Hello Super Moms & Dads! Welcome to a MISSION CRITICAL edition of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast!! And if you're wondering if it has to do with the dynamic and often delicate dance of communication, you are right...AGAIN! (Parents are always right, right?!)

In EP 70 we specifically dive into a crucial communication subject that can get a little blurred, messy, and unfortunately hurtful. We're going to focus on the differences between sarcasm and clever wit. It's a bit tricky! In fact, it's more than that when it comes to sarcasm. We believe it is quite "risky" especially in high-stakes situations. While clever wit can be funny and uplifting, sarcasm is a big, fat, dud. It always fizzles and we want the good kind of fireworks to erupt in your parent/teen convos!

Some helpful insights from EP 70 to grab onto:

-Communication is a dynamic dance involving both speaker and listener.

-Sarcasm can often be misinterpreted and is risky in communication.

-Clever wit is more about uplifting and connecting than mocking.

-Tone and delivery significantly affect how messages are perceived.

-Building strong relationships allows for more playful communication.

-Understanding the mood of the audience is crucial for effective humor.

-Intent behind words is key to positive communication.

-Clever wit can lighten the mood and foster connection.

-Engaging the brain before engaging the mouth can prevent misunderstandings!

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Hey there Very Important Parents! We are upping our game in 2024 as we strive to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Please hit the follow button where ever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or elsewhere). And, you can now watch the show on YouTube).

New episodes drop every Monday.

We would love it and be so grateful if you posted a glowing 5 star review along with a helpful comment for other listeners on what you are learning (and hopefully incorporating) from the show. After all, we created it just for you and as always, moms and dads, we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching! -Nate & Steve

Parents--Halloween is over but you are in for a real treat today!!

In this edition of The Stop Parenting & Stop Coaching Podcast, we are overjoyed to have the mighty Chad Sims, head boys basketball coach at Davis High School (UT) as our guest today!

Chad does a lot of things in his communication system that many coaches do, but he does ONE THING that NOT very many HS coaches do. Chad shares his innovative approach to engaging parents that incorporates a very personal, transparent, in-person conversation. His approach helps everyone involved and has contributed to him creating a team culture that embodies trust and respect that extends beyond the court, the season, and a player's short career. Chad's strategy also helps build teams that win (A LOT) on and off the court!

Listen in as Chad discusses the challenges and successes of navigating coach-parent-player dynamics, the role of honesty in coaching, and the impact of effective communication on young athletes' development and team success!

Terrific Takeaways

-Why you don't want a "Davis vs. Davis" scenario & how you can stop this!

-Building trust with parents can lead to a more cohesive team environment.

-Honesty is crucial in discussions about player roles and expectations.

-Creating a culture of respect helps in managing parent-player dynamics.

-Coaches should be transparent about their philosophies to avoid misunderstandings.

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Hey there Very Important Parents! We resolve to up our game in 2024 as we strive to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Please hit the follow button where ever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and those other places).

We also have a new YouTube channel where you can find our early audio only episodes and all of our most recent video versions!

New episodes drop every Monday.

We would love it and be so grateful if you posted a glowing 5 star review along with a helpful comment for other listeners on what you are learning (and hopefully incorporating) from the show. After all, we created it just for you and as always, moms and dads, we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching! -Nate & Steve

Welcome Parental Units to Episode 68 of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! We appreciate you for taking the time to up your parenting game! Today we wrestle with the 2 words that describe GREAT parenting. You already know them AND (hint, hint) they are not mutually exclusive--they are a mix of seeming contraries. You can be BOTH and if you are, your parenting skills are next level! Congrats!

Back to The TWO WORDS. We reference from the work of the great brain himself, Dr. Daniel Amen. What do you think they are? Fill in the letter blanks:

F_ _ _ AND K _ _ _. Got 'em?

Here are some teasers and gems you'll encounter in this episode:

--Being a great parent can be easier than we think.

--The key to GREAT parenting is being both firm and kind.

--Expectations should be communicated clearly to children.

--Discipline is essential for teaching responsibility.

--Recognizing children's achievements builds trust and respect.

--Consistency in parenting creates a safe environment.

--Adapting to each child's needs is crucial for effective parenting.

--Parents should manage their stress to be more kind.

--Firmness without kindness can lead to resentment.

--Firm and kind parenting will elevate your performer's or teen athlete's performance.

Hey there Very Important Parents! We are upping our game in 2024 as we strive to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Please hit the follow button where ever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or elsewhere). And, you can now watch the show on YouTube). New episodes drop every Monday.

We would love it and be so grateful if you posted a glowing 5 star review along with a helpful comment for other listeners on what you are learning (and hopefully incorporating) from the show. After all, we created it just for you and as always, moms and dads, we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching! -Nate & Steve