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What happens when your life shatters in ways you never imagined? Tanya Davis-Ezedema knows that feeling all too well. From facing domestic violence while raising her son as a 22-year-old single mom to building a household name, Tanya's early motherhood journey was marked by one painful challenge after another.

But when she found her 10-year-old son sobbing over a pile of mismatched socks after his father had disappeared yet again, something profound shifted. That moment of heartbreak became the catalyst for transformation that would eventually touch countless women's lives.

In this powerful conversation, Tanya shares how she navigated the seemingly impossible balance of building a career while parenting alone, eventually climbing the ranks to leadership at one of the world's busiest airports. Her professional success, however, was just the beginning. The wisdom forged through her struggles led her to create Butterfly Rising Institute, a movement dedicated to helping women transform their pain into purpose.

Now married with a second son born 22 years after her first, Tanya offers unique perspective on motherhood across different life seasons. She challenges the myth of work-life balance, instead teaching women to focus on what she calls the three pillars: career, communication, and cash. "It's not about juggling everything perfectly," she explains, "but understanding what needs priority in that moment."

Whether you're a single parent, a working mom struggling with guilt, or simply feeling overwhelmed by life's demands, Tanya's story reminds us that our breaking points often become our breakthrough moments. As she beautifully puts it: "Through chaos comes change." Her virtual program, Butterfly Haven, creates space for women to breathe, connect, and find clarity amid life's most challenging seasons.

Join us for this raw, faith-filled conversation about resilience, redemption, and the beauty that emerges when we embrace our stories—even the painful chapters. Connect with Tanya at butterflyrisinginstitute.com or on Instagram @btrfly_rise to learn more about her upcoming sessions, including "Beauty in the Breaking, When Pain Becomes Purpose."

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Konnor Lanker's story will stop you in your tracks. When doctors diagnosed her first daughter with hydrops—a rare, life-threatening condition with fluid building up in her baby's body—at 31 weeks pregnant, Konnor's journey into motherhood became one of medical uncertainties and deep faith. Doctors performed an experimental treatment using poppy seed oil that had only been tried once before at their hospital, with unsuccessful results. The miracle that followed changed everything.

Now 35 weeks pregnant with her second daughter, Konnor found herself facing the impossible again: the same diagnosis doctors said had virtually no genetic likelihood of recurring. Yet within weeks of beginning community prayers, the condition mysteriously cleared from scans. These medical journeys have shaped Konnor's perspective on motherhood, faith, and what truly matters.

Beyond medical challenges, Konnor opens up about balancing motherhood with her pursuit of cosmetology school, creating a career that allows flexibility to be present for her children while still contributing financially. She shares how becoming a mother transformed her priorities and deepened her relationship with God in ways she never anticipated.

What resonates most is Konnor's intentionality about building a home where faith is woven into everyday moments—from playing worship music to praying multiple times daily with her spirited toddler Hallie, who now faithfully prays for her baby sister. Konnor's legacy of faith, passed down from her grandmother and mother, continues as she raises daughters who understand that faith isn't just a Sunday commitment but a way of life.

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The weight of unimaginable loss meets the light of unwavering faith in this powerful conversation with Mallory Mosby, a young widow raising two daughters after losing her firefighter husband Harrison to cancer.

Mallory's love story with Harrison was beautiful but brief—they fell in love quickly, married, and welcomed their daughters Kollyns ("strength") and Gracelee ("hope") in quick succession. Then cancer changed everything. Through pregnancy, delivery, and raising a toddler, Mallory stood beside Harrison during his brave fight, learning lessons about love and faith that transformed her forever.

What stands out most in Mallory's testimony is her conscious choice to embrace joy even while grieving deeply. "I have two choices," she explains. "I can be bitter or I can choose joy." This isn't toxic positivity—Mallory openly acknowledges the loneliness of widowhood, the challenges of single parenting, and those mornings when grief hits unexpectedly hard. Yet she continues finding purpose in raising her daughters to know both their earthly father's legacy and their heavenly Father's love.

Listen as Mallory shares about completing a marathon to honor Harrison's memory, how she's creating new family traditions, and what it means to have a relationship with God that evolved from occasional bedtime prayers to constant conversation throughout the day. Her journey reminds us that strength often looks like simply showing up with shaky hands, that grief and joy can coexist, and that even in our deepest pain, we are never walking alone.

