
Male vs. Man
How to Honor Women, Teach Children, and Elevate Men to Change the World
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Dondré Whitfield
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Males look to be served. Men look to be of service. Emmy Award-nominated actor best known for his role on Queen Sugar and transformational speaker Dondré Whitfield challenges us to be real men in this provocative look at the power found in serving others.
Too many males abuse the power they have.
Often those males grow up without healthy role models and so, while they look like men, they act like boys. Only now there are adult consequences to their actions.
And many of us are caught in the shifting cultural ideas about manhood, unsure of how to make sound decisions or truly be a man. Every day we find evidence that the role of men at home, at work, and out in the world is deeply misinterpreted.
In Male vs. Man, Dondré Whitfield equips us to become men rather than simply "grown males." Men are healthy and productive servant-leaders who bring positive change to their communities. Males are self-serving and stuck in negative cycles that we hear and read about daily. They create chaos instead of cultivating calm.
Male vs. Man is an uplifting playbook for men who want to level up. It will help men and women alike understand what real manhood is, based on biblical wisdom as well as hard-earned lessons from someone who has been there. With practical guidance and a strong spiritual foundation, Dondré shows how to cultivate the life-changing spiritual, emotional, and psychological attributes of servant leadership at home, at work, and in our communities.
©2020 Dondré T. Whitfield (P)2020 ZondervanListeners also enjoyed...
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- P Tomkinson
- 02-23-21
see things in a different light
very interesting way to view your marriage. I think it's on point. I will recommend to friends.
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- Marlon D Harris
- 02-27-21
Excellent
This book was a great read and extremely informative. I will definitely recommend it to other black men. Thank you.
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- Derrick B.
- 05-20-21
Very Insightful
I enjoyed the everyday language of Dondre’s book. He meets people in a place of humility and honesty. I learned a great bit about myself and
desire to share more of myself with others.
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- Anonymous User
- 09-09-21
NO SOUND. PLEASE UPDATE! A GOOD BOOK TO READ.
NO SOUND! NO AUDIO! GOOD BOOK THO... Please Update. No Sound. No Audio. Update
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- ROMANTICIST PHILOSOPHICAL
- 08-25-20
VERY IMPRESSIVE!!!
Dondre Whitfield did a great job writing and performing his book. The concept of Male vs. Man is excellent. I admire how he uses real life and biblical teachings to bring understanding to men. As a woman, I am inspired by this book and it moved me to know and do better.
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- Eryc
- 09-13-22
Every man/male, must have manual!!!!
My cousin Tanya referred this book to me. It is wonderfully illustrated. I love how the author walks you through the book like a college orientation, movie set, and talk show. "clever" This book is full of life changing principles w/ real talk that every man/male could relate to regardless of nationality. If you are a man/male who desires to glorify God, live a life of impact and purpose and leave an lasting legacy for generations to follow. If you're constantly evolving to be better, this is it!!!
THE MEN/MALE MANUAL 🤜🏿💯🤛🏿👍🏿👍🏿💯💙👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
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- Jacqueline Andrews
- 08-10-22
Powerful Book!
Whitfield put his all into this work. I highly recommend this book to anyone who needs to understand the difference between males and men. Women should also read this book because it is enlightening!
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- Amazon Customer
- 02-22-24
DON’T SLEEP ON THIS MEN!!!
This was a must listen to! I think it’s helpful wherever you are in your journey towards becoming a man; regardless to where you may actually be
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- Angela Powell
- 04-07-21
Great book!
I found this book informative and interesting. Thank you for the enlightenment. It's a good read.
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- 08-06-20
Great book!
Great book. Very helpful and reliable insight that readers will benefit from on their journeys. Performance of author was also stellar.
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