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Relinquished

The Politics of Adoption and the Privilege of American Motherhood

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Relinquished

By: Gretchen Sisson
Narrated by: Angel Pean, Emily Norman, Katie Koster, Kimberly M. Wetherell, Si Chen, Renata Friedman
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FINALIST, NONFICTION, NATIONAL BOOK CRITICS CIRCLE AWARDS, 2024

FINALIST, 2024 GODDARD RIVERSIDE STEPHAN RUSSO BOOK PRIZE FOR SOCIAL JUSTICE

"Essential reading."—NPR “Books We Love”

“Dares to imagine a different world where Americans treat adoption like the justice issue it is.”―Washington Post

“Impressively reported…[Sisson] uses her deep well of knowledge to make the case that adoption is no solution for Americans’ reduced access to abortion.”―San Francisco Chronicle

A powerful decade-long study of adoption in the age of Roe, revealing the grief of the American mothers for whom the choice to parent was never real

Adoption has always been viewed as a beloved institution for building families, as well as a mutually agreeable common ground in the abortion debate, but little attention has been paid to the lives of mothers who relinquish infants for private adoption. Relinquished reveals adoption to be a path of constrained choice for those for whom abortion is inaccessible, or for whom parenthood is untenable. The stories of relinquishing mothers are stories about our country's refusal to care for families at the most basic level, and to instead embrace an individual, private solution to a large-scale, social problem.

With the recent decision in Dobbs v. Jackson Women's Health Organization revoking abortion protections, we are in a political moment in which adoption is, increasingly, being revealed as an institution devoted to separating families and policing parenthood under the guise of feel-good family-building. Rooted in a long-term study, Relinquished features the in-depth testimonies of American mothers who placed their children for domestic adoption. The voices of these women are powerful and heartrending; they deserve to be heard.

©2024 Gretchen Sisson (P)2024 Macmillan Audio
Adoption & Fostering Gender Studies Parenting & Families Relationships Social Sciences Adoption
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Critic reviews

“A timely book in the wake of the overturning of Roe v. Wade.”—One of the best nonfiction books of 2024, Paste Magazine

"A devastating and urgent condemnation of America’s adoption industry."—Publishers Weekly (starred review)

"Provocative, in-depth, and scholarly. For readers interested in the history of adoption."—Library Journal

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very thoughtful and well articulated. definitely gave me a new perspective on adoption as a whole

different take on adoption

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As a birth mother, I was so excited about this book as it touches on some pretty weighty topics, some quite sensitive to me as my child that I placed is now in his 20's. But I really don't like the way this book is read!! I feel like her opinion comes through in her tone and frankly, if you know any birth mothers personally, placing a child for adoption can be VERY coerced and manipulated because of people's opinions. I just wanted a book that I could listen to, gather my own thoughts and opinions, and gain insight into myself and others affected by adoption. Probably going to just buy the book because I am enjoying the books content, just not the reader.

Wish I would have just bought a hard copy

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Nice to finally hear such a well researched longitudinal study of the modern treatment of pregnant people in crisis by a predatory industry.

Important information presented in an easy to understand manner

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I liked the the actual portrayal of birth mothers. They don't get enough press.

Relinquished

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I am a 2010 first mom, and WOW… this validated me in so many ways. Knowing I was not the only one who had an adoption go down like my daughters. Very healing to read. Though sometimes triggering. Reality can be a hard thing ti accept.
Grateful for the work Gretchen has put in to give accurate information to the world.

Relatable

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Plenty of perspectives on birth parents but little to no discussion on the impact of open adoptions on adopted people

Where are the narratives from adopted people?

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Excellent critical analysis of the adoption industry’s impact on women. As well as how it intersects with women’s choices or lack of choices in the US. I found it very timely and useful as an adoptee, birth mother and adoption professional. I learned from this and also felt very validated in my own conflicts and concerns about adoption.

Women’s Experiences

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Thank you Gretchen for your work. So Illuminating, intellectually challenging, and heartfelt. Should be required reading in modern feminist courses

Deeply moving and well researched

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The statistics/data, testimonials, both sides of the story and the obvious lean towards the downfalls if adoption even with the positives.

A Real Look at the Impacts of Adoption in America

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This book is so important. Thank you Gretchen for your research. Speaking as a “birth mother”, this book has brought me so much peace, seeing the truth exposed.

A “birth mothers” review

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