Why Intervention Podcast

By: Christopher Doyle
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  • Summary

  • The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. Through powerful stories of recovery, expert interviews and relevant musings, families can learn just how influential love and understanding can be to get their loved ones to stop their addictive behavior and willingly accept help.
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  • When Your Adult Child Cuts You Off: A Mother's Guide to Healing Through Estrangement with Sally Harris - Episode 93

    When Your Adult Child Cuts You Off: A Mother's Guide to Healing Through Estrangement with Sally Harris - Episode 93
    Apr 17 2025

    In this powerful episode of the Why Intervention podcast, host Christopher Doyle interviews Sally Harris, who transformed her devastating experience with her daughter's estrangement into a mission helping other mothers find healing.

    Guest’s Info
    Sally helps mothers navigate one of life's most challenging journeys - estrangement from their children. After over a decade battling addiction, depression, and the despair of suicide attempts, it was a severe health crisis that ultimately sparked Sally’s profound transformation. Through deepening faith and a revolutionary insight - that her well-being couldn't depend on her daughter's choices - Sally found her way to healing. Today, she celebrates years of sobriety, a renewed relationship with her daughter, and a thriving coaching practice that helps other mothers find their path to wholeness.”

    Highlights

    • The shocking truth about what "estrangement" really means—and why it's not always what you think (hint: your child might be in more pain than you realize)
    • Why 60% of mothers dealing with estrangement have ZERO support system—and the dangerous spiral this creates
    • The "front porch vs. front yard" strategy that will immediately transform who you talk to about your child's struggles
    • The critical difference between HELPING and ENABLING your adult child (most parents get this dangerously wrong)
    • Why loving detachment might be the most painful—yet healing—gift you can give both yourself and your child
    • How to handle the soul-crushing judgment from others who haven't walked in your shoes
    • The unexpected revelation about "control" that changed everything for Sally (and can do the same for you)
    • The simple communication technique that can instantly transform your relationship with your adult child
    • Why forgiving YOURSELF might be the missing key to healing your relationship (most parents skip this crucial step)
    • The counterintuitive approach to boundaries that actually strengthens your bond with your child
    • The profound mistake Sally made that led to dangerous enabling—and how you can avoid the same path
    • Why Sally chooses to meet with mothers on Thanksgiving and Christmas Day (the revelation will bring tears to your eyes)

    Listen now to discover how Sally found her way to healing after years of addiction, depression, and suicide attempts—and how her journey can light the path for your own healing and reconciliation.


    Links and Resources from this Episode

    • https://whyintervention.com/
    • https://twitter.com/whyintervention
    • https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/
    • https://www.instagram.com/whyintervention/
    • TIME SENSITIVE, FREE RESOURCE: Get an early preview of Christopher's new book "Stop Addiction Early: A Recovery Roadmap For Proactive Parents" at no cost for a limited time: https://helpthisbook.com/recoveryroadmapforparents/recovery-roadmap
    • Connect with Sally Harris
    • www.sally-harris.com
    • https://www.youtube.com/@sallyharriscoach

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    58 mins
  • The Teen Brain and Addiction Risk: How Parents Can Connect Before It's Too Late with Kirsten Cobabe - Episode 92

