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A Veteran FBI Agent's User Manual for Behavior Prediction
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Robin Dreeke
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A former FBI agent shares his simple but powerful toolkit for assessing who you can trust - and who you can't.
After two decades as a behavior analyst in the FBI, Robin Dreeke knows a thing or two about sizing people up. He's navigated complex situations that range from handling Russian spies to navigating the internal politics at the Bureau. Through that experience, he was forced to develop a knack for reading people - their intentions, their capabilities, their desires and their fears.
Dreeke's first book, It's Not All About "Me", has become a cult favorite with audiences seeking to build quick rapport with others. His last book, The Code of Trust, was about how to inspire trust in others as a leader. In Sizing People Up, Dreeke shares his simple, six-step system that helps you predict anyone's future behavior based on their words, goals, patterns of action, and the situation at hand.
Predicting the behavior of others is an urgent need for anyone whose work involves relationships with others, whether it's leading an organization, collaborating with a teammate, or closing a sale. But predictability is not as simple as good and evil, or truth and fiction. Allies might make a promise with every intention of keeping it, not realizing that they will be unable to do so due to some personal shortcoming. And those seeking to thwart your endeavor may not realize how reliable their malevolent tells have become.
Dreeke's system is simple, but powerful. For instance, a colleague might have a strong moral code, but do they believe your relationship will be long-term? Even the most upstanding person can betray your trust if they don't see themselves tied to you or your desired result in the long term. How can you determine whether someone has both the skill and will to do what they've said they're going to do? Behaviors as subtle as how they take notes will reveal their reliability.
Using this book as their manual, listeners will be able to quickly and easily determine who they can trust and who they can't; who is likely to deliver on promises and who will disappoint; and when a person is vested in your success vs. when they are actively plotting your demise. With this knowledge they can confidently embark on anything from a business venture to a romantic relationship to a covert operation without the stress of the unknown.
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- Narrated by: Fred Sanders, Robert Greene
- Length: 12 hrs and 58 mins
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From the world’s foremost expert on power and strategy comes a daily devotional designed to help you seize your destiny.
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Chapters are Busted
- By Colin on 10-12-21
By: Robert Greene
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Talking to Strangers
- What We Should Know About the People We Don't Know
- By: Malcolm Gladwell
- Narrated by: Malcolm Gladwell
- Length: 8 hrs and 42 mins
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How did Fidel Castro fool the CIA for a generation? Why did Neville Chamberlain think he could trust Adolf Hitler? Why are campus sexual assaults on the rise? Do television sitcoms teach us something about the way we relate to each other that isn't true? While tackling these questions, Malcolm Gladwell was not solely writing a book for the page. He was also producing for the ear. In the audiobook version of Talking to Strangers, you’ll hear the voices of people he interviewed - scientists, criminologists, military psychologists.
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Enjoyable listen with some facts incorrect
- By Jim on 09-11-19
By: Malcolm Gladwell
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Undoing Depression
- What Therapy Doesn't Teach You and Medication Can't Give You
- By: Richard O'Connor PhD
- Narrated by: Allan Robertson
- Length: 12 hrs and 35 mins
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Depression rates around the world have skyrocketed in the 20‑plus years since Richard O'Connor first published his classic book on living with and overcoming depression. Nearly 40 million American adults suffer from the condition, which affects nearly every aspect of life, from relationships to job performance, physical health, productivity, and, of course, overall happiness. And in an increasingly stressful and overwhelming world, it's more important than ever to understand the causes and effects of depression, and what we can do to overcome it.
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Me sacó del pozo
- By Ignacio Basello on 04-18-24
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How to Calm Your Mind
- Finding Presence and Productivity in Anxious Times
- By: Chris Bailey
- Narrated by: Chris Bailey
- Length: 8 hrs and 3 mins
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It took an on-stage panic attack for productivity expert Chris Bailey to recognize how critical it is to invest in calm at the same time that we invest in becoming more productive. Productivity advice works—and we need it now more than ever—but it’s just as vital that we develop our capacity for calm.
