
Big Dating Energy
How to Create Lasting Love by Tapping into Your Authentic Self
Failed to add items
Add to Cart failed.
Add to Wish List failed.
Remove from wishlist failed.
Adding to library failed
Follow podcast failed
Unfollow podcast failed
3 months free
Buy for $22.49
No default payment method selected.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
-
Narrated by:
-
Jeff Guenther
About this listen
Eight Rules of Love by Jay Shetty meets Tinx's The Shift for making modern relationships work for you, from a licensed professional therapist with two decades of experience and nearly 4 million followers on social media as @therapyjeff
Dating these days is hard, and no one understands that more than licensed therapist Jeff Guenther. Whether you’re looking for marriage or just a fling, exploring your sexuality or discovering your attachment style, or just trying to figure out which app is most worth your time, Jeff meets you exactly where you are; it’s no surprise that millions of viewers have found comfort in his posts. With humor, empathy, and an acknowledgment of the obstacles to finding healthy relationships, he has become the dating whisperer for the social media age.
Dating in the super-online, post-covid world is not for the weak, and people are confused and looking for guidance. In the vein of Unf*ck Yourself, The Love Prescription and How to Not Die Alone, Big Dating Energy is a funny, modern self-help title that tackles the opaque world of dating, empowering the listener with straight talk and an emphasis on authenticity.
Covering everything from first dates to red flags, ideal partner checklists to knowing when and how to end things, and even an exploration of the people and things you can blame for why your dating life hasn’t worked out so far, Big Dating Energy harnesses the charm and easy-to-use advice that nearly 4 million followers come to the @therapyjeff platform for daily. It will set you up to not only succeed at dating, but maybe even enjoy it along the way.
©2024 Jeff Guenther and Kate Happ (P)2024 VoraciousListeners also enjoyed...
-
How to Love Better
- The Path to Deeper Connection Through Growth, Kindness, and Compassion
- By: Yung Pueblo
- Narrated by: Yung Pueblo
- Length: 7 hrs and 33 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Love enters our lives in many forms: friends, family, intimate partners. But all of these relationships are deeply influenced by the love we have for ourselves. If we see our relationships as opportunities to be fully present in our healing and growth, then, Yung Pueblo assures us, we can transform and meet one another with compassion instead of judgment.
-
-
excellent book
- By Jilian on 05-21-25
By: Yung Pueblo
-
Thank You, More Please
- A Feminist Guide to Breaking Dumb Dating Rules and Finding Love
- By: Lily Womble
- Narrated by: Lily Womble
- Length: 6 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
High-achieving women have figured out every aspect of their lives—except how to find love on their terms. The truth is that the conversation about women and dating is still stuck in the dark ages. Lily Womble, former top matchmaker turned dating coach, has seen it all. Most single women she meets are exhausted and have been taught to believe that they want too much, are too much, and that they need to settle to find partnership. Lily shares her proven feminist framework that has helped millions of women create epic lives that center around their own agency, aliveness, and power.
-
-
Positive! Fun! Inspiring!
- By Ms. Write on 02-22-25
By: Lily Womble
-
How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind
- Forget the Fairy Tale and Get Real
- By: Todd Baratz LMHC
- Narrated by: Vikas Adam
- Length: 6 hrs and 55 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Modern love is a mess and life is (spoiler alert!) very hard. Whether you’re in a committed relationship or on the apps, buckle up, there’s a lot to unlearn. How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind is your guide to sanity in a culture gone mad. Psychotherapist and sex therapist Todd Baratz blends sharp humor with raw insight as he challenges us to break every rule about love. It’s time to move beyond the relentless pursuit of the perfect partner, to challenge the stigma against neediness, and to rethink our obsession with diagnosing common challenges as disorders.
-
-
is Todd telling my own story?
- By R. MEDINA on 06-09-24
By: Todd Baratz LMHC
-
Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents
- Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries and Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy
- By: Lindsay C. Gibson PsyD
- Narrated by: Suzie Althens
- Length: 7 hrs and 16 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In this important sequel to Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, author Lindsay Gibson offers powerful tools to help you step back and protect yourself at the first sign of an emotional takeover, make sure your emotions and needs are respected, and break free from the coercive control of emotionally immature parents.
-
-
Asinine
- By Amazon Customer on 07-14-20
-
It Begins with You
- The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life
- By: Jillian Turecki
- Narrated by: Jillian Turecki
- Length: 8 hrs and 5 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Jillian Turecki’s holistic, compassionate, yet no-nonsense approach to love has attracted a devoted following of millions. In her highly anticipated debut book, she makes clear that if you want a meaningful relationship filled with connection, security, and intimacy, you have to look within. The common denominator in all your relationships is you. Drawing from decades of experience helping clients heal themselves and their relationships, It Begins with You introduces the 9 core truths we must accept in order to change our lives.
