It's just us Yentas today, and we're giving out our sage wisdom! It's the ADVICE EPISODE! Thank you to all the amazing listeners who wrote in with juuuuuuuicy questions. And we even answer a vintage question from 1906 that literally could have been written by a Gen Z.

We Yenta about:

- Coming out to your religious family

- Ethical Non-Monog

- The famous dick measuring contest in the Talmud

- Should you study Gemara?

- Our upcoming series with the Orthodykes!!

Time stamps:

- 0:00 - intro

- 8:35 - Question one: Coming out to religious family

- 18:49 - Question two: Ethical Non-Monogamy

- 25:28 - Question three: Feeling guilty about poly

- 28:25 - Question four: Making up fake Halacha

- 35:30 - Question five: Should I learan Gemara?

- 42:23 - Question six: Vintage Jewish problems

Wow Yentas this episode is one of the most fun, kinky, and just plain wild Yenta episodes we've ever had! Our guest is Eli Olsberg (TBS, Chelsea Lately) and he gets hilarious and vulnerable with us as he tells us his goss about the variety of sex clubs he's been to. Honestly we might get demonetized for this but it's worth it. (Also Antonia is still out of town, so we have the iconic co-host, returning Yenta Martin Morrow!)

We yenta about:

- Dave Chappelle on SNL

- The difference between MMF vs MFM (there is one!)

- How to go from being scared of sex parties to being a regular go-er

- Fetlife vs Feeld vs Thrinder

- Do you go to hell if you masterbate

- Jewish vs Baptist ideas about masterbation

Eli Olsberg: https://www.instagram.com/eliolsberg/

Raye Schiller https://www.instagram.com/rayeschiller

Guest co-host: Martin Morrow

https://www.instagram.com/martinmmorrow/

Bonus episodes and yenta:

https://www.patreon.com/yenta

Timestamps:

- 0:00 - Intro

- 6:23 - Performing for swingers

- 7:34 - Eli's kinky journey

- 12:46 - Babygirl debreif

- 19:06 - Sex Party GOSSIP

- 37:11 - Dating in comedy and the sex party world

- 41:33 - Eli's comedy career

- 47:50 - Martin's journey to sex parties

Ryan Goodcase is a comedian who went suuuuper viral with a joke that's actually funny-- not just controversial-- which is the Olympic gold medal of comedy. We love him!! Also, Raye has an exciting guest cohost, Genesis Sol, and we love her too! (Antonia is still out of town, but she's coming back!)

We Yenta about:

- Penises (classic us)

- Disecting Ryan's super viral joke

- Good old religious trauma (classic us)

- Neuroscience day jobs

- Do your parents love you? (classic us)

Ryan Goodcase: https://www.instagram.com/ryangoodcase/?hl=en

Genesis Sol: https://www.instagram.com/thegenesissol/

Raye Schiller: https://www.instagram.com/rayeschiller

Antonia Lassar: https://www.instagram.com/antonialastar

Uncut and bonus episodes: https://www.patreon.com/yenta

Timestamps

0:00 - Intro

3:38 - Disecting the viral joke

12:52 - Do your parents support standup?

16:08 - Nerdy day jobs

18:00 - Netflix is a joke

24:47 - Religious trauma

32:29 - Secrets

Did you know the Jewish Memes Only account was run by the coolest lesbian in Australia??? This week we hung out with Shoshana Gottlieb (Jewish Memes Only) and her amazing girlfriend Skye Tal (famous Australian actor). Honestly this conversation is 10/10, Jewish Gossip Only.

We Yenta about:

- Having a fan club at Limmud

- More Limmud gossip

- British Jews are... unique

- Talmud takes on lesbians

- Gay heroes of the Talmud

Shoshana Gottlieb: https://www.instagram.com/jewishmemesonly/?hl=en

Skye Tal: https://www.instagram.com/skyetal/?__d=1%2F

Raye Schiller: https://www.instagram.com/rayeschiller

Antonia Lassar: https://www.instagram.com/antonialastar

Uncut and bonus episodes: https://www.patreon.com/yenta

Eliana Light (Orah Hi, Light Lab) is on the pod, and we are so pumped to have this literal tzaddik here to talk about her world-famous Jewish music and her job teaching rabbis how to not suck.

(Also, we're sorry for the mediocre video quality! This is Antonia's first solo episode on the road, and she fucked up the video.🙂 But she didn't fuck up the interview!)

We Yenta about:

- Limmud gossip

- Why do prayer services suck so much?

- Eliana is a literal musical hero

- How to have GOOD MUSIC at shul

- Jewish songleader culture is insane

Eliana Light: https://www.elianalight.com/

Raye Schiller: https://www.instagram.com/rayeschiller

Antonia Lassar: https://www.instagram.com/antonialastar

Uncut and bonus episodes: https://www.patreon.com/yenta

Timestamps

- 0:00 - Intro

- 6:27 - What is Limmud?

- 9:37 - Prayer services suck

- 15:38 - How to improve bad services

- 21:16 - Listen to Eliana's album!!!!

