In this deeply insightful episode, Ed welcomes the brilliant Dr. Megan McCoy—professor at Kansas State University and a pioneering voice in the field of financial therapy. With warmth, humility, and her signature sense of humor, Megan opens up about the complexities of receiving praise, navigating imposter syndrome, and how shifting socioeconomic status shapes our relationship with money. Together, Ed and Megan explore the nuanced intersections of gender, money, and identity—unpacking why so many of us feel conflicted about success, wealth, and our roles in relationships. From the emotional weight of accolades to the hidden double binds in household income dynamics, this conversation offers profound takeaways for anyone working to align their financial life with their values and relationships. Whether you're a therapist, financial planner, or someone seeking deeper harmony between love and money, this episode is packed with heartfelt moments, fresh perspectives, and the kind of authenticity that stays with you long after the final word.

Key Takeaways:

• How do imposter syndrome and gender roles shape our ability to accept success and manage money?

• What hidden dynamics impact couples when income, power, and emotional labor are unevenly distributed?

• How can financial professionals and therapists work together to help clients build healthier relationships with money and each other?

Key Timestamps:

(00:00) - Compliments vs. Accolades

(07:00) - The Psychology Behind Spending on Yourself vs. Others

(10:45) - Gender, Income, and the “Too Much Money” Problem

(17:20) - Reframing Couple Conflicts About Money

(21:45) - Rethinking Financial Self-Control

(25:30) - Hiding Wealth

(28:40) - Money Dysmorphia and the Million-Dollar Disconnect

(33:15) - Therapy Meets Financial Planning

(37:00) - You’re Not Broken—You’re Unpacking

Key Topics Discussed:

Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Financial therapy for couples, Megan McCoy, Gender and financial dynamics, Imposter syndrome and success, Navigating wealth and identity.

Mentions:

Website: https://www.hhs.k-state.edu/pfp/about/people/meganmccoy/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/megan-mccoy-phd?original_referer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F

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Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/

Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/

Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com

Healthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.

In this intimate and thought-provoking episode of the Healthy Love and Money Podcast, Ed sits down with powerhouse couple Doug and Heather Boneparth—co-founders of Bonafide Wealth and co-authors of an upcoming book that dives deep into the intersection of love, money, and trauma. But this isn't just a story of professional success—it's a raw, unfiltered look at the real journey behind the scenes: a couple navigating early adulthood in the throes of a recession, redefining roles around ambition and financial contribution, and learning to recalibrate their relationship through the evolving seasons of marriage, parenthood, and business. From grappling with shifting power dynamics and gender roles to reclaiming shared ambition after years of imbalance, Doug and Heather open up about the invisible labor, emotional recalibration, and personal transformation required to keep their relationship strong. Whether you're in a relationship, building a business with your partner, or simply trying to figure out how love and money can coexist—this episode will challenge your perspective, inspire reflection, and remind you that the dance of marriage is messy, beautiful, and always evolving.

Key Takeaways:

• How do couples navigate ambition and financial roles within a relationship while maintaining mutual respect and balance?

• What challenges arise when transitioning from traditional career roles to shared entrepreneurship, and how do partners support each other through these shifts?

• How can couples continuously recalibrate their relationship and financial dynamics to reflect changing life circumstances and maintain equity?

Key Timestamps:

(00:00) - From college sweethearts to financial partners

(05:00) - Defining “collective ambition” in a marriage

(08:00) - Redefining masculinity and partnership in finances

(12:30) - Marriage isn’t a “set it and forget it” model

(14:00) - The invisible labor of love and money

(16:00) - Redefining contribution beyond income

(21:00) - Walking it out: conflict resolution on the move

(23:00) - The emotional toll of leaving corporate life

(33:00) - Letting go of the “conflict-free relationship” myth

(34:30) - Spotting when it’s time to switch roles

(38:00) - Financial recalibration in new life seasons

Key Topics Discussed:

Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Couples and money, Financial planning for millennials, Marriage and financial equity, Love and money podcast, Navigating money and relationships, Douglas and Heather Boneparth

Mentions:

Website: https://www.readthejointaccount.com/

Email: themergebook@gmail.com

More of Healthy Love & Money:

Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/

Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/

Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com

Healthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not...

Ed interviews Justin and Hailey Brown-Woods, the dynamic couple behind the 'Price of Avocado Toast' podcast and financial coaching business. The Brown-Woods share their personal journey from receiving a $600,000 wrongful death settlement to blowing through the money and accruing $220,000 in debt, and how they turned their financial hardships into a mission to help others. They discuss the origins of their podcast name, the impact of their similar humble upbringings, and their transformation through effective communication about money. They also delve into their unique approaches to financial counseling and education, emphasizing the importance of dreaming big, staying present, and de-stigmatizing money conversations. The episode provides valuable insights into how couples can navigate financial struggles, improve their financial health, and build a strong, supportive relationship.

