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  • How to Stand Out and Advance in Your Career with Denise Matthews
    Feb 14 2025

    Are you truly in control of your career, or are you just reacting to circumstances?

    In this episode, Susanna sits down with Denise Matthews, a powerhouse in recruitment and career coaching with over 30 years of experience.

    Denise shares hard-hitting truths about the job market, the psychology of career transitions, and the strategies recruiters and job seekers need to truly stand out. She dives into how self-awareness is the key to career success—and why most people overlook it, the critical mistakes recruiters and job seekers make when navigating the market, and how to build long-term relationships that turn into real career opportunities.

    Whether you're a recruiter, a job seeker, or someone rethinking your next move, this episode is packed with actionable insights. Listen now and take control of your career.


    Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments

    • Know yourself before making a career move – Define your strengths, values, and ideal workplace to avoid aimless job searching and find long-term career satisfaction.
    • Stand out strategically – Instead of mass applications, build relationships, engage on LinkedIn, and connect with decision-makers to create real opportunities.
    • Overcome imposter syndrome – Use visualization, mentorship, and self-awareness to boost confidence and step into new roles with conviction.
    • Assess company culture deeply – Ask about retention, leadership, and real-life values to ensure alignment before committing to a role.
    • Prioritize long-term relationships – Great recruiters don’t just fill jobs; they build lasting connections that lead to sustained career growth.
    • Develop mental resilience – Adapt to setbacks, reflect on your journey, and create a career plan that aligns with your values.


    About Denis Matthews

    Denise Matthews has over 30 years of experience in talent acquisition and recruitment, working across small agencies, and large firms, and running her businesses. She has seen every side of recruitment—successes, failures, and the evolving industry landscape. A qualified executive and career coach (ILM Level 7), Denise specializes in mentoring senior leaders and middle management, helping them accelerate career progression, secure higher salaries, and gain the recognition they deserve.

    She has a deep passion for matching the right talent to the right roles, emphasizing long-term career fulfillment. She also serves as a mentor with the Association of Business Mentors, where she supports professionals in unlocking their full potential. Her expertise spans leadership development, performance management, and navigating career transitions.

    Denise’s coaching philosophy is rooted in self-awareness, strategic career planning, and leveraging strengths for success. Whether working with job seekers, recruiters, or business leaders, she challenges, develops, and supports individuals to reach their highest potential.


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        51 mins
      • Why Training and Leadership Matter in Recruitment with Greg Savage
        Jan 31 2025

        Recruitment is full of tough lessons, but few people know them better than Greg Savage.

        In this episode, we cut through the noise and get straight to what really makes a great recruiter—beyond just hitting KPIs. Greg shares unfiltered insights on why most training is a waste of time, the biggest mistakes recruiters make when handling counteroffers, and why elite recruiters master the art of influence, not just the science of the job.

        He also calls out the industry’s obsession with AI, explaining why some tools are making things worse before they get better. If you want to sharpen your skills, boost your placements, and stay ahead in a changing market, this episode is a must-listen.

        Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments

        • The biggest mistake recruitment leaders make in downturns – Greg explains why cutting back on training and marketing when times are tough is the exact opposite of what companies should be doing.
        • Why most recruitment training is a waste of time – Greg shares his unfiltered view on why traditional training fails and what actually works to develop top-performing recruiters.
        • The power of influence in recruitment – It’s not about automation alone—Greg breaks down how the best recruiters master persuasion, storytelling, and human connection to close deals.
        • AI’s role in recruitment: Hype vs. reality – Greg discusses how AI is reshaping the industry, where it’s useful, and where it’s making things worse.
        • Managing high performers: Why top billers still need coaching – Greg challenges the common practice of leaving top recruiters alone and explains how leaders can take them from good to great.
        • Lessons from recruitment disasters – He shares some of his biggest mistakes in recruitment and what they taught him about resilience, accountability, and earning trust.

