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- Aleksandra
- 12-31-20
Practical tips presented in a humorous way
Highly recommended. A lot of good stories, that make it easier to relate to in your personal life.
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- jimpgh@aol.com
- 12-06-22
good insights
the book has many good insights both about men and women as they search for relationships. the stories about individuals that the author has known really brings home in a poignant way key points about how to present yourself and how to understand the actions of others.
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- Kalesha
- 10-12-21
Awesome!! A MUST Have!
This was an awesome listen. I learned a lot about myself and the energy that i put out in the universe in order to attract my desired mate.
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- Ray Raasch
- 11-26-20
Leil Lowndes is God
Probably not my all time favorite of hers, but very interesting nonetheless. I really liked the focus on Becoming the one to find the one.
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- Amazon Customer
- 11-14-20
It was interesting
Overall interesting to read. Will continue listening onto other books and apply all knowledge learned.
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- Gil
- 11-20-20
can't stop listening
Tells it how it is! without al the politically correct talk.
Great info, fun to listen to, great book about dating.
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- Michaela Muthler
- 09-24-20
Insightful Hunting Skills
I found the parenthetical citations most helpful. Most relationship books are either fact or story based, this novel however, provides both.
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- Joshua L.
- 01-21-22
Great philosophy. Good advice for men. Stellar advice for women
I enjoyed the multiple studies and life experiences that Leil gives. The introduction chapters are the most important, and presents the philosophy that drives the data used in the second half of the book.
As a male, I’m mainly concerned with finding a very attractive woman with character who shares one or two interests with me. I don’t care about how much money she has or where she came from. Leil has one chapter about finding someone who is really attractive. And one chapter about character. The other 5 or so chapters are dedicated to dating someone who is rich and/or upper class. Her tips in those sections are very helpful but I’m not interested in them. Very fun to learn about them though
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- Brittany
- 01-07-21
Must Listen
This book is well written and very informative. I enjoyed hearing the anecdotes and tips. It was also narrated well. If you would like to date up, I highly suggest listening to this audiobook.
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- Jane
- 10-26-21
Interesting but lacking
I liked the new approach to dating. Good food for thought but I need more.
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