Meet Jane Grey, Dominatrix and Co-Founder of the Scene and Unscene events. Listen in as Jane opens up about how validation, agency and recognition, drivers behind her acting career, influence her approach to domination; about her plans for the Edinburgh Fringe Festival; and how acting school shunned female sexuality. Eva Oh and Jane discuss the place of acting in a session, if they might be able to submit and how they've tried to escape the ego through the names that they've chosen. We hear about cultural theatrics and how they could shape a Dominatrix's ability and the different ways these two Dominatrices structure their businesses. A very thorough episode of the #teakink Podcast. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:00:23) - Jane Grey - Dominatrix, Event Organiser and on a Good Path (00:02:20) - How The Scene and UnScene Events Came About (00:09:15) - The Scene Difference, the Bartenders Bar for Kink (00:14:00) - Authenticity as a Purpose (00:16:10) - How Acting and Drama School Shuns Sexuality (00:20:15) - Validation, Agency, Recognition and the Similarities in Acting and Domination (00:25:10) - South East Asian vs British Theatrics and Social Cohesion (00:27:35) - Growing Star Quality in Professional Domination through Improv Classes (00:29:00) - Moving Around and Growing Adaptability (00:30:35) - Anaesthetising the Ego for Joy (00:32:00) - The Stage vs The Session vs Being a Woman, Is There a Difference? (00:36:30) - How to Go From Personal Kinkster to Professional Dominatrix (00:38:30) - The De-Centring of Our Names - 'Oh' and 'Jane Grey' (00:44:30) - Finding Our Version of Dominance, Visually (00:46:05) - Eva Craving Submission? (00:50:20) - Our Visit to the Edinburgh Fringe Festival and Jane's Show Plans (00:54:50) - Who Do We Tell About Our Job? (00:57:00) - Jane's Subscription Model (01:00:30) - Eva's Cis-het Male Clients vs Her Femme Friends (01:03:50) - The Evolution of Eva's Business Model (01:04:50) - Jane's Plans with the WMH&I Branding Agency, Show Writing and Event Planning (01:09:00) - Eva's Plans on Labours of Love

Biomedical engineer and sex tech entrepreneur Isabella Sandak-Lewin joins Eva Oh on the #teakink Podcast to break down the gaps in medicine’s understanding of female sexuality. From the forgotten science of the female orgasm to the struggles of innovating in sex tech, Isabella shares her journey of developing a wearable sex toy and a diagnostic tool for BV. They explore the orgasm gap, cross-dressing, pole dancing at Cambridge, and the link between sexuality and personal freedom.

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HIGHLIGHTS:

Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:23) - Isabella Sandak-Lewin - Biomedical Engineer and Sex Tech Entrepreneur

(01:53) - The Forgotten Interaction of Body, Medicine and Sexuality

(05:40) - Medicine Forgot the Female Orgasm

(10:15) - The Orgasm Gap

(12:40) - Isabella's Wearable Sex Toy

(18:13) - Isabella's BV and More Diagnosis Tool

(24:40) - Adolescence, Ballet and Eating Disorders

(29:30) - Cross-Dressing and How Women and Men are Perceived

(34:00) - How Isabella Claimed Her Sexuality

(38:35) - Fem Tech and Sex Tech Struggles

(40:00) - 'Coming Out' About Sex Tech

(45:00) - The Link Between Sexuality and Personal Freedom

(50:00) - Pole Dance, Cambridge University and Castration

(58:35) - COVID and Saying Yes

MJ has been on a deep and fast ride into sexuality since an accident catalysed a self-investigation in 2019. She has since brought forth the Joyride Sex Parties and Socials, studied with the Institute for Sexuality, and has plans for expanding the world of sex tech. Join MJ and Eva Oh for a #teakink episode through MJ's discoveries, sex doll brothels, Irish sexuality, the sexual concerns of cis-het men, boundaries and pleasure.
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HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:23) - Meet MJ of Joyride Sex Parties and Socials
(02:00) - Taking it to Ireland
(03:50) - Queerness at Joyride's Centre
(08:10) - An Accident as a Sexuality Catalyst
(12:55) - Sex Tech and Sex Doll Brothels
(14:40) - The Future of Joyride
(16:30) - Irish Storytelling
(17:10) - Irish Sexuality
(18:35) - Merging Sex Tech and the Physical
(23:00) - Cis-het Men Healthy Porn Habits, Erectile Dysfunction and Loneliness
(28:05) - The Viscerality of the Sex Party Dancefloor
(29:00) - Safeguarding and Freedom in Clubs in Berlin vs London
(32:50) - The Laboratory Berlin and the State of Queer Cruising
(34:00) - The People Behind Joyride
(35:30) - The Kink Coalitipn
(37:00) - What Actually is a Sex Party?
(42:00) - Why MJ Stays Out of the Playspace
(49:00) - Berlin Porn Film Festival and the Venus Convention
(51:00) - Sexual Education?
(53:10) - Pleasure