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Alexandra's journey from corporate finance executive to twin boy mom reveals the beautiful paradox at the heart of motherhood—our desire for structure colliding with the gloriously unpredictable nature of raising children. Trading spreadsheets for sleep schedules wasn't part of her original career plan, but it's become her most meaningful adventure.

After 13 years climbing the corporate ladder, Alexandra recently made the leap to stay-at-home motherhood, bringing her type-A organizing skills along for the ride. What she discovered was a profound truth that resonates with moms everywhere—the best laid plans often falter in the face of toddler tantrums, sleepless nights, and the everyday chaos of raising twins. This realization birthed both her Instagram community @backtohomebase and her aptly named podcast "Planned-ish."

Throughout our conversation, Alexandra shares the raw reality of her postpartum experience—the overwhelming emotions, the pressure to be perfect, and the anxiety that would build as 4pm approached, signaling another potentially sleepless night ahead. Her vulnerability creates space for listeners to acknowledge their own struggles without judgment, reminding us that behind every seemingly perfect Instagram mom is someone fighting their own battles.

What makes Alexandra's approach so refreshing is her balance of practical solutions with genuine grace. From meal planning and budgeting, to sleepless nights and tantrums, she embodies the "planned-ish" philosophy—create structure where you can but surrender control where you must.

Whether you're struggling with sleep schedules that make no sense, feeling overwhelmed by the mental load of motherhood, or simply needing permission to laugh at the beautiful mess of it all, Alexandra's wisdom offers that rare combination of practical help and soul-deep encouragement. The journey of motherhood wasn't meant to be perfect—it was meant to be real, with all its tears, triumphs, and moments of surprising grace.

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https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/planned-ish/id1815551724

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XO, Alexis Schmoker

Mama of the Wild Crew

📸: A heartfelt thank you to Jordan Allen of Cr00ked Teeth Photography for capturing this stunning cover photo.