
Who Do You Want to Be on the Way to What You Want?
Coaching with the Empowerment Dynamic
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Elizabeth Eve
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Donna Zajonc
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Deepen your creativity and strengthen your influence as a leader and coach.
How do I, and my clients, learn from our reactive habits instead of pushing them away? Why do the same habits keep reappearing in the first place? How can my drama patterns show me the way to being the person I want to be?
If you're familiar with David Emerald's teaching story, The Power of TED* (*The Empowerment Dynamic), you will recognize the main character in this audiobook: Sophia, the coach who walks with Ted and David. In this new story, we look in on Sophia many years later, after she has become an experienced professional coach. You will hear Sophia's internal dialogue, her doubts, and worries, as she learns to quiet her mind in service of coaching a head strong client. The coaching dialogue here reveals tools and methods intended to help you coach and empower yourself as well as others.
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- Teri Giannetti
- 03-26-22
The Impact of Donna Zajonc’s Book
Many books make an impact on our lives. That’s what reading is all about. This book goes Above and Beyond. First of all, it is such a well read story. Ms. Zanjonc has woven strategies for self-care, maneuvering from “drama” situations to “”healthy responses” and truly leaning how to communicate effectively in an incredible gripping novel. She is a gifted author who can “entertain and at the same time teach.” I HIGHLY recommend you listen to this book for it may change your outlook on life for th better or enhance the skills you already possess. Teri
“You can’t change what’s going on around you until you start changing what’s going on wishing you.”
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- pen whisperer
- 01-13-23
Useful, entertaining and deeply meaningful
There are tons of coaching materials out there, but the use of story brings these “materials” deeply home not to be forgotten.
The messages are so right on for me as a coach and I believe would be for most professional helpers-
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- Tracy Winkler
- 08-19-24
Worth the listen and relating more about the DDT and the drama triangle has such a grip!
Excellent book and so relatable with the fable and story especially for a coach. It went further into relating to real life examples and even when you know the Drama Triangle, it doesn’t mean you will not experience. It is a consistent process to keep working on because it is human nature. Worth the listen or read!
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