Getting It
A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex
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Allison Moon
About this listen
An empowering guide to casual sex and hooking up from sex educator and Girl Sex 101 author Allison Moon.
A comprehensive and fun-to-listen-to guidebook for people of all sexual identities and experience levels, Getting It covers all the bases of hook-up culture from first moves and sex etiquette to navigating nonmonogamy and sexual health. In an era of endless crossed signals and heightened awareness of consent and respect, award-winning author and sex educator Allison Moon shows you how to achieve safe and enjoyable encounters by practicing clear communication and consideration of all parties involved - yourself included. Getting It helps you understand what casual sex means for you and offers an instructive and empowering deep dive into how to get it, do it well, and feel great about it every step of the way. And since we're all imperfect, Moon offers guidance for how to gracefully recover when you screw up - or get screwed over.
Refreshingly intersectional and respectful, Getting It is an honest guide to understanding the basics of hook-up culture and how to partake.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
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In How to Get Over a Boy, Chidera Eggerue will show you, once and for all, how to reframe the stale goal of finding a man. She will equip you with tangible and applicable solutions for every part of your dating life, helping you recognise that men hold as much power in our romantic lives as we grant them. In the past, dating books tend to lean more into the territory of 'how to make him find you hot!', 'how to make him jealous!', 'how to get him to propose!'. But these how-tos are placing men on a pedestal of being 'the prize'. Men are never the prize. You are.
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Touching
- By Erika Soler on 04-21-20
By: Chidera Eggerue
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Should I Stay or Should I Go?
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- By: Lundy Bancroft, JAC Patrissi
- Narrated by: Stephen R. Thorne
- Length: 13 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
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In this supportive and straightforward guide, Lundy Bancroft, the author of Why Does He Do That?, and communication specialist JAC Patrissi offer a way for women to practically take stock of their relationships and move forward, with or without their partners.
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Paradigm Shift
- By Sydnee Adams-Hancock on 04-08-16
By: Lundy Bancroft, and others
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The Good Fight
- Wanting to Leave, Choosing to Stay, and the Powerful Practice for Loving Faithfully
- By: Jana Kramer, Michael Caussin
- Narrated by: Jana Kramer, Michael Caussin
- Length: 5 hrs and 24 mins
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Hosts of the award-winning Whine Down podcast, Jana Kramer and Michael Caussin explore the raw and real moments of their marriage - what it means to love, to fight, and to sincerely forgive - with spiritual guidance and practical advice for anyone seeking stronger, more fulfilling love.
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Could’ve been a short article and not a book
- By J Klay on 11-01-20
By: Jana Kramer, and others
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Bad Advice
- How to Survive and Thrive in an Age of Bullshit
- By: Dr. Venus Nicolino
- Narrated by: Dr. Venus Nicolino
- Length: 5 hrs and 31 mins
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In Bad Advice, relationship expert Dr. Venus Nicolino - aka Dr. V - takes a blowtorch to the shrink-wrapped “feel good” BS that passes for self-help these days. Smart and irreverent, Dr. V fuses the brains and insight of a nerdy PhD with the heart of a doting Italian mother and the artful profanity of a Philly trucker. Dr. V’s signature combination of humor, hard science, and heart make Bad Advice an iconoclastic course correction like no other. Bad Advice is a fiercely sharp wake-up call that tackles some of self-help’s most damaging truisms.
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Not my cup of tea.
- By ocean22 on 05-18-19
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Love Lost, Love Found
- A Woman's Guide to Letting Go of the Past and Finding New Love
- By: Tatiana Jerome
- Narrated by: Margaret Jewell West
- Length: 4 hrs and 28 mins
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Blindsided by a breakup, and asking herself the usual why, how, what questions, Tatiana Jerome went online. She used social media as a way to uplift and empower herself by venting but also working through her own part in the relationship's demise. Her posts struck a chord with thousands and then hundreds of thousands of readers - no surprise since most relationships (approximately 85 percent) end.
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Nice
- By Ms. Keisha on 11-13-17
By: Tatiana Jerome
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- Marissa
- 07-29-21
I didn't know how much I need this book until now.
I didn't know how much I need this book until now. this book helped me heal and better understand myself.
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- Lauren E Williams
- 01-23-22
This should be required in schools
I’m 34 and I wish I had this book when I was a kid learning sex education. I probably wouldn’t have had so much shame and made the mistakes I made in my 20s.
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- Anonymous User
- 12-30-21
meh
For transparency, I didn't finish this book. I started it, jumped around to see if other chapters were more of what I was looking for and then returned it because it wasn't what I was looking for. I was hoping this book would help me expand some of my views on casual sex, maybe challenge some of my narratives around sex and intimacy, and also get my brain thinking as I'm in the process of collaborating around a relationship design. Unfortunately, I found this book to be really 101. A lot of parts I ended up listening to were definitely speaking directly to creepy cis-men in pick-up culture who don't understand consent and other parts just felt like they were upholding or encouraging societal norms (don't be too negative when you're talking to people, stuff like that). It felt like broad brush strokes over many topics and therefore felt really boring and unhelpful to me. Read this if you need some deprogramming from pick-up culture or are just starting to date for the first time ever and need some basic guidance?
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