In this episode, Smith and Mayhew dive into the Drama Triangle – a powerful psychological model that explains how people get stuck in toxic cycles of victimhood, rescuing, and blame. Whether it’s in relationships, at work, or even with your own thoughts, understanding these patterns is the first step to breaking free and communicating more effectively. We also introduce the Empowerment Dynamic, the game-changing alternative that helps you take control and move forward in a healthier way.

If you want your question answered on a future episode, please drop the lads a line : hello@agameconsultancy.com

Adam Smith

From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he’s ever been, Adam Smith’s self-development journey hasn’t been easy but it has been worth it. Today, he’s a qualified mindset coach in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and a certified Time Line Therapist®.

Adam has coached many high performers, using NLP to rewire his clients’ thoughts and behaviours so they can destroy limiting beliefs and engineer the change needed to excel.

Connect with Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/

Adam Mayhew

Adam Mayhew swapped burnout and binge drinking for ultra marathons, CrossFit and sobriety. A registered nutritional therapist specialising in performance nutrition, Adam supports everyone from office workers to athletes to build healthy eating habits.

Using science (and never fad diets, quick fixes or gym bro culture) he helps clients target their problem areas and confidently master diet, training and lifestyle.

Connect with Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-mayhew-nutrition-coaching/

To find out more about Smith & Mayhew: https://agameconsultancy.com/about/

In this episode, Smith and Mayhew dive into the powerful lessons from The Courage to Be Disliked and why so many men hold themselves back because of fear—fear of judgment, fear of failure, and fear of not being ‘ready’. We unpack why waiting for the perfect conditions is just another excuse, how self-sabotage often hides behind good intentions, and why caring less about what others think is a game-changer for growth.

If you want your question answered on a future episode, please drop the lads a line : hello@agameconsultancy.com

RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE

The Courage to Be Disliked – Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitake Koga - AMAZON UK The Let Them Theory - Mel Robbins - AMAZON UK

Adam Smith

From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he’s ever been, Adam Smith’s self-development journey hasn’t been easy but it has been worth it. Today, he’s a qualified mindset coach in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and a certified Time Line Therapist®.

Adam has coached many high performers, using NLP to rewire his clients’ thoughts and behaviours so they can destroy limiting beliefs and engineer the change needed to excel.

Connect with Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/

Adam Mayhew

Adam Mayhew swapped burnout and binge drinking for ultra marathons, CrossFit and sobriety. A registered nutritional therapist specialising in performance nutrition, Adam supports everyone from office workers to athletes to build healthy eating habits.

Using science (and never fad diets, quick fixes or gym bro culture) he helps clients target their problem areas and confidently master diet, training and lifestyle.

Connect with Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-mayhew-nutrition-coaching/

To find out more about Smith & Mayhew: https://agameconsultancy.com/about/

In this episode of A-Game Unfiltered, Smith & Mayhew dive into the blurred lines between sacrifices and choices—are you really giving something up, or are you just making a decision based on what matters most? They also tackle the concept of self-obsession, exploring how it’s not just about vanity and six-packs, but can also manifest in a victim mentality.

If you want your question answered on a future episode, please drop the lads a line : hello@agameconsultancy.com

RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE

The Courage to Be Disliked – Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitake Koga - AMAZON UK

Adam Smith

From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he’s ever been, Adam Smith’s self-development journey hasn’t been easy but it has been worth it. Today, he’s a qualified mindset coach in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and a certified Time Line Therapist®.

Adam has coached many high performers, using NLP to rewire his clients’ thoughts and behaviours so they can destroy limiting beliefs and engineer the change needed to excel.

Connect with Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/

Adam Mayhew

Adam Mayhew swapped burnout and binge drinking for ultra marathons, CrossFit and sobriety. A registered nutritional therapist specialising in performance nutrition, Adam supports everyone from office workers to athletes to build healthy eating habits.

Using science (and never fad diets, quick fixes or gym bro culture) he helps clients target their problem areas and confidently master diet, training and lifestyle.

Connect with Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-mayhew-nutrition-coaching/

To find out more about Smith & Mayhew: https://agameconsultancy.com/about/

This episode dives deep into the excuses we tell ourselves—why we wait for the ‘perfect time’ to start, why we sabotage our own progress, and why so many men feel stuck without a clear sense of purpose.

Once again Smith & Mayhew, open the floor to answer your questions, today tackling:

• How can I repair my relationship when I feel distant from my partner?
• Why do I feel stuck in life? And how can I find my purpose?
• Why do I keep sabotaging my progress? And how can I stop?

If you want your question answered on a future episode, please drop the lads a line : hello@agameconsultancy.com

Adam Smith

From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he’s ever been, Adam Smith’s self-development journey hasn’t been easy but it has been worth it. Today, he’s a qualified mindset coach in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and a certified Time Line Therapist®.

Adam has coached many high performers, using NLP to rewire his clients’ thoughts and behaviours so they can destroy limiting beliefs and engineer the change needed to excel.

Connect with Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/

Adam Mayhew

Adam Mayhew swapped burnout and binge drinking for ultra marathons, CrossFit and sobriety. A registered nutritional therapist specialising in performance nutrition, Adam supports everyone from office workers to athletes to build healthy eating habits.

Using science (and never fad diets, quick fixes or gym bro culture) he helps clients target their problem areas and confidently master diet, training and lifestyle.

