My Son’s Face After I Yelled Changed Everything

When Coach Red Wallace yelled at his son, he saw a look that shattered his heart – and it changed him forever. In this powerful episode, Red shares the moment he realised anger was breaking the very bond he wanted to build. Discover how he transformed his approach to fatherhood, leadership, and marriage by learning to lead with a love stronger than anger.

You’ll learn:
✅ The life-changing lesson from his son’s silent reaction
✅ Biblical wisdom on anger and love
✅ CALM: A strategy to replace yelling with connection
✅ Practical love drills for fathers, husbands, and leaders

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00:00 Introduction: A Life-Changing Question

00:31 The Red Print Legacy Assessment

01:54 A Father's Regret: The Yelling Incident

04:16 God's Whisper: Learning to Love

04:47 Biblical Insights on Anger and Love

12:01 Practical Love Drills for Fathers

13:28 Practical Love Drills for Husbands

14:13 Practical Love Drills for Leaders

15:31 CALM: A Strategy to Replace Yelling

17:02 Conclusion: Lead with Limitless Love

Are you tired of performing, striving, and still feeling empty?In this video, I share my personal journey from burnout and spiritual exhaustion to learning how to truly abide in Christ—and what real, lasting fruit looks like when it's born from presence, not pressure.Jesus didn’t call us to hustle harder. He called us to abide.Here’s how to stop taping fake fruit to a dead tree and start living a life rooted in the Vine.🌱 You’ll learn:- The difference between striving and abiding- 3 practical rhythms of grace to reconnect with God- Why “quiet time” isn’t about checking a box- How real fruit only grows from spiritual intimacy, not spiritual performanceThis is the intro to a 9-part series diving into each Fruit of the Spirit—so be sure to subscribe and follow along.🔔 Subscribe + hit the bell for the full series on love, joy, peace, patience, and more.🙏 Let’s grow together—not from effort, but from abiding in Him.00:00 My Journey from Striving to Abiding00:53 The Illusion of Busyness and Performance01:17 Understanding True Abiding in Christ01:45 Personal Struggles and Realizations02:27 Choosing Everlasting Fruit Over Seasonal Fruit03:02 Three Rhythms of Grace for Daily Abiding03:41 Scripture Meditation: Deepening Your Devotion04:10 Silent Prayer: Listening to God's Whisper05:26 Daily Surrender: Giving God the First of Your Day06:21 The Power of Abiding: Real-Life Testimonies07:05 Introduction to the Nine-Part Series on Spiritual Fruits08:22 Final Thoughts and Prayer08:52 Call to Action: Subscribe and Join the Journey📖 Verses referenced:John 15:4-5, Galatians 5:22-23#StrivingVsAbiding #AbideInChrist #ChristianEncouragement #FruitOfTheSpirit #christianyoutuber WHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!

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Most men and leaders think playing it safe is wise, thinking the devil is after their comfort, chasing the “easy” life— but what if the very thing you’re avoiding is exactly what God is calling you toward?In this video, I share a raw part of my journey — stepping away from comfort, facing fear, and walking in obedience even when it didn’t make sense. You’ll hear how faith isn’t the absence of fear, but obedience in spite of it… and how what looks risky to the world might actually be the safest place: inside God’s will.🎁 FREE RESOURCE: Download the Legacy Letter Framework → https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/legacyletter👋 Connect with Red WallaceIG & Tiktok: @coach.redwallaceFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/dustin.r.wallace.5/🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications for more weekly encouragement and leadership growth.00:00 Introduction: The Safest Place Might Be the Most Dangerous00:55 Meet Red Wallace: Your Guide to Rediscovering Purpose01:39 A Personal Journey: From Stability to Obedience03:19 The Struggle and Refinement: Facing Anxiety and Depression04:45 The Call to Obedience: Biblical Examples and Personal Insights05:36 The Danger of Playing It Safe: Losing Your Fire07:45 Steps to Radical Obedience: Practical Advice08:41 The Legacy Letter: Building a Lasting Impact10:34 Final Reflections: Embrace Your God-Given DreamWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!

Why are you still tired—even after you rest?You slow down, take time off, even go on vacation... but you still feel exhausted.In this powerful teaching based on Mark 2:23–28, Coach Red Wallace unpacks one of Jesus’ most disruptive lessons: “The Sabbath was made for man—not man for the Sabbath.”If you're caught in a cycle of hustle, performance, and religious rules, this message is for you.You’ll learn:Why your “rest” isn’t restoring you- The difference between religious rest and Kingdom rhythm- How Jesus redefines Sabbath as a relationship, not a rule- 3 practical steps to reclaim real rest and resist burnout🎁 Download the FREE Legacy Letter Template: 👉 coach-redwallace.kit.com/legacyletter🔔 Don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and COMMENT: What’s one area God is asking you to slow down and realign?00:00 Why You're Still Tired00:55 Introducing Coach Red Wallace01:13 The True Meaning of Sabbath02:43 The Science of Rest03:39 Jesus and the Sabbath07:25 Practical Steps to Reclaim Rest10:40 Final Thoughts and Call to ActionWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!

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Correction without compassion isn’t leadership — it’s spiritual damage.If you’ve ever been hurt by someone who claimed they were helping you “in love”… or if you’re in a position of leadership and want to make sure you’re building people up — not tearing them down — this video is for you.Today, we’re flipping the script on correction.We’ll unpack 3 essential moves every Christlike leader must master to guide with truth and love — so you correct without crushing and lead like Jesus, not a Pharisee.📌 Watch Part 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oErKobLOx3s&t=3s📘 Download the FREE Legacy Declaration Guide → https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/legacyletter📲 Book a complimentary 30-min clarity call : https://calendly.com/coachredwallace/let-s-talk-about-itWhat You’ll Learn:* The Biblical blueprint for correction (Titus 2:15)* A personal story of failing at correction — and learning a better way* The 3 moves of Christlike leadership that heal, not hurt* Why “truth without trust” always failsTIMESTAMPS:00:00 Introduction: Addressing Church Hurt00:25 Leadership and Compassionate Correction02:28 The Blueprint for Biblical Leadership03:22 Personal Story: Learning from Failure04:07 Three Moves of Christlike Correction05:20 Conclusion: Leading with Love06:27 Call to Action👊 Let’s rebuild trust. Let’s lead like Jesus. Let’s leave people whole, not wounded.💬 Drop a comment: Who needs your connection more than your correction right now?#churchhurt #christianleadership #correction #biblicaltruth #faithandhealingWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!