Dear Sister Girl,

I am writing about my job. I have what one would consider a good job. It has fair pay, good benefits, and some room for advancement. I do extremely well with my responsibilities and work with a dynamic team. My challenge is I no longer enjoy my work. I am very grateful for what I have learned and the opportunities I have experienced. Presently, I am looking to more clearly identify my dream so I can step out in a new direction. My family and friends think it is ridiculous to quit such a cushy job. They do not see the ever changing last minute demands and the complete collapse of my work/life balance–all with little reward. I feel exhausted physically and emotionally. When is it time to go?

Please help,

Frazzled

Dear Sister Girls,

While on a date night with my husband, we saw one of his close friends coming out of a Hotel with a woman that was not his wife. They were touching and kissing all over each other. Now…I knew we would need evidence to show his wife, so I quickly snapped a picture. 

My husband doesn’t want to tell his friend’s wife about what we show. He says that it’s a violation of his “Man Code”. I am not necessarily close to the wife, we are good acantenes because our husbands are so close. But the woman in me wants her to know what is going on.

My question is, “Should I tell the wife about her cheating ass husband or not”

Signed,

He Still Creeping

Dear Sister Girls,

I am desperately in need of dating advice. I have been trying to do online dating and there is just a weird trend that I am seeing in the profiles that I have been seeing. A lot of the men that keep coming up on my profile are in photos with other people, groups, other women, and sometimes with animals. Yes, animals, I have seen regular animals like cats and dogs which makes sense but there are other animals like GOATS. I have seen more than 5 men in photos with goats as their main photo. 

The Goats are even posed in the photos like “Hey baby, you need to pick the kid!” Is this normal, should I be posing with animals too? Every single one of these guys have all sent me private messages and they seem normal but I just do not respond. Is that wrong or am I missing out.

Signed,

Should I have a Dating Spirit Animal