-
-
shallow..
- By slc on 01-30-25
By: Jillian Turecki
-
Too Much
- A Guide to Breaking the Cycle of High-Functioning Codependency
- By: Terri Cole MSW LCSW
- Narrated by: Terri Cole MSW LCSW
- Length: 7 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Are you the person doing it all for everyone but yourself? With Too Much, Terri Cole presents a life-saving guide to recovery from what she calls high-functioning codependency (HFC). Each chapter brings you insights and practices to transform how you see yourself and the world, honor your own needs, and reclaim the freedom and joy you deserve.
-
-
Found relevance in my obesity mindset
- By A. Padilla on 03-16-25
-
How to Love Better
- The Path to Deeper Connection Through Growth, Kindness, and Compassion
- By: Yung Pueblo
- Narrated by: Yung Pueblo
- Length: 7 hrs and 33 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Love enters our lives in many forms: friends, family, intimate partners. But all of these relationships are deeply influenced by the love we have for ourselves. If we see our relationships as opportunities to be fully present in our healing and growth, then, Yung Pueblo assures us, we can transform and meet one another with compassion instead of judgment.
-
-
excellent book
- By Jilian on 05-21-25
By: Yung Pueblo
-
Thank You, More Please
- A Feminist Guide to Breaking Dumb Dating Rules and Finding Love
- By: Lily Womble
- Narrated by: Lily Womble
- Length: 6 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
High-achieving women have figured out every aspect of their lives—except how to find love on their terms. The truth is that the conversation about women and dating is still stuck in the dark ages. Lily Womble, former top matchmaker turned dating coach, has seen it all. Most single women she meets are exhausted and have been taught to believe that they want too much, are too much, and that they need to settle to find partnership. Lily shares her proven feminist framework that has helped millions of women create epic lives that center around their own agency, aliveness, and power.
-
-
Positive! Fun! Inspiring!
- By Ms. Write on 02-22-25
By: Lily Womble
-
How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind
- Forget the Fairy Tale and Get Real
- By: Todd Baratz LMHC
- Narrated by: Vikas Adam
- Length: 6 hrs and 55 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Modern love is a mess and life is (spoiler alert!) very hard. Whether you’re in a committed relationship or on the apps, buckle up, there’s a lot to unlearn. How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind is your guide to sanity in a culture gone mad. Psychotherapist and sex therapist Todd Baratz blends sharp humor with raw insight as he challenges us to break every rule about love. It’s time to move beyond the relentless pursuit of the perfect partner, to challenge the stigma against neediness, and to rethink our obsession with diagnosing common challenges as disorders.
-
-
is Todd telling my own story?
- By R. MEDINA on 06-09-24
By: Todd Baratz LMHC
-
Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents
- Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries and Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy
- By: Lindsay C. Gibson PsyD
- Narrated by: Suzie Althens
- Length: 7 hrs and 16 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In this important sequel to Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, author Lindsay Gibson offers powerful tools to help you step back and protect yourself at the first sign of an emotional takeover, make sure your emotions and needs are respected, and break free from the coercive control of emotionally immature parents.
-
-
Asinine
- By Amazon Customer on 07-14-20
-
It Begins with You
- The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life
- By: Jillian Turecki
- Narrated by: Jillian Turecki
- Length: 8 hrs and 5 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Jillian Turecki’s holistic, compassionate, yet no-nonsense approach to love has attracted a devoted following of millions. In her highly anticipated debut book, she makes clear that if you want a meaningful relationship filled with connection, security, and intimacy, you have to look within. The common denominator in all your relationships is you. Drawing from decades of experience helping clients heal themselves and their relationships, It Begins with You introduces the 9 core truths we must accept in order to change our lives.
-
-
shallow..
- By slc on 01-30-25
By: Jillian Turecki
-
Too Much
- A Guide to Breaking the Cycle of High-Functioning Codependency
- By: Terri Cole MSW LCSW
- Narrated by: Terri Cole MSW LCSW
- Length: 7 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Are you the person doing it all for everyone but yourself? With Too Much, Terri Cole presents a life-saving guide to recovery from what she calls high-functioning codependency (HFC). Each chapter brings you insights and practices to transform how you see yourself and the world, honor your own needs, and reclaim the freedom and joy you deserve.