Whether you're navigating loss, raising children solo, or simply trying to trust God through difficult seasons, Mallory's story will remind you that hope remains alive even in life's darkest chapters.

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What happens when church trauma shatters your faith, but motherhood calls you to rebuild something authentic for your children? Today's raw conversation with my high school friend Elizabeth Hurt dives into exactly this tension.

Elizabeth, now a mom of three spirited girls (Holland, Lennon, and Iverson), opened her heart about the devastating spiritual trauma her family experienced. The aftermath had her and her husband questioning everything they thought she knew about faith. But rather than abandoning belief altogether, she found herself becoming what she calls a "spiritual newborn" – stripping away the performance of religion to rediscover what genuine faith actually looks like.

"I just want my life to be the proof of Your love," Elizabeth shares, explaining how she's moved away from the checklist Christianity of her past toward simply loving like Jesus. This transformation hasn't been quick or easy, especially while raising three young daughters who need their own foundation.

What resonated most powerfully was Elizabeth's approach to protecting her children while nurturing their spirituality. Having experienced "church hurt" firsthand, she's intentional about empowering her daughters with agency over their bodies and teaching them their voice matters. "That is your body," she tells them firmly, ensuring they know they can always speak up if something feels wrong.

The conversation takes a beautiful turn when we discuss how motherhood itself becomes a path back to authentic faith. Elizabeth shares how seeing her cousin live out genuine Christianity without judgment became more healing than any sermon could be.

Between motherhood chaos, rebuilding faith, and finding herself through creativity with her business Wooden Okie, Elizabeth reminds us that healing isn't linear but it is possible. Sometimes, the very things that broke us – in her case, religion twisted by human failure – can be reclaimed in healthier, more authentic ways.

Whether you've experienced church hurt, are questioning your faith while raising children, or simply need to know you're not alone in the messy journey of motherhood, this conversation offers both validation and hope. Join us for this heart-to-heart that proves sometimes our deepest connections come through our most vulnerable struggles.

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Alexandra's journey from corporate finance executive to twin boy mom reveals the beautiful paradox at the heart of motherhood—our desire for structure colliding with the gloriously unpredictable nature of raising children. Trading spreadsheets for sleep schedules wasn't part of her original career plan, but it's become her most meaningful adventure.

After 13 years climbing the corporate ladder, Alexandra recently made the leap to stay-at-home motherhood, bringing her type-A organizing skills along for the ride. What she discovered was a profound truth that resonates with moms everywhere—the best laid plans often falter in the face of toddler tantrums, sleepless nights, and the everyday chaos of raising twins. This realization birthed both her Instagram community @backtohomebase and her aptly named podcast "Planned-ish."

Throughout our conversation, Alexandra shares the raw reality of her postpartum experience—the overwhelming emotions, the pressure to be perfect, and the anxiety that would build as 4pm approached, signaling another potentially sleepless night ahead. Her vulnerability creates space for listeners to acknowledge their own struggles without judgment, reminding us that behind every seemingly perfect Instagram mom is someone fighting their own battles.

What makes Alexandra's approach so refreshing is her balance of practical solutions with genuine grace. From meal planning and budgeting, to sleepless nights and tantrums, she embodies the "planned-ish" philosophy—create structure where you can but surrender control where you must.

Whether you're struggling with sleep schedules that make no sense, feeling overwhelmed by the mental load of motherhood, or simply needing permission to laugh at the beautiful mess of it all, Alexandra's wisdom offers that rare combination of practical help and soul-deep encouragement. The journey of motherhood wasn't meant to be perfect—it was meant to be real, with all its tears, triumphs, and moments of surprising grace.

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What happens when life takes you from speech pathology to stay-at-home mom with two energetic boys? Jessica Drummond knows this journey intimately, and she's here to share her heart about embracing the beautiful chaos of motherhood with intentionality and joy.

From the moment she begins speaking, Jessica's warmth radiates as she introduces us to her world as a boy mom to Wade (3) and baby Cal with his surprising red hair. Her stories of finding Hot Wheels in the washing machine, dealing with toy snakes in unexpected places, and witnessing those heart-melting moments when her boys look at her with pure love will resonate with any parent who's navigated the wild terrain of raising children.

