Welcome to a special series within the Practical Change for MidLife Lesbians podcast:
Unraveling Ezra — a journey into the life, legacy, and contradictions of my great-great-great grandfather, Ezra Baker Jr. MD.

This arc is a departure from my usual content, but sometimes, life pulls you in an unexpected direction. This is one of those times.

In this first episode, I share how a dramatic quote from a dusty 19th-century history book led me to a quiet cemetery plot near my home—and how that small contradiction launched a full-blown research quest across U.S. history, family folklore, political scandals, and personal reckoning.

Ezra Baker Jr. was a doctor, land speculator, a merchant, an entrepreneur, a postmaster, political appointee… Definitely an opportunist, and possibly a traitor. He was also definitely not as forgotten as people would like to believe—and not nearly as ruined as the record claims.

Along the way, I’m asking questions about legacy, masculinity, white privilege, reinvention, and the stories we choose to pass down.

• Quote from the Combined History of Edwards, Lawrence and Wabash Counties, Illinois (1883)

• Ezra’s burial site at The Woodlands Cemetery in Philadelphia

• Family narratives (and myths) from the Minerd.com Haupt-Baker page

Do you know anything about the Bakers of Wabash County, Il? Do you love researching local history, 19th-century politics, or tracing lost archives? I’d love to hear from you. The story is much more interesting in the context of the times.

Contact me at: claire@clairebakerok.com

And of course -- If you want coaching, head over to PracticalChangeCoaching.com for more info.

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In this inspiring and deeply personal episode, I sit down with Allison Landry to explore the transformative power of self-compassion. Allison and certified counselor Megan Welwood are offering a free 8-week online Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC) course starting February 3, 2025.

In our discussion, we dive into:

• What self-compassion is—and what it isn’t.
• Unique challenges faced by the LGBTQIA+ community and how self-compassion can help.
• Allison’s own journey toward embracing self-compassion.
• Practical strategies you can start using today to be kinder to yourself.

About the Free Course:
Participants will learn empirically supported techniques from the Mindful Self Compassion program focusing on mindfulness, common humanity, and self-kindness. This program is a fantastic opportunity to develop tools that promote emotional resilience and greater self-acceptance.

How to Sign Up:
Email meganallymsc@gmail.com to secure your spot in this life-changing course!

Tune in for a conversation full of warmth, insight, and actionable advice for midlife lesbians—and anyone looking to make practical changes to nurture themselves.

Welcome to Season 2! Unvarnished and short, it's a new dawn for Claire and Practical Change for Midlife Lesbians, but same great insights for those of us lesbians who are working on making changes we want. Visit Practical Change Coaching for more.