-
-
Found relevance in my obesity mindset
- By A. Padilla on 03-16-25
-
The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy
- Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go
- By: Lola Phoenix, Kathy G. Slaughter LCSW
- Narrated by: Lola Phoenix
- Length: 4 hrs and 50 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Embarking on a non-monogamous relationship can be a daunting experience, opening old wounds that cause anxiety, fear and confusion, something Lola Phoenix knows about all too well. In this all-you-need-to-know guide to exploring non-monogamy, polyamory and open relationships, Lola draws upon their years of experience in giving advice and being non-monogamous to provide guidance for every stage of your journey, helping you to prioritise your mental health and well being along the way.
-
-
vulnerability and transparent narrative
- By Amazon Customer on 05-07-25
By: Lola Phoenix, and others
-
The Pivot Year
- By: Brianna Wiest
- Narrated by: Stacey Glemboski
- Length: 5 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Devote the next twelve months of your life to making measured and real change, beginning with your mindset. The Pivot Year is a book of 365 daily meditations on finding the courage to become who you've always wanted to be, from the internationally best selling author of "101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think," "The Mountain Is You," and more.
-
-
Just get the book
- By Amazon Customer on 08-21-24
By: Brianna Wiest
-
Love Life
- How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)
- By: Matthew Hussey
- Narrated by: Matthew Hussey
- Length: 11 hrs and 1 min
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Finding love can be hard. Being single can feel even harder. In Love Life, world-renowned coach and New York Times bestselling author Matthew Hussey provides a practical roadmap for letting go of past relationships, overcoming the fear of getting left behind, and finding the love we want.
-
-
The chapter on hard conversations was useful
- By Amazon Customer on 05-20-24
By: Matthew Hussey
-
Boundary Boss
- The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen, and (Finally) Live Free
- By: Terri Cole MSW LCSW
- Narrated by: Terri Cole MSW LCSW
- Length: 7 hrs and 54 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The most successful and satisfied people on the planet have one thing in common: the ability to create and communicate clear, healthy boundaries. This ability is, hands down, the biggest game changer when it comes to creating a healthy, happy, self-determined life. In Boundary Boss, psychotherapist Terri Cole reveals a specific set of skills that can help you stop abandoning yourself for the sake of others (without guilt or drama) and get empowered to consciously take control of every aspect of your emotional, spiritual, physical, personal, and professional life.
-
-
Buy the hard cover book
- By Luxor on 05-05-21
-
Anxiously Attached
- Becoming More Secure in Life and Love
- By: Jessica Baum LMHC
- Narrated by: Jessica Baum LMHC
- Length: 9 hrs and 26 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
An estimated 47 million Americans identify as having an anxious attachment style, which can make being in relationships turbulent and emotionally taxing for them. According to groundbreaking research in the field of attachment, anxious types are more prone to insecurity, jealousy, codependency, and other behaviors that get in the way of finding and sustaining love.
-
-
So slow
- By RSC on 04-20-23
-
Platonic
- How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make—and Keep—Friends
- By: Marisa G. Franco PhD
- Narrated by: Marisa G. Franco PhD
- Length: 10 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
How do we make and keep friends in an era of distraction, burnout, and chaos, especially in a society that often prizes romantic love at the expense of other relationships? In Platonic, Dr. Marisa G. Franco unpacks the latest, often counterintuitive findings about the bonds between us—for example, why your friends aren’t texting you back (it’s not because they hate you!), and the myth of “friendships happening organically” (making friends, like cultivating any relationship, requires effort!).
-
-
Too much and yet, not enough
- By Kali on 04-05-23
Critic reviews
"Raw, empowering, and refreshingly honest, Big Dating Energy will teach you to embrace you full self and date with confidence. With his signature no-nonsense, deeply compassionate style, Jeff offers practical tips and unwavering support to help you navigate the dating scene—and have fun while doing it."—Logan Ury, author of How to Not Die Alone
Excellent listen
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
Wise, practical, funny, and irreverent
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
Maybe it’s better called “Big Relationship Energy” because it walks you through all the stages from meeting to the honeymoon phase to when-to-call-it-quits and how to get back out there.
If you know Therapy Jeff and are a fan, you recognize the title and know what a wild ride you’re getting into. The authors voice and humor is clear and consistent throughout.
10/10 and I’m going to be listening to this one again.
Just Keep Listening!
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
Found this book to be very simplistic.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
Author just repeats preconceived notions and does not promote approaching relationships from a curious and non judgmental view.
3 stars because he is entertaining. But I do not recommend take his advice to heart.
Funny thou
Pretentious
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
Dull
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
Not an authentic book on dating.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.