The Forgive to Live Podcast

By: Rev. Benjamin Norman Maria Trusa Franco Cabral
  • Summary

  • Have you ever felt like you’re living in the shadows, weighed down by past pain, trauma or self-sabotage? On the Forgive to Live podcast, we believe it's time to step into the light. Join us as we explore the depths of our personal struggles and share breakthrough insights for overcoming them. We'll guide you on a journey of self-discovery to help you identify your darkness, find your inner strength, and live a life filled with more light, more connection, and more freedom. Discover the powerful truth that you are not alone in the fight, and together, we can create a brighter future.
    2025
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Episodes
  • 001 - Parenting Children Who Cut Themselves
    Feb 19 2025

    Parenting Children Who Are Cutting: A Journey from Darkness to Light

    Are you a parent struggling to understand your child's self-harm? Do you feel lost, guilty, or overwhelmed? This episode offers a lifeline.

    Alternatively WATCH the episode on YouTube, click this link: https://linktr.ee/weforgivetolive

    What to Expect:

    • Real Talk: Hosts Benjamin Norman and Maria Trusa dive into the raw and emotional realities of parenting children who are cutting. They don't shy away from the tough stuff, offering a safe space for a long-overdue conversation.
    • Personal Stories: Hear Maria Trusa's powerful journey as a mother who faced her daughter's self-harm and suicide attempt. Learn how she navigated the darkness, found the light, and helped her daughter transform her life.
    • Expert Advice (with a Twist): While not medical professionals, Benjamin and Maria share valuable insights and practical advice based on their personal experiences and spiritual backgrounds. They emphasize curiosity, non-judgment, and unconditional love.
    • Actionable Strategies: Discover actionable steps you can take today to support your child, including:
      • Becoming curious instead of judgmental.
      • Educating yourself about self-harm and mental health.
      • Finding the right therapy for your child (DBT is mentioned).
      • Validating your child's emotions instead of dismissing them.
      • Crawling into your child's darkness and offering unwavering support.
    • A Message of Hope: Despite the challenges, this episode is ultimately about hope and healing. Hear how Maria's daughter, NT, turned her struggles into a mission to help others.

    Key Takeaways:

    • You are not alone: Many parents struggle with similar challenges and feelings of guilt and inadequacy.
    • Guilt is a common trap: Learn how to recognize and overcome parental guilt.
    • It's not about you: Focus on supporting your child's journey, not your own fears or judgments.
    • Connection is key: Create a safe space for your child to share their emotions without fear of judgment.
    • Transformation is possible: No matter how dark things seem, there is always hope for healing and transformation.

    Listener Invitation:

    • If you're feeling touched, moved, or inspired by this conversation, connect with the hosts on social media or via email.
    • Consider attending the upcoming RETREAT in Vermont on March 6th - 9th or the Seminar on April 4-6th in New York to immerse yourself in this transformative work.

    Final Thought:

    *"Every conversation can be had with love, kindness, and respect. But as you said, it has to start with you. As within, so without" .

    Tune in now to start your journey from darkness to light.

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    44 mins

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