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Amazing
- By Dennis ILIN on 01-05-23
By: Chris Bailey
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Smart, Not Loud
- How to Get Noticed at Work for All the Right Reasons
- By: Jessica Chen
- Narrated by: Jessica Chen
- Length: 6 hrs and 36 mins
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Building on the lessons she learned as an award-winning TV news journalist, Chen—who now speaks at Fortune 100 companies and whose LinkedIn Learning courses have been watched by over 2 million people—introduces a new way of getting noticed at work, without being loud, aggressive, or boastful. In Smart, Not Loud, Chen teaches listeners how they can look within, to the values they already hold, to more effectively show up.
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Had high hopes but disappointed.
- By michael perry on 03-09-25
By: Jessica Chen
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It's Not All About Me
- The Top Ten Techniques for Building Quick Rapport with Anyone
- By: Robin Dreeke
- Narrated by: Robin Dreeke
- Length: 3 hrs
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Master the communication skills to build authentic connections, forged upon a foundation of trust from a global behavioral expert and master spy recruiter. Robin is a best-selling author, professional speaker, trainer, facilitator, former Marine Corps Officer, and retired FBI Special Agent and Chief of the Counterintelligence Behavioral Analysis Program.
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Really good listen
- By Mr Vegas on 10-06-22
By: Robin Dreeke
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Rejection Proof
- How I Beat Fear and Became Invincible Through 100 Days of Rejection
- By: Jia Jiang
- Narrated by: Jia Jiang
- Length: 5 hrs and 55 mins
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Jia Jiang came to the United States with the dream of being the next Bill Gates. But despite early success in the corporate world, his first attempt to pursue his entrepreneurial dream ended in rejection. Jia was crushed, and spiraled into a period of deep self doubt. But he realized that his fear of rejection was a bigger obstacle than any single rejection would ever be, and he needed to find a way to cope with being told no without letting it destroy him.
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Everybody should read this book!
- By Alex Hell on 01-08-25
By: Jia Jiang
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Mindshift
- Break Through Obstacles to Learning and Discover Your Hidden Potential
- By: Barbara Oakley PhD
- Narrated by: Barbara Oakley PhD
- Length: 9 hrs and 50 mins
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Mindshift reveals how we can overcome stereotypes and preconceived ideas about what is possible for us to learn and become. At a time when we are constantly being asked to retrain and reinvent ourselves to adapt to new technologies and changing industries, this book shows us how we can uncover and develop talents we didn't realize we had - no matter what our age or background.
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Learning by anecdote
- By Mark B. on 08-11-17
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Better Than Before
- Mastering the Habits of Our Everyday Lives
- By: Gretchen Rubin
- Narrated by: Gretchen Rubin
- Length: 9 hrs and 33 mins
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The author of the blockbuster New York Times best sellers The Happiness Project and Happier at Home tackles the critical question: How do we change? Gretchen Rubin's answer: through habits. Habits are the invisible architecture of everyday life. It takes work to make a habit, but once that habit is set, we can harness the energy of habits to build happier, stronger, more productive lives.
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Don't Waste Your Money
- By Stacie M on 04-23-15
By: Gretchen Rubin
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Peak Performance
- Elevate Your Game, Avoid Burnout, and Thrive with the New Science of Success
- By: Brad Stulberg, Steve Magness
- Narrated by: Will Damron
- Length: 6 hrs and 50 mins
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In revealing the science of great performance and the stories of great performers across a wide range of capabilities, Peak Performance uncovers the secrets of success, and coaches you on how to use them. If you want to take your game to the next level, whatever "your game" may be, Peak Performance will teach you how.
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Great Book!!
