Episodes

  • Sensual Abundance #015: Do You Feel Bad About The Love & Money?

    Sensual Abundance #015: Do You Feel Bad About The Love & Money?
    Feb 26 2025
    On today's Episode of Sensual Abundance, Mari is reading a juicy thread from the Cam Girl Problems Sub-Reddit. Read the original post here: Do you ever feel bad? To answer the OP's question myself... do I 'feel bad' when the men in my professional relationships 'fall in love' with me and give me lots of money? Heck No 💕 I celebrate it! I'm doing something I enjoy, spending time with men I enjoy and I LOVE that I get paid abundantly for my time and creativity. Please DO go read the thread I've linked to because there is a rich conversation taking place with so much wisdom and experience being shared. One of the great points made is that the men who seem to be falling in love with us are often playing a role of their own choosing - acting like their besotted and lost in love is part of the experience that they crave. It's not something you've done to them - it's an experience you've helped them create. And THAT is worth all the money they pour out for you.
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    17 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #014: Tapping Into Goddess Energy w/Reina Redcliff

    Sensual Abundance #014: Tapping Into Goddess Energy w/Reina Redcliff
    Feb 8 2025
    Welcome to episode fourteen of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari and a special guest Reina Redcliff. In this episode, Mari chats about how Reina influenced her abundance mindset. Reina shares her journey in the world of spicy work and how embodying goddess energy has enriched her life, relationships, and work. Listen in as they talk about the vibration of abundance, shadow work, and the power of knowing what you truly want. Mari & Reina offer both wisdom and inspiration for those seeking to embrace their Goddess energy. And for more Goddess energy inspiration, be sure to listen to episode thirteen here. Highlights:
    • [00:03:16] – Exploring the sugar baby life, polyamory, and kinks.
    • [00:08:46] – Embracing feminine Goddess energy.
    • [00:13:31] – Embracing abundance with realism.
    • [00:14:42] – Breaking the cycle of lack.
    • [00:22:38] – Embracing divine feminine goddess journey.
    • [00:31:16] – Transactional relationships and empowerment.

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    37 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #013: You Are A Goddess

    Sensual Abundance #013: You Are A Goddess
    Feb 6 2025
    Welcome to episode thirteen of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. In today’s episode, I share a bit of my journey of self-discovery and empowerment as a woman in the world of spicy work and how embracing my goddess energy has attracted abundance. My hope is that this episode will inspire you to embody your sensual, erotic energy and remind you of your innate goddess power! Highlights:
    • [00:01:01] – You are a Goddess!
    • [00:02:40] – Celebrating my “late” start (at 56) in spicy work & how abundant it has been.
    • [00:06:47] – Recent interesting experience with a gentleman.
    • [00:09:25] – Embracing abundance through demand.
    • [00:12:22] – Submissive vibe can attract abundance too.

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    16 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #012: Feeling Grateful & Abundant in Spicy Work

    Sensual Abundance #012: Feeling Grateful & Abundant in Spicy Work
    Jan 21 2025
    Welcome to episode twelve of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. To kick this episode off, I reflect on the excitement and gratitude I’m feeling for 2025 and how as a 58-year-old spicy creator I’m doing exactly what I want and making a nice living leaning into my sexuality, exploring other people's sexuality, fetishes, kinks – learning what makes people tick. Listen in as I chat about finding joy and creativity in spicy work, addressing the challenges many face when balancing financial needs with personal boundaries and fulfillment. Highlights:
    • [00:04:10] – Creative passion or financial motivation?
    • [00:06:35] – Rethinking work and well-being.
    • [00:07:43] – Caller, this weekend, pushed me couple of steps beyond my comfort zone.
    • [00:10:02] – Setting boundaries over "ick" feelings.
    • [00:14:04] – Embrace curiosity and creativity.

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    16 mins
  • Sensual Abundance Episode #011: Discover, Declare, and Defend Your Boundaries

    Sensual Abundance Episode #011: Discover, Declare, and Defend Your Boundaries
    Dec 23 2024

    Spicy work can be light hearted and fun but we also know it can also be intensely emotional. Anytime we're engaging with another human on an emotional level we NEED our boundaries.

    And yet some of us are finding it hard to set boundaries and feel terrified about telling a customer about a new boundary.

    "If you're afraid that establishing a boundary with someone will upset somebody, that's the evidence that the boundary is needed in the first place." - Mark Manson

    This is a messy process and that's perfectly OK!

    Navigating experiences with our customers while protecting our well being is something we learn to do over time so we have to be kind to ourselves. I didn't come into this space knowing what I would be willing to do, I had to discover it along the way.

    If you've ever held back on establishing a boundary with a customer because you feared losing the income associated with them, this episode is going to encourage you.
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    18 mins
  • Sensual Abundance Podcast #010: Should You Pay For Help Getting Started?

    Sensual Abundance Podcast #010: Should You Pay For Help Getting Started?
    Nov 3 2024
    Welcome to episode ten of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. In this episode, I dive into the intricacies of becoming a thriving spicy creator and the importance of bringing your whole self—mind, body, creativity, and self-love—to the table to achieve abundance. Guidance from an experienced sex operator friend helped me swiftly navigate the NiteFlirt platform and while I am all about getting help if you need it, I urge caution… listen in for more details! Highlights:
    • [00:03:45] – Seasoned (for close to 12 years now!) spicy creator friend helped me get started.
    • 00:06:49] – Verify expertise before paying for guidance.
    • [00:08:17] – Prioritize yourself for future passive income.
    • [00:08:57] – Be careful about these people.

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    11 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #009: Be Your Own Number One Customer

    Sensual Abundance #009: Be Your Own Number One Customer
    Oct 14 2024
    Welcome to episode nine of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. Drawing from my 20 years of experience in the content creation space, I'll discuss how prioritizing your own projects and passive income streams can lead to both personal satisfaction and financial success in your spicy work. I'll share personal anecdotes about balancing client work with creative pursuits, and how this shift in mindset helped me achieve a nearly $1,000 day when earlier that day I had told a friend it wasn’t usually a busy day for me. Tune in to explore how you can be your own best customer and create lasting income for yourself. Highlights:
    • [00:04:23] – Prioritizing creativity over Niteflirt fast money.
    • [00:07:42] – A day I said isn’t usually busy turned into a $1,000 day.
    • [00:08:17] – Prioritize yourself for future passive income.

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    11 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #008: Price Comparisons Can Bring Down Your Mindset

    Sensual Abundance #008: Price Comparisons Can Bring Down Your Mindset
    Sep 29 2024
    Welcome to episode eight of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. I highly recommend listening to the first seven episodes 💕 Today, I’m diving into a hot topic many spicy creators face — price comparisons in the adult content industry. Whether you're just starting or a seasoned pro, you've probably encountered discussions on how pricing affects us all. I'll share some of my journey on NiteFlirt, insights from over two decades in the online marketing space, and why I believe that someone else's low prices shouldn't impact your mindset or your success. Highlights:
    • [00:04:43] – Price competition didn't affect my consistent client base.
    • [00:11:01] – The way we think about prices, there's a lot that goes into it for every single individual.
    • [00:16:22] – Success isn't determined by others' pricing strategies.

    Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance for a visual reminder? Grab your copy here.
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    23 mins