What makes this conversation truly special is Jessica's refreshing perspective on presence. In a culture obsessed with productivity and forward movement, she's learned the gift of being fully where she is. "To be present is a gift to the people that I'm with," she reflects, offering wisdom for anyone struggling to stay grounded amid life's constant demands. This intentionality extends to her marriage, ministry work with teenage girls, and even how she's navigated difficult seasons and joyful times!

Jessica speaks with disarming honesty about identity shifts that come with motherhood, especially when transitioning from career to stay-at-home parenting. Having worked hard for her speech pathology degree, she initially felt guilt stepping away from her profession. Yet she's found profound purpose in this season: "I get to shape character right now in a way that I just don't feel like I could with multiple things on my plate." Her perspective offers freedom to women wrestling with similar identity questions.

The conversation weaves through faith, community-building, and creating meaningful traditions with your children. Drawing from her experience of being "a Buick kid" (brought up in church), Jessica shares how her parents' approach to faith shaped her own parenting philosophy.

Whether you're in the trenches of early motherhood, navigating a career transition, or seeking to build a stronger faith foundation for your family, Jessica's story reminds us that each season holds purpose, even when it feels messy or invisible. Join us for this heartfelt conversation about finding joy in the wild, beautiful journey of raising little humans.

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What happens when the beautiful dreams we hold for motherhood collide with unexpected heartbreak? Kristen Christy knows this terrain intimately. As a worship leader, mother of four "earthside" children, and a woman who has walked through the valley of infant loss, she brings profound wisdom about finding joy even in life's most difficult seasons.

Motherhood often feels like a delicate balancing act—juggling the needs of our children, our marriages, our work, and ourselves. But what if balance isn't actually the goal? Kristen challenges us to release the pressure of "having it all together" and instead embrace a life of open hands and surrendered control. Her refreshing approach of simply "doing the next right thing" offers freedom to mamas drowning in expectations.

Kristen's faith was tested in ways she never imagined. The raw honesty she shares about questioning God's goodness while ultimately discovering deeper trust will resonate with anyone who has faced disappointment or grief. Her journey reminds us that our broken pieces, when surrendered to God, can become the foundation for unexpected beauty and purpose.

One of the most powerful concepts Kristen introduces is "inviting the glorious into the mundane." Whether you're singing worship songs on a platform at church or whispering lullabies at 2 a.m., every moment becomes sacred when we recognize it as worship. This perspective transforms how we view the repetitive tasks of motherhood—the endless laundry, meal prep, and child training—revealing them as opportunities for deep heart work and divine encounter.

With the unique perspective of raising both teenagers and toddlers simultaneously, Kristen offers encouragement that the seeds planted during those exhausting early years truly do bear fruit. Her story is a beautiful reminder that motherhood isn't just about surviving the chaos—it's about discovering joy in the midst of it.

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What happens when life's hardest moments collide with God's deepest truths? Nicole Remert has lived this collision firsthand—from being separated from God in her teenage years, to hospital rooms where her son's life hung in the balance.

As a wife, author, homeschooling mom, and the creator of Bible Study Resources, Nicole guides us through her transformation from party girl to passionate Bible teacher with stunning honesty. Her journey began when, at just 18 years old, she heard the gospel for the first time and discovered that God desired a relationship with her. This revelation changed everything.

The heart of our conversation explores why scripture study isn't just nice but necessary—especially for exhausted mothers. "Christian mamas need to remind themselves of the gospel daily," Nicole shares. "We're saved by God's grace, by God's unmerited favor, and then we live in God's grace." This truth sustained her when her youngest son Braxton developed infantile spasms at four months old, beginning years of medical crises where scripture memory became her lifeline in terrifying hospital rooms.

Nicole offers refreshingly practical wisdom on biblical womanhood, discipling children, and finding God's presence in the hardest seasons. Her approach to teaching theology to children involves not just knowledge but authentically living out her relationship with God. "More is caught than taught," she explains, describing how she wants her sons to see her genuine worship and prayers.

Perhaps most powerful is Nicole's perspective on parenting a special needs child: "Having a special needs kid is such a powerful picture of the gospel. The Lord pours himself out onto people who can offer nothing back. Similarly, I pour out my life for my child who may never say 'thank you' or 'I love you'—because he's mine, and that's enough."

Whether you're new to faith or longing to go deeper, Nicole's testimony will leave you equipped, encouraged, and eager to open God's Word for yourself. Follow her @biblestudyresources to discover practical tools for growing your relationship with God right where you are.

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