        About Greg Savage

        Greg Savage is one of the most respected voices in the global recruitment and professional services industries. With a career spanning over four decades, he has built, scaled, and advised numerous successful recruitment businesses worldwide. As the founder of several thriving agencies and a sought-after speaker, Greg’s insights on leadership, business growth, and industry evolution have shaped the careers of countless recruiters.

        He is the author of The Savage Truth, a book that blends his personal journey with valuable lessons on leadership, personal branding, and high-performance business strategies. His widely followed blog, The Savage Truth, is a go-to resource for recruiters looking to stay ahead in the industry. Recognized as a LinkedIn Top Voice, Greg continues to influence and mentor recruitment professionals through keynotes, masterclasses, and his online training academy.

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        52 mins
      • Creating Change in Recruitment with Elizabeth Willetts
        Jan 16 2025
        Is flexibility in the workplace truly achievable, or is it still a dream for many parents and professionals? In this episode of The Counter Offer, Susanna is joined by Elizabeth Willetts, Founder of Investing in Women and host of the Work It Like a Mum podcast. Elizabeth shares her path from redundancy during the pandemic to building a business focused on creating flexible work opportunities for women and parents. They discuss the barriers women encounter in finding part-time senior roles, the deeper issues behind the gender pay gap, and how employers can rethink flexibility. She also reflects on the mindset shifts and coaching that helped her turn challenges into opportunities. This episode offers advice on crafting a career that works for their lives, from preparing for interviews to making the most of LinkedIn. Elizabeth also shares insights into her upcoming book, Flex, and the lessons she’s learned about balancing career and family. This is an episode that will leave you with plenty to think about and tools to act on. Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Elizabeth’s Journey to Flexibility: Elizabeth shares how redundancy during the pandemic inspired her to start Investing in Women, addressing the lack of flexible work options for mothers. Tackling the Gender Pay Gap: She highlights how limited part-time senior roles force women out of high-paying careers, perpetuating the gender pay gap.Turning Doubt into Action: Imposter syndrome is a universal struggle, but with the guidance of a business coach, Elizabeth built a company that aligns with her values and supports others.Finding Truly Flexible Employers: She shares tips on spotting flexible workplaces, like researching LinkedIn posts, Glassdoor reviews, and networking. Lessons from Flex: Elizabeth introduces her book, Flex, a guide to building a fulfilling career with insights on CVs, job pivots, and work-life balance. About Elizabeth Willets Elizabeth Willetts is an experienced recruiter with over 17 years of expertise, including roles at Deloitte and Hays. She is the founder of Investing in Women, the UK’s leading flexible working recruitment company, job board, and community, dedicated to helping women find part-time and flexible roles. Her mission is to close the gender pay gap by empowering women to pursue fulfilling careers that fit their lives without sacrificing time for family, hobbies, or personal goals. Inspired by her own challenges as a working mom, Elizabeth is passionate about creating opportunities for women to thrive in the workplace. Elizabeth also hosts the Work It Like a Mum podcast, sharing stories of women balancing career and motherhood, and her debut book, Flex - a dynamic guide for anyone wanting to build a successful career ― on their terms is due out in January 2025. As a mom to two daughters and owner of a Labradoodle, Elizabeth combines her professional and personal experiences to inspire and support women everywhere. Mentioned in the Episode Flex: Smart Strategies to Build A Successful Career Around Your Life Work it Like a Mum Podcast Connect with Elizabeth Willets LinkedIn Website Instagram Follow The Counter Offer: LinkedIn Host LinkedIn Podcast Instagram Tiktok
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        39 mins
      • Taking Action to Join the Top 1% with Lee McQueen
        Jan 2 2025

        What does it take to stay authentic and succeed in a world of challenges?

        In this episode of The Counter Offer, Susanna sits down with Lee McQueen, entrepreneur, recruitment innovator, and winner of The Apprentice (Series 4). Lee shares his journey from humble beginnings to building multiple seven-figure businesses and reflects on the role of authenticity, resilience, and decisive action in achieving success.

