Self Help Psychology

I used to think the solution to every problem was to do more, try harder, hustle faster. When I was stressed about an exam, I'd play video games instead of studying (then feel worse the next day). When dating wasn't working out, I'd either obsess over every text message or give up entirely. When work got overwhelming, I'd either burn myself out or distract myself with endless scrolling. Sound familiar? Here's what I discovered: most of us are doing the wrong kind of "nothing." We think we're lazy or unmotivated, but actually, we're just using coping strategies that make everything harder. ...

Have you ever wondered how to get into another person's mind? Is it possible to control the minds of others like in fantasy movies and comics? Would you like to be able to persuade the minds of others? It is possible that someone has asked this question at some point in their life and has given up on it. The truth is that it does not matter how impossible this is but if it is possible to get into the minds of other people. At any time, people allow us to see the actions they perform, and it is here that we can detect their behavior patterns and thus enter their minds.

What if your relationship could thrive, not just survive? This self-help book is your ultimate guide to navigating love’s trickiest challenges with psychology-backed strategies and real-life solutions. Relationships don’t come with a manual—or do they? How to Avoid Common Relationship Pitfalls is here to help you sidestep the mistakes that derail so many connections. Packed with relatable stories, actionable advice, and psychological insights, this self-help book is designed for women who want to create stronger, healthier relationships with their partners.Inside, You’ll Discover: ...

When you are showered with attention, it can feel incredibly romantic and can blind you to hints of problems ahead. But what happens when attentiveness becomes domination? In some relationships, the desire to control leads to jealousy, gaslighting, threats, micromanaging - even physical violence. If you or someone you care about are trapped in a web of coercive control, this audiobook provides answers, hope, and a way out.

Product Description for the 2020 edition Are you always longing for something else? Do you feel like something is missing in your life? Do you feel you were destined to live for love relationships? Do you feel like being creative is an important part of your life? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you may be a Romantic in the Enneagram. In this book, you will learn all about what it’s like to be a Romantic including the longing for a perfect love relationship and the search for creative expression in your life. A Holistic Counselor since 1999, Donna Fisher-Jackson has ...

People with BPD are like people with third-degree burns over 90% of their bodies. Lacking emotional skin, they feel agony at the slightest touch or movement - Marsha Linehan Having Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is also like having a broken brain. Because people can’t see it from the outside, they expect you to be able to run the race of life with no extra help or effort. Because of this, you end up being misunderstood, judged, and alienated, leading to broken relationships, lost jobs, and feeling isolated and alone… No one seems to understand what you’re going through, not ...

Most people traditionally train only the conventional aspects of their abilities, they focus on the technical skills of a task. However there is another layer, an emotional and behavioral set of factors which can really make the biggest impact on the results you can achieve. That is where neuro-linguistic programming comes in. NLP techniques are designed to help you tap into those top level mindsets when required. But most people aren't equipped with the right strategies or outlook on NLP to really make it work.

Autistic influencer Daniel M. Jones is an expert on living well on the spectrum. No matter what you’re going through as someone with autism, Dan gets it—he’s been there. He’s here to explain everything he learned, and then some, in this instruction manual and memoir about life as an autistic person. Dan’s book is packed with actionable advice that listeners can immediately start putting into practice.

Living is hard. Living is complicated. But, this book can help you make sense of everything important in the life of (almost any) individual, along with a pinch of humor and a lot of pop-culture references. Written by a practicing counseling psychologist with over 10 years of therapeutic experience - who’s also a game design teacher - this book aims to cover it all. It does the same through simple and clear language, steering clear of complex psychological notions and statistics of any kind. There’s no hard data in this book and the author takes pride in that fact. But, it’s full of ...

As children, we develop stories about how the world works, most of which get improved upon and amended over time. But some do not, even as we mature in other ways. Opinionated, self-centered, and fear-driven, these “child stories” are the source of the behavioral and emotional patterns that hold us back. When we learn to identify and rewrite these stories, limitless growth becomes possible.

