embrace a future filled with possibility and empowerment? This is the profound message Krystal Jae shares, as she invites us to explore the transformative path of healing and self-discovery.

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to choose yourself, to truly prioritize your own needs and desires?

Krystal Jae passionately speaks to this idea, urging us to let go of past traumas and step boldly into a new chapter of our lives. Through heartfelt personal anecdotes, trauma-informed care and moving testimonials from clients who have embarked on their own healing journeys, she paints a vivid picture of empowerment and liberation.

Imagine the life you could lead if you focused on your wants rather than your limitations. This is the transformative shift Krystal Jae encourages us to embrace. It's about making conscious choices that nurture our growth, fostering a deep sense of self-love, and finding strength in our vulnerabilities. But how do we begin this journey?

Krystal Jae highlights the importance of surrounding ourselves with a supportive community—those who uplift and inspire us. She also emphasizes the role of faith, whatever it may mean to you, as a cornerstone in the healing process. By taking practical steps, such as building a nurturing environment and opening ourselves to change, we can pave the way for a fulfilling life.

So, I ask you:

Are you ready to embrace this transformation?

Are you prepared to choose yourself and rewrite your story?

Remember, the power to change lies within you. Let's step forward together into a brighter, more empowered future.

With a special promotion on services until Christmas 2024, there's never been a better time to ignite the inner strength you possess and say yes to overcoming past limitations. Partner with me and discover the path to a more empowered and liberated life.

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Do you often find yourself saying "yes" to everyone around you, only to feel the weight of your own needs being neglected?

Together, we'll navigate the emotional struggle of people-pleasing and self-isolation, driven by the fear of judgment and rejection.

Join me as we unravel the tangled web of suffering in silence, despite having potential sources of support.

We'll explore how negative thoughts and a sense of unworthiness can overpower your mindset, leaving you trapped in a cycle of anxiety and self-doubt.

It's time to uncover practical steps to calm your overactive sympathetic nervous system, helping you affirm your worthiness of love and respect.

In our transformative conversation, we guide you through a powerful exercise designed to unlock your inherent value and break free from limiting beliefs.

By crafting two lists—one for your present self and another for your aspirational self—you're invited to embark on an honest reflection of your current state and the path toward personal growth.

Understand the roots of your self-perceptions, challenge those nagging doubts, and set the course to become the best version of yourself.

This is more than a journey of self-discovery; it’s a call to embrace self-worth and empowerment, especially for those feeling stuck, lonely, or misunderstood. Let’s take the first step together.

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“You are not alone, and you are enough. When times get tough, pray, listen and follow through. God loves you and trust me when I say he is not your trauma.” ~Krystal Jae

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Are you dreading the family gatherings for the holiday season?

Do you get anxious when thinking about being around certain people or certain situations?

What if the walls you've built to protect yourself are the very barriers keeping you from healing?

Join me as we unpack the emotional complexities of using isolation as a defense mechanism against life’s hurtful blows. We uncover how these self-imposed fortresses can trap unresolved feelings like shame and guilt, and highlight the importance of replacing them with healthy boundaries. Discover the transformative power of self-acceptance and self-empowerment, and learn actionable steps to overcome the limitations set by past traumas. This episode promises insights into fostering personal growth by setting boundaries that nurture self-respect and balance in all your relationships.

Creating meaningful connections while maintaining autonomy is a delicate dance. Tune in to explore the importance of setting clear and assertive boundaries that honor both your needs and those of others. We discuss practical ways to identify and communicate personal limits with love and clarity, steering away from anger or shame. Whether navigating complex family dynamics or fostering professional relationships, establishing these boundaries promotes personal growth and encourages those around you to adopt healthier behaviors. Embrace the journey of self-reflection and self-awareness, and build a supportive environment that can inspire change in both you and your loved ones.

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“You are not alone, and you are enough. When times get tough, pray, listen and follow through. God loves you and trust me when I say he is not your trauma.” ~Krystal Jae

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Buried traumas often resurface in the most unexpected moments, leaving us grappling with feelings of worthlessness and confusion. Join me as I recount a vivid nightmare that became the catalyst for one of the most transformative periods of my life.

This episode is an emotional exploration of overcoming suffering in silence, where I share my journey through therapy, self-care, and the pivotal decision to choose oneself. Together, we'll confront the fear of loneliness and abandonment, learning to embrace vulnerabilities and establish healthy boundaries. By sharing this personal story, I hope to empower you to break free and find your path from pain to purpose.

Facing our inner demons requires courage and a willingness to be vulnerable. Many of us unknowingly place blocks in our lives, hindered by the fear of judgment and success. We dive into the challenging journey of self-forgiveness and recognizing patterns of self-abandonment. Through addressing our inner child and past traumas with the guidance of a trauma-informed therapist, healing is possible.

As a coach, I aim to guide you in identifying and overcoming limiting beliefs, aligning with your true values, and nurturing relationships without losing yourself. Embark on this transformative journey with me and discover the strength that lies within you.

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“You are not alone, and you are enough. When times get tough, pray, listen and follow through. God loves you and trust me when I say he is not your trauma.” ~Krystal Jae

“Believe in all that you are and know that you have this inner power that is greater than any obstacle.” ~Krystal Jae

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What if you could transform fleeting moments of peace into a lifetime of tranquility?

Join me, Krystal Jae, The Empowerment Goddess, as I unravel my personal journey from high school therapy struggles to finding enduring healing after a mental breakdown. This episode is all about moving past temporary fixes and harnessing the power of rewiring your mind to overcome self-doubt and past traumas.

Discover how to break free from the shackles of guilt, fear, and shame, to embrace your true purpose in life.

Together, we'll explore how a well-rounded toolkit of skills and techniques can lead to a profound sense of empowerment and self-discovery.

Imagine stepping confidently into a life unburdened by past traumas, anxiety, and self-doubt.

In this enlightening conversation, you'll learn about "empowered transformational healing" and how it can lead to meaningful personal growth. With the help of one-on-one coaching sessions and the comprehensive "Who Am I" program, we'll uncover strategies to enhance self-awareness, increase cognitive abilities, and reduce stress.

Say goodbye to silent suffering and people-pleasing tendencies, and hello to a purpose-driven life filled with peace, love, and positivity.

This episode is your invitation to recognize your self-worth and understand that on this journey, you are never alone.

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“You are not alone, and you are enough. When times get tough, pray, listen and follow through. God loves you and trust me when I say he is not your trauma.” ~Krystal Jae

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