Key Timestamps:

(00:00) - The Origin of 'Price of Avocado Toast'

(04:17) - The Pumpkin Muffin Story

(05:39) - Blowing Through $600,000

(10:15) - Destigmatizing Money Conversations

(14:38) - Healthy Communication Practices

(19:55) - Managing Sensitivity in Relationships

(24:16) - Redefining Masculinity and Vulnerability

(29:07) - Supporting Each Other's Growth

(34:28) - Evolving Financial Coaching Practices

(37:03) - Balancing Dreams and Reality

Key Topics Discussed:

Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples

Mentions:

Website: https://www.priceofavocadotoast.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/priceofavocadotoast

Mentions: Happy Money Happy Life by Jason Vitug

More of Healthy Love & Money:

Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/

Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/

Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com

Healthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.

In this episode of the Healthy Love and Money Podcast, I’m honored to welcome back Derek Hagan, financial psychology expert and founder of Meaningful Money. We explore the deep emotional ties we have to money, the way wealth impacts identity, and the myths we carry about financial success. Derek shares his insights on why many people believe money will solve their problems, how financial decisions are influenced by subconscious beliefs, and why changing our money mindset is often harder than we expect.

Quotes:

Key Moments:

⏳ [1:00] Derek’s realization about brain surgery and how it relates to financial psychology

⏳ [3:45] The myth of the “quick fix” in money therapy and why real change takes time

⏳ [7:30] The power of storytelling and the beliefs we carry about wealth

⏳ [12:00] A real-life client case study on spending, identity, and financial grief

⏳ [18:40] How our financial behaviors are often shaped by childhood experiences

⏳ [25:15] Why wealth doesn’t guarantee happiness and the emotional impact of sudden wealth

⏳ [32:10] The hidden ways we “signal” financial success and why it matters

⏳ [40:20] How financial stress distorts our perception of other people’s money situations

⏳ [47:05] Finding a healthy balance between external validation and intrinsic self-worth

Resources & Links:

🔗 Connect with Derek Hagan:

• Website: Meaning.blog
• LinkedIn: Derek Hagan
• Twitter: @MoneyHealthGuy

📖 Recommended Books & Resources:

• The Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel
• Hardwiring Happiness by Rick Hanson
• Strangers in Paradise by James Grubman

💡 Connect with Ed Coambs:

• Website: Healthy Love and Money
• Instagram: @HealthyLoveAndMoney
• LinkedIn: Ed Coambs

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In this episode of the Healthy Love and Money Podcast, I’m thrilled to welcome Derek Hagan, financial psychology expert and founder of Money Health Solutions. We dive into the hidden forces shaping our money mindset, how childhood experiences influence financial behaviors, and the powerful role of curiosity in personal and financial growth. Derek shares his journey from growing up in a low-income household to becoming an expert in financial decision-making and meaning-making.

Quotes:

Key Moments:

• [1:15] Derek’s early curiosity about life, meaning, and money
• [5:45] Growing up with a scarcity mindset and how it shaped his financial outlook
• [12:30] The invisible career paths in finance that many never learn about
• [18:20] How financial planning decisions are often made under uncertainty
• [25:10] Derek’s journey into the CFA® and CFP® world
• [30:40] The realization that technical finance knowledge isn’t enough
• [36:15] The turning point—discovering financial psychology and deep listening
• [42:30] How curiosity leads to stronger relationships and better money decisions
• [50:10] Practical tips for couples to improve financial communication

Resources & Links:

• Connect with Derek Hagan:
• Website: Money Health Solutions
• LinkedIn: Derek Hagan
• Twitter: @MoneyHealthGuy
• Recommended Books & Resources:
• Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman
• Your Money or Your Life by Vicki Robin & Joe Dominguez
• The Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel

Connect with Ed Coambs:

• Website: Healthy Love and Money
• Instagram: @HealthyLoveAndMoney
• LinkedIn: Ed Coambs

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Healthy Love & Money Podcast Disclaimer

This podcast is designed for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared here reflects my personal and professional experiences as a financial therapist and Certified Financial Planner™. It is not a substitute for professional financial, legal, or mental health advice specific to your situation.

While I aim to provide helpful insights, each individual and relationship is unique, and the topics discussed may not fully apply to your personal circumstances. I encourage you to seek personalized guidance from a qualified financial, legal, or mental health professional.

By listening to this podcast,...

In this episode of the Healthy Love and Money Podcast, I welcome Dr. Jordan Grumet, hospice physician, financial expert, and author of The Purpose Code. We dive into the fundamental difference between meaning and purpose, how childhood narratives shape our life choices, and why many people struggle to feel “enough.” Jordan shares powerful insights on why purpose isn’t something you find—it’s something you build—and how small daily actions can create a fulfilling, purpose-driven life.

