
The Knot
How to Secure Healthy, Modern Relationships While Not Being Tied to Marriage's Past
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Dana Robert Hicks
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Dana Hicks
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Conventional wisdom says that marriage as we experience it and understand it hasn’t changed much through human history. But marriage has and will continue to evolve and change as human beings wrestle with what kind of loving forms marriage should take. Is our current construct of marriage helping us or hurting us? How could we begin to imagine new forms of marriage that are more loving?
In this book, Dana Hicks wrestles with the history of love, sex, marriage, patriarchy, purity culture, and adultery in an attempt to form a new vision for how to act intentionally, in relational response to God and others, in order to promote overall well-being for ourselves, our partners, and our communities.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
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