Someone once told me I’d go further if I just “toned it down.” Less opinions. Less visibility. Less… me. And for a minute? I believed them.

In this episode, I’m sharing the moment that planted self-doubt, how it almost made me walk away from everything I’ve built, and the community that reminded me my “too much” was never the problem.

If you’ve ever been told to shrink yourself, this one’s for you.

We’ll talk about:
– The early advice that hit the hardest– Crying over content and almost quitting– How mentorship went wrong—and what saved me– Why the world doesn’t need a quieter version of you– And the power of being unapologetically seen

Plus, in this week’s Oliver’s Light segment, I share the messages that keep pouring in from other grieving families—and why saying his name matters.

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It’s my birthday, baby, 44 years young.

And in true Random Candace Thoughts fashion, I’m not here for the sugar-coated, Pinterest-perfect version. I’m here to keep it honest.

This episode is a birthday reflection on what I’ve learned (and what I’m still learning) about life, grief, parenting, aging, and starting over.

We’re talking:• Why red flags don’t turn green with time• Why growth feels lonelier than rock bottom• The price of peace• And how grief never expires—but neither does your power to rebuild

Plus, I share this week’s Oliver’s Light segment to honor my grandson, and why this birthday feels both beautiful and bittersweet.

If you’ve ever felt like it’s too late to pivot, too hard to keep going, or too messy to start again, this one’s for you.

Grab a seltzer, sit in the sun, and let’s talk real life.
Cheers to 44!

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Is AI helping us or hurting us?

In this episode of Random Candace Thoughts, I’m diving into the hot topic of artificial intelligence, specifically ChatGPT, and whether using it in your business or life is a creative power move or straight-up cheating.

I break down:

• Why AI isn’t new (we’ve been using it for years)

• The difference between using AI as a tool vs. a shortcut

• 5 real-world tips to use AI without losing your voice

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• Plus, in this week’s Oliver’s Light segment, I share a deeply personal story about how AI helped me process emotions after losing my grandson Oliver and why no machine can replace real human connection.

  
  

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Failure in business.

Failure in motherhood.

Failure in life.

Or at least... that’s how it feels sometimes.

In this episode of Random Candace Thoughts, I’m talking about the moments that looked like failure; losing my military career, rebuilding from scratch, flopping online and how those moments became the foundation for something better.

We’ll unpack how to reframe failure, why social media gets it all wrong, and how to know if you’re actually growing (even when it feels like you’re falling apart).

If you’re a content creator, entrepreneur, or just a human going through it, this one’s for you.
Plus: a special Oliver’s Light tribute for grieving families and anyone who’s learning how to keep showing up.

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I Tried All The Side Hustles So You Don’t Have To (The Truth About Online Income)

I didn’t try 5,768 different side hustles because I was curious or “finding myself”.
I did it because I was broke, burned out, and sick of getting ghosted by mentors who only showed up to sell me something.

From dropshipping to OnlyFans, TikTok Shop, and affiliate marketing; I’ve tested the side hustles all over your For You page.

Some worked. Some flopped. And some made me question my entire life.

In this episode, I’m sharing:

• What I’d never recommend (unless you love chaos)

• The side hustles I still use in my business today

• What to look out for before buying another course

• Why trying unconventional things doesn’t make you desperate—it makes you resourceful

  
  

💬 Real talk, real receipts, and zero fluff. If you’re tired of getting scammed by shiny strategies and want to know what actually works, this one’s for you.

🕯 Oliver’s Light: A reminder about the value of time and building what matters.

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Identity Evolution and Personal GrowthIn this episode, I’m getting honest about identity—how it shifts, how it gets buried under everything we’re “supposed” to be, and how freaking messy it can feel when you realize… you don’t even know who you are anymore.I open up about my own journey through motherhood, grief, burnout, business, mental health struggles, and how those seasons forced me to question everything. The truth? You’re allowed to change. You’re allowed to not have a 10-year plan. And you’re allowed to evolve without explaining yourself to anyone.We also get into:- Why you don’t need to have it all figured out by 25 (or ever)- The pressure of personal branding and why it’s lowkey exhausting- What self-discovery really looks like (yes, including crying in your car with fries in your lap)- A Mindset Minute reminder that being a work-in-progress doesn’t make you any less worthy- And a heartfelt Oliver’s Light reflection on identity, love, and why just being here is enoughThis episode is for anyone in the in-between. The people who are unpacking, evolving, and trying to make peace with the version of themselves that’s still becoming.

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