This episode dives DEEP into how childhood trauma can completely affect your life in a subconscious way! Some of us can't help but continue to attract that same toxic partner, stay in that job we hate, gossip with friends, etc... WHY?! It all stems back to our childhood!

AND, Some men are just stringing you along sis! He doesn't need 4 years to know if you're his wife!

Get ready to be uncomfortable... This one is a DUZY!!

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The way this conversation went SO FAST!!! I mean, this was literally two women having a conversation while the cameras were rolling and I loved every minute of It!

When you are struggling to be in a relationship, want to learn how to be a better support system, or just want to hear some differences in the way people love, etc. THIS episode is for you!! Not ONE disappointing moment!

Let us know what its giving in the comments!

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Wow!! Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

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0:00 - Intro

5:41 - 12:46 how do I get a soft life? How do you be soft!

8:30 you’ve got to be feminine to be soft

10:11 - oversharing is a sign of trauma response

10:43 - feminine energy doesn’t have something to prove!

13:00 - what does It mean to move the goal post?

17:00 - isn’t It better to cry in a rolls Royce than a kia?

18:42 - 28:12 how important are the hard conversations?

20:20 - what Aneesa experienced in marriage

22:00 - that’s two unhealed people

25:33 - you have to assert your boundaries

27:18 - certain things should just never happen!

28:12 - Aneesa new experience working through things

30:15 - people do weird stuff when they are depressed

31:40 - wicked movie (Aneesa’s thoughts)

36:25 - he’s married, long distance and is my spouse slipping away?

40:35 can you date a man in the military

41:02 - 49:11 does premature sex equate to premature breakups when looking for a wife

43:49 - should people try the milk before buying the cow?

46:30 Aneesa on celibacy

47:37 - what’s most important is making It MEAN something!

49:11 - Aneesa saying why she’s abstinence

51:00 - a man saying he wants to fix things but he’s not reconciling means what?

52:55 - 1:07:41 what are some things you won’t put up with from a high value man

54:33 - high value

54:54 - high value vs high earning

56:56 why pick the 100K men when I can pick 1M

57:40 - The dating pool

59:20 - am I too high functioning

1:00:00 - why are women taking advantage of good men

1:00:55 - I don’t think modern women take advantage of nice men

1:02:34 - how does low self esteem show up in how we dating?

1:04:40 I’m surrendered to God that ill allow life with no attachment to how It SHOULD be…

1:08:53 - video *you think you’re the boss**

Ray J and his ex

Women put themselves in prisons when they don’t move like they need their man

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This episode dives DEEP into how childhood trauma can completely affect your life in a subconscious way! Some of us can't help but continue to attract that same toxic partner, stay in that job we hate, gossip with friends, etc... WHY?! It all stems back to our childhood!

Get ready to be uncomfortable... but hear very REAL, RAW, dynamic conversation!

Let us know in the comments, do you think childhood trauma affects your adult decisions?

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Wow!! Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through s

ome of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

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Intro - 0:00
2:30 - Kountry Wayne character in real life
3:39 - ATL based - do broke begging women work?
4:50 - there are a lot of women that think their beauty will make up for their bad character
6:23 - you’re asking for too much Sarah
7:12 - the identity that people have with themselves… people lie
7:51 - what happens when people fornicate
9:16 - why do you keep speaking on men when you’re not a man
10:00 - how long do you wait to date after divorce?
13:10 - most women walk out of the relationship before they leave
14:38 - when It comes to competition with bbls, makeup and wigs
17:01 - this all goes to being an attractive child
19:43 - men do not care whether you are natural or enhanced, but It needs to look natural
20:58 - specific women sexualize themselves with their bodies
22:00 - men do not CARE!
23:10 - no one cares about light enhancements
25:00 - I don't agree that if you wear makeup means you’re not confident
25:43 - im a transformer
28:55 - does the ticking biological clock bother you bc you’re not married
30:56 - do you have any good dating tips on how to find your high value man and weed out the losers?
32:50 - if you want to let a man know to come get you?
35:00 - what Aneesa does to attract a man
37:12 - I’m very much come and get me
38:12 - you have alluring cat eyes - what does that mean
40:20 - can a high value woman be feminine? A high value woman only matches with a beta man?
41:11 - would you date someone unattractive?
43:25 - are people more proned to do what they can or what they know
43:55 - are women on dating apps to trick hunt?
45:33 - why do women get upset when their man wants to kick It with the boys?
46:58 - is that not moving the goal post
47:40 - a man that would rather be with his boys is closeted
49:43 - “is this your man” group
52:21 - is It out of pocket flying when you’re dating?
52:45 - when does It become a trick
53:10 - can you breakdown what a trick is
54:36 - i don’t know
55:29 - don’t think a man should spend ANY money until you know there’s intention
57:19 - why don’t you show your natural more
58:29 - should a woman date multiple at a time

