
Pebbles in My Shoe
Three Steps to Breaking Through Interpersonal Conflict
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Linda P. Outka
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Linda P. Outka
About this listen
Do you have a difficult person in your professional or personal life? Is there a conversation you know you should have but don’t want to risk damaging the relationship? Would you like to move past the pain into a more productive relationship?
Relational hurts are like pebbles in our shoes. Strained relationships, failed conversations, and unresolved conflicts drain our energy and sabotage our success. Leadership coach Linda Outka has been effectively resolving conflict for more than 25 years.
Through real-life stories and practical principles, Linda reveals her proven model of conflict resolution.
As you listen to this book, you will discover how to:
- Break through conflict using three clear steps
- Understand conflict landmines and how to avoid them
- Prepare for an effective conflict resolution conversation
- Learn principles that keep defenses low throughout the conversation
- Develop a more fulfilling relationship as a result of a conflict resolution conversation
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