Someone once told me I’d go further if I just “toned it down.” Less opinions. Less visibility. Less… me. And for a minute? I believed them.

In this episode, I’m sharing the moment that planted self-doubt, how it almost made me walk away from everything I’ve built, and the community that reminded me my “too much” was never the problem.

If you’ve ever been told to shrink yourself, this one’s for you.

We’ll talk about:
– The early advice that hit the hardest– Crying over content and almost quitting– How mentorship went wrong—and what saved me– Why the world doesn’t need a quieter version of you– And the power of being unapologetically seen

Plus, in this week’s Oliver’s Light segment, I share the messages that keep pouring in from other grieving families—and why saying his name matters.

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It’s my birthday, baby, 44 years young.

And in true Random Candace Thoughts fashion, I’m not here for the sugar-coated, Pinterest-perfect version. I’m here to keep it honest.

This episode is a birthday reflection on what I’ve learned (and what I’m still learning) about life, grief, parenting, aging, and starting over.

We’re talking:• Why red flags don’t turn green with time• Why growth feels lonelier than rock bottom• The price of peace• And how grief never expires—but neither does your power to rebuild

Plus, I share this week’s Oliver’s Light segment to honor my grandson, and why this birthday feels both beautiful and bittersweet.

If you’ve ever felt like it’s too late to pivot, too hard to keep going, or too messy to start again, this one’s for you.

Grab a seltzer, sit in the sun, and let’s talk real life.
Cheers to 44!

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Is AI helping us or hurting us?

In this episode of Random Candace Thoughts, I’m diving into the hot topic of artificial intelligence, specifically ChatGPT, and whether using it in your business or life is a creative power move or straight-up cheating.

I break down:

• Why AI isn’t new (we’ve been using it for years)

• The difference between using AI as a tool vs. a shortcut

• 5 real-world tips to use AI without losing your voice

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• Plus, in this week’s Oliver’s Light segment, I share a deeply personal story about how AI helped me process emotions after losing my grandson Oliver and why no machine can replace real human connection.

  
  

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