My Son’s Face After I Yelled Changed Everything

When Coach Red Wallace yelled at his son, he saw a look that shattered his heart – and it changed him forever. In this powerful episode, Red shares the moment he realised anger was breaking the very bond he wanted to build. Discover how he transformed his approach to fatherhood, leadership, and marriage by learning to lead with a love stronger than anger.

You’ll learn:
✅ The life-changing lesson from his son’s silent reaction
✅ Biblical wisdom on anger and love
✅ CALM: A strategy to replace yelling with connection
✅ Practical love drills for fathers, husbands, and leaders

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00:00 Introduction: A Life-Changing Question

00:31 The Red Print Legacy Assessment

01:54 A Father's Regret: The Yelling Incident

04:16 God's Whisper: Learning to Love

04:47 Biblical Insights on Anger and Love

12:01 Practical Love Drills for Fathers

13:28 Practical Love Drills for Husbands

14:13 Practical Love Drills for Leaders

15:31 CALM: A Strategy to Replace Yelling

17:02 Conclusion: Lead with Limitless Love

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