- 23:20 - How to do good singing

- 25:53 - Permission to suck

- 29:06 - Songleader culture

- 37:24 - Ingredients of a transcendent singing experience

- 41:18 - Take initiative as a layperson

- 50:45 - The secret!!

Catherine Mcafferty (Hulu, Amazon, Freevee) is a fan-favorite Yenta, so for the holidays, we're re-releasing this classic episode!

We Yenta about:

- Fans who want to bone you.

- Catherine's new series Pretty Gay, that's pretty perfect, pretty hilarious, pretty gay

- The creators of Dropout are producing Catherine's new show because they literally believe in her so hard.

- Catherine doesn't want to treat men like human beings. Cool cool cool.

- Catherine's mom is a super queer ally... and also probably bi.

- The strategy of doing a show at Edinburgh. Get a publicist. Write something brilliant. Live your dreams.

- Catherine hasn't been to a WNBA game. BAD GAY.

- RAYE DID DRUGS. SCANDAL??????

- ANTONIA IS A FAMOUS AUSTRALIAN CELEBRITY???

- CATHERINE FUCKED A CELEBRITY AND IT'S LITERALLY SO JUICY I CANNOT. BEST EVER POD SECRET!!! THE YENTAS ARE STILL KVELLING.

https://www.patreon.com/PrettyGay

https://www.patreon.com/yenta

https://www.instagram.com/catherine_mccaff/

https://www.instagram.com/rayeontheway/

https://www.instagram.com/antonialastar/

(00:00:10) Midwestern Moms and Homophobia

(00:00:32) An Unexpected Fan Encounter

(00:02:11) Dressing for a Podcast

(00:02:36) Sorority Rush and TikTok Fashion

(00:03:50) Introducing Comic Catherine

(00:04:11) Launching a Patreon Series

(00:05:41) Queer Comedians and First Dates

(00:07:09) Dropout TV and Yenta Connections

(00:08:01) The Queer Ultimatum Concept

(00:09:09) Creating the "Pretty Gay" Series

(00:15:10) Moms and Bisexuality

(00:17:18) Edinburgh Show and Personal Stories

(00:22:11) Dream Comedian Careers and Queer Influencers

(00:24:47) Queer Relationship Dynamics

(00:27:45) Best Queer Parties in LA

(00:29:43) Queer Red Flags

(00:31:38) Astrology Beliefs and Practices

(00:32:54) Secrets Segment Begins

(00:47:52) Being Flown Out for Dates

(00:57:18) Celebrity Encounters and Power Dynamics

(01:03:41) Show Plugs and Wrap Up

It's just us today!!! You know it's a Yentas Only episode when Raye is fully horizontal on the couch. This is another cozy gossip sesh with your two favorite queer jews (and their very strong opinions).

We Yenta about:

- We're the best queer jewish podcast

- Kabbalah. Real? Fake? Scam?

- Bisexuals are more oppressed than literally anyone

- Actual bisexuals with boyfriends are the most oppressed

- Is nonbinary made up???

- Antonia is chopping off her tits. LOOOOOOVE.

- People who say "Daddy God"

Raye Schiller: https://www.instagram.com/rayeschiller

Antonia Lassar: https://www.instagram.com/antonialastar

Uncut and bonus episodes: https://www.patreon.com/yenta

Timestamps

0:00:00 - Intro

0:03:20 - Bisexuality and God

0:12:16 - Bi's with Boyfriends

0:21:04 - Hannah Einbeinder Fan Account

0:24.08 - Top surgeryyyyy

0:32:10 - Is nonbinary real?

0:40:19 - The she/they experience

0:48:16 - We're losing our minds

This week we are talking to the most powerful lesbian in LA, Anna Goodman! Anna runs Damn Good Dykes Nights, where she throws the biggest sapphic parties in the city. She used to work for JQI (Jewish Queer International) and also she went on one date with Raye. ICONIC YENTA.

BTW, there's an additional Patreon episode with Anna all about Israel and Palestine, and a very difficult situation that came up in the local queer community. It's juicy!!

We Yenta about:

- Working with Jews vs Queers

- Anna is literally so famous

- Raye was in love with Anna (classic)

- Antonia gives unsolicited relationship advice (classic)

- Coming out as monogamous

- Lesbian drama

- Cosplay

- Poop story (also classic)

Anna Goodman: https://www.instagram.com/annargoods/?hl=en

Raye Schiller: https://www.instagram.com/rayeschiller

Antonia Lassar: https://www.instagram.com/antonialastar

Uncut and bonus episodes: https://www.patreon.com/yenta

TIMESTAMPS

0:00:00 - Intro

0:00:40 - Working for JQ

0:06:00 - Damn Good Dyke Nights

0:14:50 - Raye and Anna's love story

0:24:50 - Anna's girlfriend!!

0:30:17 - Monogamy

0:32:30 - Living with a partner

0:47:50 - Couples cosplay

0:50:10 - Matzah minute

0:58:54 - Secrets