    The Teen Brain and Addiction Risk: How Parents Can Connect Before It's Too Late with Kirsten Cobabe - Episode 92
    Apr 4 2025
    In this episode of the Why Intervention Podcast, Christopher Doyle and Kirsten Cobabe dive deep into the turbulent waters of teen development and addiction risk. Kirsten draws from over two decades of experience guiding parents through the challenges of adolescence to reveal the hidden connections between brain development, parenting approaches, and addiction vulnerability. Beyond the typical "just say no" advice, this conversation explores why teens make the decisions they do, how parents can maintain influence during these critical years, and the powerful protective factors that can prevent addiction before it starts. What emerges is a masterclass in understanding the teen brain and building the kind of relationship that keeps communication open even when the stakes are highest. You'll discover exactly what's happening in your teenager's mind, why traditional approaches often backfire spectacularly, and the specific conversational techniques that transform parent-teen relationships from battlegrounds to lifelines. This isn't just information—it's a roadmap for connection when it matters most. WARNING: What you're about to discover might forever change how you speak to your teenager… Guest’s Info Kirsten Cobabe is a former therapist turned coach, specializing in supporting families navigate the waves of adolescence. For over two decades, she has guided parents in learning how to listen to, and talk with, their teens. She engages parents in personal reflection, embracing their evolving role, understanding the teen brain and restoring harmony in the home. In recognizing this unique stage of development, her hope is to bridge the widening gap between parents and their children, creating timeless bonds. Through compassionate guidance, intentional strategies and a tailored approach, Kirsten empowers families to pilot these pivotal years with deeper awareness. Her work is not just about addressing immediate concerns, but about lighting the path to a more empowered future, ensuring that today's challenges become the foundation for tomorrow's brighter relationships. Kirsten works with parents, teens and the entire family constellation with a holistic lens, starting with what is already working. Highlights The shocking truth about your teen's brain and why expecting them to "just make better decisions" is like expecting a car with no brakes to stop safelyWhy your teenager might be HARDWIRED to seek thrills that terrify you (and the counterintuitive way smart parents can channel this energy)The "substitute prefrontal cortex" technique that helps teens navigate risk without destroying their lives in the processWhy some teens try substances once and walk away while others spiral into addiction – the answer isn't what most "experts" claimThe emotional detection system every teenager possesses that allows them to "read" your true feelings (even when you think you're hiding them perfectly)The counterintuitive reason why your teenager's complaints and negativity are actually GOLDEN OPPORTUNITIES you should never shut downWhy "Connect Before Correct" might be the three most important words any parent of a teen will ever hear The devastating childhood experiences that dramatically increase addiction vulnerability (and the surprising protective factor that can neutralize them)How to be the person your teen WANTS to talk to about the scary, dangerous, confusing parts of their lifeThe tragic mistake well-meaning parents make when setting boundaries around substance use (and what to do instead) This conversation offers something truly valuable – practical wisdom that strengthens the parent-teen relationship and builds the resilience young people need to navigate adolescence successfully. The tools shared here don't just help prevent problems – they create the foundation for deeper connection and understanding that lasts a lifetime. Links and Resources from this Episode https://whyintervention.com/https://twitter.com/whyinterventionhttps://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/https://www.instagram.com/whyintervention/TIME SENSITIVE, FREE RESOURCE: Get an early preview of Christopher's new book "Stop Addiction Early: A Recovery Roadmap For Proactive Parents" at no cost for a limited time: https://helpthisbook.com/recoveryroadmapforparents/recovery-roadmap Connect with Kirsten Cobabehello@kirstencobabe.comwww.parentingwave.com Call to Action Schedule a Call Free Resources Review, Subscribe and Share If you like what you hear please leave a review by clicking here Make sure you’re subscribed to the podcast so you get the latest episodes. Subscribe with Apple PodcastsFollow on SpotifySubscribe with RSS
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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • Why Your Addicted Loved One Can't Get Sober Alone - Episode 91

    Why Your Addicted Loved One Can't Get Sober Alone - Episode 91
    Mar 27 2025

    In this episode of the Why Intervention Podcast, Christopher Doyle and Daniel Klein discuss the complexities of addiction, particularly in teenagers. They explore the rapid onset of addiction in today's society, the psychological and physical aspects of substance use, and the importance of parental intervention.

    The conversation emphasizes the need for parents to recognize the signs of addiction and to take proactive steps to help their children. They introduce the Four-Part Connection Formula as a method for parents to effectively communicate and support their loved ones in recovery.

    In this conversation, Chris and Danny discuss the critical role of family members in the recovery journey of loved ones struggling with addiction. They explore the importance of being a catalyst for change, the balance between influence and control, and the necessity of empathy and communication.

    The discussion also addresses common misconceptions about addiction, the societal responsibility to intervene, and the long-term nature of recovery. Ultimately, they emphasize that while accepting help lies with the individual, family support is essential in facilitating that journey.

    Highlights

    • The shocking brain scan evidence that explains why your loved one keeps using despite promising to stop (hint: it's nearly identical to another devastating condition)
    • Why "waiting for them to hit bottom" is a dangerous myth that keeps families paralyzed while their loved one drowns
    • The uncomfortable truth about sobriety stories that even recovered addicts don't realize about their own journey to recovery
    • A startling confession from Dan: "I spent 10 years saying 'I'll stop tomorrow' - here's why tomorrow never came until someone else made it happen"
    • The secret 2% statistic that explains why your traditional approach to helping your addicted loved one is almost guaranteed to fail
    • How to be the catalyst for your loved one's recovery without staging a dramatic intervention (the same method that helped Chris get sober at 17)
    • The critical difference between "swimming in rough waters" and "drowning" - and why it changes everything about how you should respond


    Links and Resources from this Episode

    • https://whyintervention.com/
    • https://twitter.com/whyintervention
    • https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/
    • https://www.instagram.com/whyintervention/
    • TIME SENSITIVE, FREE RESOURCE: Get an early preview of Christopher's new book "Stop Addiction Early: A Recovery Roadmap For Proactive Parents" at no cost for a limited time: https://helpthisbook.com/recoveryroadmapforparents/recovery-roadmap

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    1 hr and 2 mins
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