        The conversation covers Lee’s approach to recruitment, including his revolutionary take on hiring without CVs and his development of Phoenix 51, a platform that digitizes the assessment process.

        Lee also discusses the lessons he learned from working with Lord Sugar, the importance of asking tough questions in recruitment, and why coachability is a key trait for success.

        Packed with insights and inspiring stories, this episode is a must-listen for recruiters, entrepreneurs, and anyone striving to create a lasting impact in their field.

        Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments

        • Authenticity on The Apprentice: Lee reflects on how staying true to himself during The Apprentice helped him win, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and relationship-building in both personal and professional settings.
        • The CV-Free Recruitment Revolution: Lee explains how a mistake on his CV inspired him to create a recruitment model that focuses on behavior and competencies rather than traditional resumes, leading to the creation of Phoenix 51.
        • Lessons from Lord Sugar: Key takeaways from working with Lord Sugar include simplifying processes, solving real problems, and taking consistent, decisive action.
        • Navigating the Pandemic: The challenges of COVID-19 pushed the transition to virtual assessment centers, showing how adaptability can lead to innovation and business growth.
        • The Importance of Tough Questions: Asking probing and sometimes uncomfortable questions is essential to understanding client needs and delivering impactful solutions.
        • Why Coachability Matters: Being open to learning and feedback remains a cornerstone of personal and professional growth, a principle that drives Lee’s coaching approach.


        About Lee McQueen

        Lee McQueen is the Founder and CEO of the award-winning software business Phoenix 51, a platform revolutionizing how organizations assess and recruit top talent. Best known as the winner of The Apprentice (Series 4), Lee has over 25 years of experience in recruitment and sales, having built multiple seven-figure businesses.

        Passionate about changing traditional hiring methods, he champions assessing behaviors and competencies over CVs. Lee’s journey, from humble beginnings to business success, highlights his commitment to innovation, authenticity, and empowering organizations to thrive.


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        46 mins
      • Mastering Workplace Conflict and Leadership with Lindsay Gray
        Dec 19 2024

        Are you listening to the people around you—or just waiting to speak?

        In this special Christmas episode of The Counter Offer, Susanna Gray-Jones sits down with a very special guest—her father, Lindsay Gray. With decades of experience across leadership, education, mediation, and volunteer work, Lindsay shares his timeless wisdom on how to navigate change, build trust, and manage burnout with grace.

        He offers practical insights on how leaders can gain the trust of their teams, why understanding individuals is the foundation of effective leadership, and how to create balance to avoid burnout.

        Lindsay’s journey highlights the importance of stepping into uncomfortable situations, learning from mistakes, and recognizing the power of listening.

        Whether you’re a recruiter, a manager stepping into a new leadership role, or someone looking for ways to manage stress and create more balance in life, this episode is filled with invaluable lessons to help you thrive.

        Listen now and take the first step toward a stronger, more balanced version of yourself!


        Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments

        • Embracing Change in Leadership: Lindsay shares how to manage change effectively, gain trust in a new role, and balance respect for existing systems with necessary improvements.
        • Handling Tough Conversations: Practical advice on approaching managers with ideas for change, focusing on positivity, preparation, and finding the right communication method.
        • Overcoming Burnout and Stress: Lindsay opens up about his personal experience with burnout, the warning signs he missed, and the steps he took to recover and restore balance.
        • Supporting Colleagues Through Challenges: Drawing from his Samaritan work, Lindsay explains how to recognize when someone is struggling and approach them with care and understanding.
        • The Power of Calm Leadership: He discusses how leaders create the atmosphere of an organization and why staying calm and composed earns respect and builds trust.
        • Timeless Advice for Life: Lindsay’s one key piece of wisdom: "Take your time with every individual and look for the good in them."


