In this episode of Perspectives with Sherry, we’re diving into 5 intentional, thought-provoking questions every woman should ask a man early in the dating process. These aren’t surface-level icebreakers — they’re designed to help you gain clarity, assess compatibility, and save yourself from wasting time. Whether you’re newly back on the dating scene or just trying to date with more purpose, these questions will help guide your heart and your standards.

💬 In this episode, we discuss:

• Why the right questions early on can reveal emotional intelligence
• How to gauge values, priorities, and self-awareness in a potential partner
• Red flags and green flags to listen for in their answers
• The power of dating with intention in midlife
• What not to settle for just to feel “chosen”

📝 The 5 Questions:

1. What does a fulfilling relationship look like to you at this stage in life?
2. How do you typically spend your weekends?
3. What’s something you’ve worked on personally over the past few years?
4. What role does love, faith, or personal values play in how you choose a partner?
5. What’s one thing you’ve learned from past relationships that you carry with you now?

💡 Takeaway:

You don’t need to be a relationship expert to date with wisdom—you just need the right lens. Start asking better questions and get closer to the connection you deserve.

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Have you asked any of these questions on a date? What answers were revealing? DM or comment and let us know what resonated with you!

Episode Description:

In this special Mother’s Day episode, I’m sending love and gratitude to all the amazing moms out there! Tune in for a heartfelt message and a preview of what’s ahead on Perspectives with Sherry—including the “Dear Younger Self” panel discussion and two powerful interviews with dynamic women sharing their motherhood journeys. It’s all about honoring where we’ve been, how far we’ve come, and what we’d tell the woman we once were.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• A heartfelt Mother’s Day message from Sherry
• A look ahead at upcoming episodes focused on motherhood
• Highlights from the “Dear Younger Self” panel discussion
• Insight into interviews with two inspiring moms
• Why these stories matter—especially for women in midlife

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In this heartfelt and transparent conversation, Carolyn J. Murphy—author of God, Why Did You Save Me?, Peer Recovery Specialist, and Christian Life Coach—shares her powerful journey from trauma to triumph. She speaks openly about surviving deep pain, navigating healing through faith, and finding purpose on the other side of adversity.

This episode is a reminder that God can redeem even the most broken places. Whether you’re in the middle of your healing, questioning your journey, or learning to trust again—Carolyn’s story will meet you there

💡 Key Takeaways:

• How Carolyn learned to trust God with her brokenness
• What trauma recovery looks like when faith leads the way
• Encouragement for women rediscovering their voice
• Why your past doesn’t disqualify your purpose
• The divine reason behind asking “Why me?”

🔗 Connect with Carolyn J. Murphy:

• 📘 Book: God, Why Did You Save Me? 👉 https://amzn.to/44lt2kY
• 🌐 Website: 👉 https://carolynjmurphy.com
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