Connect with Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-mayhew-nutrition-coaching/

To find out more about Smith & Mayhew: https://agameconsultancy.com/about/

Smith & Mayhew dive deep into the art of resilience, emotional control, and why getting triggered by Elon Musk might not be the best use of your energy. They discuss how anger is often a choice, the power of reframing emotions, and the importance of consuming content that serves your inner peace. From ultra-endurance races to dodgy Netflix choices before bed, the lads explore how challenging yourself physically and mentally builds unshakeable resilience. Plus, we find out why watching a Jeffrey Dahmer documentary might not be the best way to unwind after a tough day—who knew?

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Adam Smith

From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he’s ever been, Adam Smith’s self-development journey hasn’t been easy but it has been worth it. Today, he’s a qualified mindset coach in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and a certified Time Line Therapist®.

Adam has coached many high performers, using NLP to rewire his clients’ thoughts and behaviours so they can destroy limiting beliefs and engineer the change needed to excel.

Connect with Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/

Adam Mayhew

Adam Mayhew swapped burnout and binge drinking for ultra marathons, CrossFit and sobriety. A registered nutritional therapist specialising in performance nutrition, Adam supports everyone from office workers to athletes to build healthy eating habits.

Using science (and never fad diets, quick fixes or gym bro culture) he helps clients target their problem areas and confidently master diet, training and lifestyle.

Connect with Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-mayhew-nutrition-coaching/

To find out more about Smith & Mayhew: https://agameconsultancy.com/about/

This episode is all about breaking through the barriers that hold you back. Whether it’s feeling overwhelmed by too many goals, struggling to ask for help, or falling into the same old patterns of self-sabotage, we tackle the mindset shifts needed to move forward.

Expect real talk, practical strategies, and a deep dive into the psychology of decision-making. Plus, we unpack why people make ridiculous commitments in January, why LinkedIn validation-seekers are everywhere, and why racing through life like a dented car in traffic won’t get you anywhere faster!

For Blood & DNA testing, please contact hello@agameconsultancy.com

Adam Smith

From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he’s ever been, Adam Smith’s self-development journey hasn’t been easy but it has been worth it. Today, he’s a qualified mindset coach in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and a certified Time Line Therapist®.

Adam has coached many high performers, using NLP to rewire his clients’ thoughts and behaviours so they can destroy limiting beliefs and engineer the change needed to excel.

Connect with Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/

Adam Mayhew

Adam Mayhew swapped burnout and binge drinking for ultra marathons, CrossFit and sobriety. A registered nutritional therapist specialising in performance nutrition, Adam supports everyone from office workers to athletes to build healthy eating habits.

Using science (and never fad diets, quick fixes or gym bro culture) he helps clients target their problem areas and confidently master diet, training and lifestyle.

Connect with Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-mayhew-nutrition-coaching/

To find out more about Smith & Mayhew: https://agameconsultancy.com/about/

In this episode we get deep into the topic of forgiveness and self-compassion. From heart-wrenching personal anecdotes about helping others through tough times to the transformative power of forgiving yourself, they tackle the emotional complexities of growth and healing.

They also discuss the importance of maintaining standards in your daily life, like making your bed and not letting chaos creep into your world. Expect reflections on stoic and Zen philosophies, tangents about alcohol-fuelled antics, and insights into becoming a better version of yourself.

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For Blood & DNA testing, please contact hello@agameconsultancy.com

Adam Smith

From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he’s ever been, Adam Smith’s self-development journey hasn’t been easy but it has been worth it. Today, he’s a qualified mindset coach in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and a certified Time Line Therapist®.

Adam has coached many high performers, using NLP to rewire his clients’ thoughts and behaviours so they can destroy limiting beliefs and engineer the change needed to excel.

Connect with Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/

Adam Mayhew

Adam Mayhew swapped burnout and binge drinking for ultra marathons, CrossFit and sobriety. A registered nutritional therapist specialising in performance nutrition, Adam supports everyone from office workers to athletes to build healthy eating habits.

Using science (and never fad diets, quick fixes or gym bro culture) he helps clients target their problem areas and confidently master diet, training and lifestyle.

Connect with Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-mayhew-nutrition-coaching/

To find out more about Smith & Mayhew: https://agameconsultancy.com/about/

In this episode, we dive into the transformative power of self-awareness and the pivotal role it plays in achieving peak performance.

From the importance of journaling and meditation to practical tips for staying present, Mayhew offers practical advice for meditation noobs, whilst Smith shares his own experiences with anger and overcoming setbacks and learning to laugh at life’s little hiccups—like an unexpected encounter with a salt shaker!

To join Our FREE Skool Community: https://www.skool.com/agame/about

For Blood & DNA testing, please contact hello@agameconsultancy.com

Adam Smith

From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he’s ever been, Adam Smith’s self-development journey hasn’t been easy but it has been worth it. Today, he’s a qualified mindset coach in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and a certified Time Line Therapist®.

Adam has coached many high performers, using NLP to rewire his clients’ thoughts and behaviours so they can destroy limiting beliefs and engineer the change needed to excel.

Connect with Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/

Adam Mayhew

Adam Mayhew swapped burnout and binge drinking for ultra marathons, CrossFit and sobriety. A registered nutritional therapist specialising in performance nutrition, Adam supports everyone from office workers to athletes to build healthy eating habits.

Using science (and never fad diets, quick fixes or gym bro culture) he helps clients target their problem areas and confidently master diet, training and lifestyle.

Connect with Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-mayhew-nutrition-coaching/

To find out more about Smith & Mayhew: https://agameconsultancy.com/about/