Quotes:

Key Moments:

⏳ [1:00] Jordan’s journey from doctor to purpose-driven work

⏳ [3:40] How childhood experiences shape our understanding of meaning

⏳ [7:10] The difference between meaning (past stories) and purpose (present action)

⏳ [12:00] The trap of living out someone else’s version of success

⏳ [17:00] Why big, goal-based purpose often leads to anxiety

⏳ [22:30] How to shift from external validation to intrinsic fulfillment

⏳ [29:00] The power of “little P” purpose and daily joy

⏳ [35:10] Four techniques to discover your personal purpose anchors

⏳ [40:00] Why purpose should be built around actions, not just people

Resources & Links:

🔗 Connect with Jordan Grumet:

• Website: JordanGrumet.com
• Podcast: Earn & Invest
• Books: Taking Stock and The Purpose Code
• Substack: The Purpose Code

📖 Recommended Books & Resources:

• The Purpose Code by Jordan Grumet
• Taking Stock by Jordan Grumet
• The Power of Meaning by Emily Esfahani Smith
• Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl

💡 Connect with Ed Coambs:

• Website: Healthy Love and Money
• Instagram: @HealthyLoveAndMoney
• LinkedIn: Ed Coambs

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Thank you for listening—remember, healthy...

In this episode of the Healthy Love and Money Podcast, I welcome Tara Unverzagt, founder of South Bay Financial Partners and a fellow financial therapist. We explore Internal Family Systems (IFS) and how this groundbreaking therapeutic approach can help individuals and couples transform their financial relationships. Tara shares her journey of integrating IFS into her financial therapy practice, how understanding our "parts" can heal deep-seated money wounds, and why no part of us is bad—even the ones that sabotage our financial decisions.

Quotes:

Key Moments:

⏳ [1:00] Tara’s journey into financial therapy and Internal Family Systems

⏳ [3:30] The shift from “fixing” money problems to embracing all parts of ourselves

⏳ [7:15] The power of scaffolding vs. enabling in family financial decisions

⏳ [12:00] How attachment theory influences our financial behaviors

⏳ [17:30] Everyday money conflicts—how a simple comment about crumbs turned into a deep realization

⏳ [22:00] The spender-saver dynamic and how IFS helps couples navigate financial differences

⏳ [28:40] Understanding financial anxiety and how it’s often rooted in childhood experiences

⏳ [33:00] The deep connection between money, identity, and self-worth

⏳ [40:10] Why financial planning should be about understanding emotions, not just numbers

Resources & Links:

🔗 Connect with Tara Unverzagt:

• Website: South Bay Financial Partners
• LinkedIn: Tara Unverzagt
• Instagram: @SouthBayFinancialPartners

📖 Recommended Books & Resources:

• No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz
• The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk
• Wired for Wealth by Brad Klontz

💡 Connect with Ed Coambs:

• Website: Healthy Love and Money
• Instagram: @HealthyLoveAndMoney
• LinkedIn: Ed Coambs

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In this episode of the Healthy Love and Money Podcast, I have the extraordinary privilege of welcoming George Kinder, the father of Life Planning and author of The Seven Stages of Money Maturity. George has been a pioneer in integrating psychology, philosophy, and finance, helping people move beyond numbers and into true financial freedom. Today, we discuss his new book, The Three Domains of Freedom, and how financial planning can become a tool for self-discovery, personal liberation, and societal transformation.

Quotes:

Key Moments:

⏳ [1:10] George shares his journey from traditional finance to life planning

⏳ [5:30] How he learned from the best therapists in Boston—and applied it to financial planning

⏳ [9:40] Why listening and inspiration are the two most powerful tools in financial planning

⏳ [15:20] Overcoming financial trauma by focusing on the future instead of being stuck in the past

⏳ [19:00] The magic question financial planners should ask their clients

⏳ [23:45] How couples can fall in love again by supporting each other’s dreams

⏳ [28:15] The illusion of competition in marriage—and why collaboration is the key to financial success

⏳ [34:30] George introduces his new book: The Three Domains of Freedom

⏳ [38:45] Why this is the most exciting time in human history for transformation

⏳ [44:00] How we can create a sustainable, just, and humane civilization

Resources & Links:

🔗 Connect with George Kinder:

• Website: GeorgeKinder.com
• Book: The Three Domains of Freedom
• Life Planning: Kinder Institute of Life Planning

📖 Recommended Books:

• The Seven Stages of Money Maturity by George Kinder
• The Three Domains of Freedom by George Kinder
• A Golden Civilization and The Map of Mindfulness by George Kinder

💡 Connect with Ed Coambs:

• Website: Healthy Love and Money
• Instagram: @HealthyLoveAndMoney
• LinkedIn: Ed Coambs

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