So You’re Living In A Simulation

By: @Joli.Artist aka Your One Black Friend
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  • (Formerly Your One Black Friend) This podcast will make you high. Paradigm shifting, thought provoking discussions with @Joli.Artist. Here we explore the nature of our Simulated Reality Matrix through Philosophy, Psychology, Spirituality, Quantum Physics, Theology, History and Current Events. Openminded, Free-Thinkers, welcome! We have Non-GMO, gluten free cookies!
    @Joli.Artist, aka Your One Black Friend
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Episodes
  • What Is Feeding On Your Desires? (ft. Joli.Artist) | In a Simulation, Even Your Desires Are Controlled.
    Feb 3 2025

    This episode is a philosophical deep dive into the nature of desire, free will, and the unseen forces shaping our reality. Through introspection and personal anecdotes, Joli (@Joli.artist) explores the idea that our wants are not truly our own. They arise from external programming, life experiences, and perhaps even entities beyond our perception.

    She challenges the common belief in free will, suggesting that desire and outcome are intrinsically linked, like two poles of a magnet, making resistance futile. Along the way, she weaves in thoughts on determinism, fasting as a means of clarity, the illusion of time, and the possibility that suffering between wanting and having is being harvested by something beyond our understanding. The episode invites listeners to consider questions such as:

    • Are we truly in control of our desires, or are they imposed upon us?

    • What if the very act of resisting a desire amplifies it?

    • Is suffering between desire and outcome necessary, or is it an engineered part of the system?

    • If all of time is happening now, do we already have what we think we lack?

    Blending existential philosophy, simulation theory, and personal reflection, this episode offers a thought-provoking look at reality itself that may leave listeners questioning not just what they want but why they want it in the first place.

    youroneblackfriend.com ••• Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction to Desire & Free Will

    03:13 Fasting, Consumption & Reality Hierarchies

    08:16 Desire and Outcome: Are We In Control?

    15:41 Energetic Parasites: Is Something Feeding On Our Suffering?

    37:32 Pharaoh’s Heart & Free Will Case Study

    39:11 Ignore The Noise In The Middle ••• #Freewill #Matrix #Determinism

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    42 mins
  • Can You Lose Your Mind Sanely? : The Thin Line Between Madness And Artistry
    Jan 16 2025

    In this provocative episode of "So You're Living in a Simulation," hostess Joli (@joli.artist) challenges our understanding of madness, genius, and what it truly means to be free. Through the lens of artistic evolution - from Picasso to Rothko - she explores how what society labels as "losing one's mind" might actually be the most sane response to an insane world.


    Drawing from personal experiences in London's real estate market to profound philosophical insights, Joli argues that true madness isn't in breaking free from societal norms, but in spending decades imprisoned by the imagined thoughts of others. She redefines what it means to "lose your mind," suggesting that deliberate liberation from societal conditioning differs fundamentally from losing control of one's mind.


    Using references from Vikings to The Matrix, she weaves together a compelling argument about determinism, free will, and the nature of reality itself. The episode offers practical wisdom on choosing response over reaction, maintaining authenticity in a conformist world, and finding freedom within life's inherent constraints.


    This deeply personal yet universally relevant exploration challenges viewers to question their own mental prisons and consider: What would life look like if we stopped caring about the uncontrollable and started living authentically? As your "one black friend," Joli brings a unique perspective to these timeless philosophical questions, making complex ideas accessible through storytelling and real-world applications.


    Explore the thin line between genius and madness, where losing your mind might just be the sanest thing you can do.


    Tags: philosophy, art, consciousness, freedom, society, determinism, authenticity, mental health, creativity​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​


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    Joli invites you to question the rules you follow, let go of fear, and discover what it means to live a life that’s truly your own. This episode is about finding clarity, freedom, and the courage to embrace who you really are.


    youroneblackfriend.com


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    Timestamps:

    00:00 – Introduction

    03:01 – The Thin Line Between Genius and Insanity

    05:02– How Fear of Judgment Shapes Our Lives

    15:32 – Sovereignty in a World of Expectations

    28:57 – Free Will, Destiny, and Living Authentically

    42:29– Can You Lose Your Mind Sanely?


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    Key Explored Questions:

    1. How does fear of judgment stop us from being ourselves?

    2. Why do artists rebel against rules and expectations?

    3. Can we truly live freely, or is everything predetermined?

    4. What does it mean to live authentically in today’s world?

    5. How can letting go of societal pressure lead to personal freedom?

    6. Is rebellion part of the system or a path to true freedom?


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    #ArtFreedom #FearlessLiving #Authenticity

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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • Aliens, AI, and Immortals: What’s Really Disrupting Humanity (ft. Joli.Artist)
    Dec 16 2024


    On this episode of SO YOU’RE LIVING IN A SIMULATION, we explore how external forces—whether aliens, interdimensional beings, societal constructs, or advanced technologies—are disrupting humanity’s natural synchronization and pushing us beyond known limits.


    Topics Covered:

    • Simulation and Disruption: Are unseen forces creating disharmony in humanity’s flow?

    • Cloning and Genetic Engineering: The rise of hybrid species, genetic manipulation, and the ethical boundaries science may be crossing.

    • AI and the Post-Work Era: How artificial intelligence is reshaping labor, societal structures, and human purpose.

    • Existential and Ethical Questions: Who or what is steering humanity? What does it mean for free will and our role in a simulated reality?

    • Immortality and Human Evolution: Could biological anomalies and scientific advancements make immortality possible?


    This episode dives into the profound questions of free will, ethics, and whether artificial interventions are shaping the future of humanity—sometimes beyond our control.


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    Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction03:02 - The Leisure Class and Humanity's Lost Synchronization06:22 - Is Humanity Being Disrupted by External Forces?09:02 - Fourth-Dimensional Entities and Simulation Hypotheses15:17 - Avatar and Wonder Woman: External Influences in Fiction19:22 - AI Revolution and the End of Hard Work25:35 - Restructuring Society for AI’s Impact47:14 - Immortals Among Us: Genetic Anomalies and Aging

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    Key Explored Questions:

    1. ​Are we living in a simulation?
    2. ​What disrupts human synchronization?
    3. ​Do aliens manipulate humanity?
    4. ​What is the leisure class?
    5. ​Can free will be an illusion?
    6. ​How does AI impact the future of work?
    7. ​Are immortals real?
    8. ​How is cloning being used today?
    9. ​Can aging be cured scientifically?
    10. ​What are fourth-dimensional entities?
    11. ​Why is hard work becoming obsolete?
    12. ​How do robots replace human jobs?
    13. ​What is the connection between AI and human consciousness?
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    #Leisureclass #AIrevolution #Futureofhumanity

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    57 mins

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Love the way she opens my mind! I encourage you to continue the path you're going. I'm very intrigued!

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Grateful you enters my simulation

I really love ALL of your content. I would have left a review earlier but I learned how today. To anyone that reads this engage her it will elevate you.

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I stumbled across her content almost two years ago and the rabbit hole its lead me down has literally changed my view on reality in the best way.
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