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Wow!! Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

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Wow!! Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

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Intro - 0:00
3:40 - how long is too long to wait on someone for marriage
4:35 - how long are you looking for changed behavior
7:00 - at what age will you decide you’re not having children
9:08 - men live long r when they have wives
10:18 - if you’re seeing someone and you like them, but you’re still in the talking stages is it wrong or not wrong to have sex with someone else?
11:57 - when i choose the man I’ll sleep with, he’s already sleeping with other women?
14:17 - I’m having a mental confliction
15:40 - how do you quantify that
17:40 - hyper sexuality is a form of ADHD
20:19 - intimacy definition.
21:00 - soul sister goddess tribe gets a different version
21:45 - you can’t be all of who you are all the time, out
23:46 - if an ex has a heavy loss in family, do you reach out to
25:15 - men will find any reason to reach out to you
26:13 - why do people rush for marriage within a year
28:00 - Christian standpoint on dating
31:00 - i have never experienced intimate time that would make me overlook bad behavior
32:15 - broke men are better in bed
33:44 - if you’re young stop rushing
35:33 - do you think millennial women are struggling bc they are independent?
37:52 - independent is being interchanged with… i don’t need no man
40:00 - a lot of women don’t know how to be feminine
41:05 - LADIES, if you meet a man, DO NOT DO THIS…!
42:12 - married women are not independent women
43:00 - the definition of independent is not bad…
44:00 - your bride price is high
45:25 - ladies you have to take care of yourself and not act like It
46:10 - what is the difference between independence and interdependence?
47:11 - women are expected to forgive and give Grace to men, but it doesn’t work the other way around, why?
48:10 - do you buy into the trend of broke men don’t deserve P***y
51:17 - should a man drive to you, pick you up, meet half way or meet you there on first date
53:22 - if my woman got done up for me but posted It on socials before, what does that mean?
56:25 - there’s a level of sexy you shouldn’t post on socials
57:55 - where do you think the line of delusion starts - the 4 needs
1:03:50 - how can i love my woman if she doesn’t reciprocate?

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You need to watch this video if you are ready to experience love again, manifest your dream partner, be a boss and a soft girl at the same time!! So many gems! We know you’ll love this one as much as we did!

In this video we talk all the things, from being in your soft girl era, finding out how to love yourself, self awareness and so much more!

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0:00 - Intro
2:30 - What does this season mean for you
3:08 - in the melanated community, how do you get around where people will guilt you for handling living in yourself
4:07 - how do you balance being a boss babe and a wife
6:01 - men don’t realize how heavy It is to be a feminine woman
7:00 - do you even know what you want in a partner
7:30 - do you believe in a 50/50 household
8:15 - the greatest thing we have in life are options and choices
9:25 - there are a lot of men that want their wives to be Susi homemaker and at the same time being in the workforce…
9:45 - if you don’t quit working we will not win!
10:30 - being raised by militant. Father looked like this…
11:58 - no one taught me what it means to be a feminine woman… Is it cooking? Is it cleaning? There is no book…
13:15 - when i got It It was scary, bc i had never seen or experienced It before!
13:30 - often times we self sabotage what we don’t understand
15:23 - you stand on business and own who you are!
15:58 - we hear a lot about masculine and feminine but we all have both!
18:38 - my dad always made me feel safe to be bold
20:26 - what are some of the intangibles that solidified your marriage?
22:49 - do you ever feel overwhelmed?
23:20 - is there ever a time that you just relax?
25:30 - i was getting no sleep! But i operate best at…
26:35 - now sometimes i just need a ME day!
28:35 - 38:40 there’s nothing worse than mustering up energy when you don’t have It
30:00 - when people talk about marriage - It took a year to change my name
31:30 - marriage is a lot more than a piece of paper
32:00 - the kind of wife i want to be i know parts of me have to die
33:25 - what does the level of leadership look like you need in your partner
36:18 a lot of men THINK they are in their masculine but are heavily masculine
36:54 - just because you have the title of man doesn’t make you qualified to lead!
38:40- we come from two totally different backgrounds

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