In this powerful episode of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, host Rebecca Gruenspan sits down with 19-year-old adoptee, author, and advocate Wilson Munsterman to explore identity, self-worth, and healing through the lens of adoption. Wilson opens up about his adoption from China, the scar that shaped his early beliefs about himself, and the moment he chose to rewrite his internal narrative.

Wilson shares how he went from struggling in silence to finding his voice—and using it to uplift others. Together, Rebecca and Wilson dive into the realities of transracial adoption, the unique identity challenges adoptees face, and what adoptive parents really need to know. This episode is packed with wisdom for adoptive parents raising teens, adoptees seeking healing, and anyone who’s ever questioned their worth.

Important Links

• - Wilson Munsterman on Instagram

  - Marked by Adoption: 10 Key Insights from an Adoptee’s Perspective (Amazon)

• - Identity (founded by Isaac Etter)

  - Family Adoption Network Center

  - Shannon Bingham

• - Sweet Peachtree Marketplace (Use code ROADMAP10 for 10% off)

  - RG Adoption Consulting

  - Take the “Are You Ready to Adopt?” Quiz

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• Chapters
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• 00:00 Understanding Adoption and Self-Worth
• 02:52 Finding Worth Through Community Engagement
• 05:49 Navigating Identity and Belonging
• 08:51 The Impact of Open Communication in Adoption
• 11:58 Rewriting the Narrative of Adoption
• 15:07 The Role of Friends in Support
• 18:02 Transforming Scars into Symbols of Hope
• 20:59 The Journey of Self-Discovery
• 24:12 The Importance of Sharing Stories
• 26:57 Lessons for Adoptive Parents
• 30:03 The Struggle with Self-Worth
• 32:54 Finding Purpose and Passion
• 37:29 Cultural Exposure in Adoption
• 40:36 Understanding Identity and Culture
• 43:42 The Complexity of Cultural Identity
• 45:46 Finding a Voice as an Advocate
• 49:10 Testifying for Adoption Support
• 52:37 Creating a Supportive Community
• 55:28 Designing a National Adoption Blueprint
• 01:00:00 Writing for Change
• 01:02:15 Emotional Challenges in Writing
• 01:06:45 The Importance of Compassion and Understanding
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