
Things Have Changed
What Every Parent (and Educator) Should Know About the Student Mental Health and Substance Misuse Crisis
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David Magee
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Today's world can be a daunting one for parents. Anxiety, depression, addiction, eating disorders, loneliness, social media; the list goes on. Award-winning author, student wellbeing activist, and creator of The William Magee Institute for Student Wellbeing at the University of Mississippi, David Magee offers guidance on raising teens amid increasingly common challenges. Magee shares research-backed insights on how to:
- Have conversations about mental health and drug and alcohol abuse
- Empower your child to ask for help when they need it
- Decide when and if treatment is needed
- Encourage your child to invest in healthy relationships
- Be intentional about social media use and interactions
Now, more than ever, parents and educators need better information about the challenges facing their children, what sorts of issues to expect and when, and the warning signs to look for. You'll find the guidance you need to feel prepared and tackle obstacles to your child's wellbeing in Things Have Changed.
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- 02-07-24
Compelling & Heartfelt
Anyone who has a teen or preteen should read this book. Our kids are facing more pressure and challenges than humanly possible to manage. David shares his parenting story from the lens of love, forgiveness and selflessness. He recently spoke at my child’s school. My daughter came home talking about this great speaker and all that she learned. Thankful I had already listened to this book. Thank you David for sharing your story with so many teens and parents!
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- Missy
- 04-18-24
A must read for all parents!
The author gives us an honest, unabridged look at the addiction crisis our children are facing. Highly recommend!
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