- By Anonymous User on 03-23-25
By: Brad Stulberg, and others
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The Karma of Success
- Spiritual Strategies to Free Your Inner Genius
- By: Liz Tran
- Narrated by: Liz Tran
- Length: 5 hrs and 26 mins
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Most of the traditional advice about getting ahead focuses on managing other people’s impressions of you. It’s all about how to network with impressive people and accommodate yourself to people with status and power. Executive coach Liz Tran asks you to forget about those people, and instead, train yourself to listen to and be guided by your innermost voice. From tech to spiritual leadership and executive coaching, Tran has charted her own path by learning how to tune into her intuition and be true to her Inner Genius.
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The most un-pretentious self help book
- By Absolutely insane price on 07-26-24
By: Liz Tran
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The Warrior Poet Way
- A Guide to Living Free and Dying Well
- By: John Lovell
- Narrated by: John Lovell, Rebekah Lovell
- Length: 7 hrs and 46 mins
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There is a war on masculinity, and everywhere we look—on every front we hold sacred—we can see the painful reminders of this collapsing order. The chaos and crisis we are experiencing today should be a signal for men everywhere to rise up; to fight to preserve our way of life by once again walking the ancient paths. But this isn’t a journey that need be taken alone.
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It’s so good that I bought both Audible and ebook versions
- By NotACat on 07-17-23
By: John Lovell
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- Jessa
- 06-06-20
Best read of the year so far.
Highly recommend this book, I’ll definitely be repeat listening to this one & using my notes in both my professional and personal life.
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- Pablo A Gonzalez
- 06-25-20
Absolute Genius
Robin has learned some rock solid truths in his years of working as a spy:
- that the nature of relationships is reciprocal value
- people tend to act in their own self interest, and when they don’t it’s a data point
And distilled a practical system for evaluating whom to trust. I think it’s brilliant, and every bit as useful as his Code of Trust method for healthy relationship building.
I’m well read in behavioral sciences books and officially a big fan.
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- Aaron
- 09-09-21
A must for anyone with a desire to succeed
great book. have listened through 2 times now and still getting information. not just about reading others, it's about how to read and control yourself.
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- IC
- 07-20-20
Self Reflection
Even though this is a book about ‘sizing other people up’ I couldn’t help but self reflect and see the gaps in myself and how I could improve. If this is how we evaluate other people, how do I evaluate myself? How can I become more of the person I want to be?
Overall: I really enjoyed this book. The pace is steady, the chapters have a good mixture of information, personal stories and the structure is easy to follow and learn.
I think there are multi-levels in this book in which many people can learn from... not just how we evaluate others, but the building blocks within our relationships that form bonds and why.
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- StarchMD
- 11-04-20
Superb Insigts
I’m a fan of the show Criminal Minds & this book gave me great insight into how to understand behavior patterns to let me improve my work relationships significantly. Thanks!!!
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- Amazon Customer
- 06-13-24
Great read.
If you want to understand people and how to interact successfully with them, cultivate relationships and build trust - for all the right reasons, read this book. You won’t be disappointed.
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- someone
- 09-01-21
better than i thought it would be
while this book is called sizing people up, I think it mostly about building trust.
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- KH
- 07-09-24
Everyone should listen to this.
This book is not only for predicting behavior, it is a great and accurate guide to human bahavior and values. The author is able to accurately articulate feelings and instincts that most of us, actually all of us possess.
great guide for a satisfying life and interactions with people.
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- Catherine
- 01-22-20
Listening for the second time
Mostly good, however, I do disagree with several comments/beliefs.
Perhaps for the second edition Robin can employ a profession voice actor. Sounds too much like Jocko Willink - aggressive.
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- Ed Shepherdson
- 02-22-20
Recognizing Human Behavior is tricky
First of all, I liked the bit of intrigue that accompanied this book. Without the back drop of some of the stories this book would have been fairly bland. One of the challenges that I often find with these books is that the authors often make the art of reading people and their behaviors as something that is easy and everyone can do. In my experience these types of skills take years for time and practice to be able to do it consciously in any situation. However, there was some very good content on how to approach the thought patterns associated with this type of art.
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