        About Lindsay Gray

        Lindsay Gray is an experienced consultant, mediator, and educator with a career spanning over 40 years in education, music, and charity development. He served as Headmaster of The Cathedral School and Director of the Royal School of Church Music.

        Currently, he is a Samaritans volunteer, Founder & Director of Caritas Consort, and a trusted advisor in education and choral music. Passionate about mental health and leadership, Lindsay’s career reflects his dedication to helping others and fostering positive change.


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      • The Art of Building Meaningful Relationships in Recruitment with Tiarna Mccormack
        Dec 5 2024

        What if the life you want is just one gutsy decision away?

        In this episode, Susanna Gray-Jones welcomes Tiarna Mccormack, a bold Rec2rec professional whose career journey is a masterclass in taking risks and reaping rewards. From selling dream holidays to building a thriving recruitment career across continents, Tiarna proves that stepping outside your comfort zone can open doors you never imagined.

        This episode brings strategies for choosing the right recruitment market, mastering salary negotiations, and building authentic relationships with candidates and clients.

        Tiarna’s honest insights on career transitions, navigating counteroffers, and finding fulfillment offer a refreshing perspective for recruiters at any stage of their journey.

        Whether you're aiming for the next level in recruitment or seeking inspiration to make your own gutsy move, this conversation will leave you empowered and ready to take action.

        This episode is your nudge to leap!


        Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments

        • Tiarna’s Bold Career Shift: From managing sales at Flight Centre to entering the recruitment industry, Tiarna shares how her passion for people and travel led her to a thriving career in Rectorec.
        • The Power of Listening: They discuss the often-overlooked skill of active listening in recruitment, emphasizing how truly understanding candidates and clients can set recruiters apart.
        • Navigating Counteroffers: Tiarna breaks down her approach to guiding candidates through salary negotiations and counteroffers, ensuring long-term satisfaction rather than short-term fixes.
        • Choosing the Right Recruitment Market: Tiarna offers insights into identifying resilient and lucrative markets, such as tech, private equity, and ESG, while highlighting the importance of recruiting in a field you genuinely connect with.
        • The Role of Guts in Career Success: Reflecting on how stepping outside her comfort zone—from moving to new countries to starting her first podcast—has fueled her personal and professional growth.


        About Tiarna Mccormak

        Tiarna Mccormack is a recruitment professional with over 10 years of experience, specializing in connecting senior talent with recruitment agencies. She has held key roles, including Director, Associate Partner, and Regional Director, across sectors such as HR, Technology, Life Sciences, and Accountancy & Finance. Tiarna focuses on executive search, interim solutions, and talent acquisition while helping senior professionals achieve their career goals.

        Her approach centers on building strong relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication and trust in recruitment. Tiarna is also committed to coaching and mentoring, supporting individuals in unlocking their potential and advancing their careers.

        Outside of work, Tiarna enjoys traveling, yoga, and spending time with friends over a glass of wine. She believes in fostering meaningful connections and creating opportunities for others. For senior-level recruitment support or career advice, Tiarna is an experienced and trusted partner to collaborate with.


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      • The Power of Persistence and Genuine Connections with Josh Brandon
        Nov 21 2024

        Can a recruiter’s greatest success come from redefining the game and putting relationships above all else?

        In this episode, Susanna Gray-Jones sits down with Josh Brandon, founder of Qualiteach, to explore the journey of building an exceptional recruitment business.

        Josh shares how his purpose, rooted in family and a relentless pursuit of quality, drives him to create a reputable name in education recruitment.

        From starting his own company at a young age to the unique challenges of staying boutique, Josh opens up about his early hurdles, the importance of relationships, and the value of caring deeply for clients and staff.

        This is a must-listen for recruiters aiming to achieve career success and a meaningful impact in their roles.


        Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments

        • Josh’s “Why”: Josh shares that his family motivates him daily, while professionally, he aims to be recognized for quality over size in the recruitment world.
        • Founding Qualiteach: He discusses starting Qualiteach at a young age, viewing it as “starting a desk” to reduce fear, with support from a mentor.
        • Long-Term Focus: Josh explains Qualiteach’s emphasis on long-term placements, inspired by his special education background, to build stability and strong relationships.
        • Value of Relationships: He stresses that recruitment success relies on understanding each school’s needs rather than quick, transactional placements.
        • Prioritizing Organic Growth and Integrity: Josh advises aspiring entrepreneurs to focus on organic growth, invest in back-office support, and put integrity and care at the forefront, emphasizing that sustainable success goes beyond just billing.

        About Josh Brandon

        Josh Brandon is the founder of Qualiteach, an education recruitment consultancy he launched in December 2015 with a mission to deliver unmatched service in the sector. With 14 years of dedicated experience in education recruitment, Josh brings a wealth of expertise and a strong commitment to quality, reliability, and trustworthiness.

        Under his leadership, Qualiteach has grown to include approximately 40 employees across three regional offices, serving a broad network of schools and educational institutions.

        Josh’s approach is rooted in a belief in fostering a positive, supportive work environment where each team member is empowered to reach their full potential.

        This culture of encouragement and professional growth has become a cornerstone of Qualiteach’s success, allowing the company to thrive and make a meaningful impact in the lives of both candidates and clients. Whether helping schools find exceptional educators or guiding professionals to fulfilling roles, Josh remains steadfast in his commitment to excellence.

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        37 mins
      • Mastering Market Toughness with Grit and Strategy with Alan Clarke
        Nov 7 2024

        What does it take to elevate your recruiting career from average to elite?

        In this episode, Susanna Gray-Jones is joined by the esteemed recruitment trainer, Alan Clarke, founder of RecruiterFit. With over 27 years of industry expertise, Alan shares his mission of empowering recruiters to refine their skills and build resilience in a demanding field.

        He dives into the art of developing essential recruiting techniques and enhancing softer skills that many overlook, emphasizing how mastering these can elevate one's career from ordinary to elite.

        Alan's unique blend of practical insights and motivational guidance helps listeners tap into their fullest potential, pushing beyond perceived limits to succeed in today’s tough market.

        They also explore the mindset shifts that separate top-performing recruiters from the rest and discuss why investing in continuous improvement and self-discipline is key to navigating the industry's highs and lows.


        Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments

        • Getting RecruiterFit – Alan’s mission is to help recruiters build resilience and sharpen both hard and soft skills to elevate their performance.
        • Mastering the Basics – Success in recruitment starts with consistently excelling at fundamentals like thorough candidate qualification and understanding the client's real needs.
        • Deep Qualifying – Going beyond surface-level motivations, Alan recommends uncovering six or more reasons a candidate wants to move, ensuring a stronger commitment.
        • Referrals Done Right – Referrals are strategic when done well. Alan shares tips for framing referral requests that tap into top-performer networks.
        • Building Resilience – In a tough market, keep relationships active with long-term thinking, even if immediate opportunities aren’t there.
        • Backfill Opportunities – Leverage open roles left by placed candidates. Backfilling is a powerful, often overlooked way to secure new business.

        About Alan Clarke

        Alan Clarke is an experienced recruitment trainer with over 25 years in the industry, having trained more than 11,500 recruiters across 17 countries. From new consultants to business owners, Alan equips professionals with the essential skills to excel in recruitment, build successful desks, and lead teams effectively.

        As the founder of RecruiterFit, he offers a wide range of tailored training programs, from induction to advanced management courses, all aligned with each client’s unique brand and values.

        His resources extend beyond the classroom, featuring over 100 online training videos and practical 'Response Handlers' for managing client and candidate calls.

        Alan’s dedication to enhancing recruitment standards and his commitment to empowering recruiters have established him as a highly valued mentor and expert in the industry.

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