Waves—Not Spoons is an exciting look at energy management that goes far beyond Spoon Theory and other previous energy management models. Waves-Not Spoons is bidirectional, accommodating the flow of energy both in and out (positive and negative). Waves-Not Spoons helps us manage multiple energy systems—physical, emotional, and social. No doubt many of you are familiar with "The Spoon Theory" as was coined by Christine Miserandino in her 2003 essay entitled "The Spoon Theory". The basic premise of her analogy was that for each day we all have a limited amount of energy available to us ...

By adopting most of the recovery and organizational principles of Alcoholics Anonymous, this book is provided as a way out for those who have a great desire to get help with rage issues in their life. This book is a public domain document to be used to provide assistance and guidance to those persons who find they are addicted to rage and desperately want help. In order to respect the Traditions of Alcoholics Anonymous, the author must remain anonymous. This book is very Spiritual in nature. Not only will it discuss a Spiritual Recovery Program, but it will outline a Spiritual Democracy and...

If you're caring for someone with BPD, whether you are a spouse, family member, friend, or therapist to BPD clients, this book is for you. Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) causes havoc in relationships, and difficulties for the therapist. This book introduces a completely new therapeutic approach to treatment of BPD. This revolutionary approach is called, "CCCT", which stands for, "Challenges, Consequences & Commitment Therapy." In it, you will learn a simple 3-step method that is user-friendly, and teaches you how to: 1.) Identify the Challenges that have been impeding growth 2.) ...

In the midst of a chaotic world, where self-criticism and constant comparison seem to prevail, "The Path to Self-Compassion: Nurturing Inner Peace in a Chaotic World" offers a guiding light towards a more compassionate and fulfilling life. Through insightful- and practical exercises, and gentle encouragement, this book teaches us to embrace self-compassion as the key to finding inner peace, cultivating resilience, and fostering meaningful connections with others. Whether you are seeking overcome self-doubt, or simply navigate life's challenges with greater ease, this powerful guide will ...

Through vivid stories of the experiences of their patients (both adults and children), Drs. Hallowell and Ratey show the varied forms ADD takes - from the hyperactive search for high stimulation to the floating inattention of daydreaming - and the transforming impact of precise diagnosis and treatment.

+Do you struggle with constant worrying thoughts? Do you feel anxious more times than not, and you don’t know what to do about it? Would you like to learn how to put an end to worrying and anxiety? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you’re going to want to continue reading. In life, there will be things that worry your, things that cause you to feel anxious or things that cause you to feel nervous. That’s normal because we don’t know what the future holds, and we never know exactly how our past anxieties have affected us and others. A certain level of these feelings is ...

Be Calm Now is a guidebook for a quieter mind. It shows the way to find calm within chaos. Simple, step by step instructions provide practical exercises to reduce stress, lower anxiety, and harness inner resources that will help strengthen mental resilience and help you grow in wisdom and compassion. Be Calm Now brings together knowledge from a wide variety of fields including art psychotherapy, developmental psychology, music therapy, yoga, mindfulness, tai chi and shamanic practices. It distils the essence of these broader traditions into a manageable and digestible format giving the ...

It's not a surprise that our fast-paced, overly analytical culture is pushing people - especially women - to spend countless hours thinking about negative ideas, feelings, and experiences. Renowned psychologist Dr. Susan Nolen-Hoeksema calls this "overthinking". Her groundbreaking research shows that an increasing number of women - more than half of those in her extensive study - are doing it too much and too often, hindering their ability to lead a satisfying life.

It’s easy to see how science has advanced over the years, discovering truths and laws that unite people from all over the world. Yet religion remains simplistic and divisive. Religion is supposed to be the branch of knowledge that explains God and life's purpose. It’s supposed to be as insightful as biology, geology, or physics. Yet religious affiliation is declining because the old and new age religions fail to offer valuable insights. The Puzzle of Religion isn't another compilation of spiritual anecdotes and clichés, nor is it another history lesson on religion. Instead, Douglas ...

A practical companion to the New York Times and international bestseller Dopamine Nation, The Official Dopamine Nation Workbook is for individuals, families, counselors, teachers, and anyone who wants to go beyond the narrative and engage in practices that will reset reward pathways for a more flourishing life.