Self Development Collective

By: Self Development Collective
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  • The Self Development Collective is a personal development podcast where I share my experiences and inner work. I share ideas and strategies to support us in grief, the inner critic, boundaries, people-pleasing, and relationships. Shop our self development & self help worksheets here // https://selfdevelopmentcollective.com/shop
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Episodes
  • Q&A: Setting Emotional Boundaries & Feeling Guilt
    Jan 21 2025

    In this episode, I address a powerful Q&A from a listener about navigating emotional boundaries, particularly with a narcissistic presence. 🛡️✨

    Join me as I share practical steps and draw from my journey, offering strategies to start setting emotional boundaries and working with the weight of guilt.

    🚀 Key Insights:

    • Why emotional boundaries can be tricky
    • Two ways we can work with the feelings of guilt that come with setting emotional boundaries
    • Simple steps that we can journal

    This discussion is not just about setting boundaries, feeling empowered to navigate emotional boundaries, and getting to know our guilt. ❤️

    ❤️ Have a Q you'd like A? Share your question here 👇

    https://forms.gle/41exzfEMEBA2TvmR7

    Related Episodes:

    ❤️ Boundaries With A Narcissistic Parent https://selfdevelopmentcollective.podbean.com/e/boundaries-with-a-narcissistic-parent-setting-boundaries-with-toxic-parents-advice/

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    Receive bite-sized insights and practical strategies to boost your confidence, nurture relationships, and live authentically in the face of life’s challenges.

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    17 mins
  • Feeling overwhelmed by goals and goal setting? One idea that can change that!
    Jan 20 2025

    Hey guys! In this episode of The Self Development Collective, I'm diving into something I haven't talked about in ages - goal setting. But here's the thing: I'm approaching it totally differently than I used to.

    I've been watching heaps of YouTube content lately (you know I've been loving Molly Mae!), and with the start of the year, there's been so much stuff about productivity and goal setting. And it got me thinking - why have I been avoiding setting proper goals for so long?

    This episode came from a really honest place of reflection. You know those moments when you look back at old journals and realize how much has changed? That's exactly what sparked this conversation. I dive deep into my journey with goal setting - from being someone who had pages and pages of goals and productivity systems, to completely avoiding them, to finally finding a way that actually works for me.

    In this episode, I open up about my own experiences and share some really personal stories that completely transformed how I think about creating the life we want. I explore why traditional goal-setting methods weren't working for me, and share a powerful realization about vision boards that might surprise you.

    This episode is perfect for you if:

    • You've ever felt overwhelmed by traditional goal setting
    • You're tired of chasing goals that don't feel meaningful
    • You want to approach your dreams in a way that actually feels good
    • You're looking for a more authentic way to create the life you want
    • You're ready to think about goal setting in a completely different way

    This is actually part one of a series where I'll be breaking down a completely different approach to goal setting - one that's changed everything for me. I share some really vulnerable moments and practical insights that I hope will help shift your perspective too.

    I can't wait to hear what resonates with you from this episode. Drop a comment or shoot me an email to let me know your thoughts!

    #GoalSetting #PersonalDevelopment #RealTalk #AuthenticLiving #SelfDevelopment #MeaningfulGoals

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    20 mins
  • Growth vs. Change: Embracing Personal Growth in the New Year
    Dec 24 2024
    Growth vs. Change: Embracing Personal Growth in the New Year Episode Description: A Journey of Personal Growth

    🎧 Hey guys! I'm so excited to share this transformative episode with you. After having my baby (he's two months old now!), I've been doing a lot of reflection on how we approach growth and development, and I want to share something that's completely shifted my perspective.

    The Power of Personal Growth Over Change

    You know how at the end of every year, we talk about all the things we want to change about ourselves? Through my deep dive into psychotherapy and personal growth work, I've discovered something game-changing about how we approach our inner journey. What if instead of forcing change, we embraced understanding through curiosity?

    Key Insights for Transformation

    In this episode about authentic development, I share openly about: * Why fighting against parts of ourselves blocks genuine growth and leads to disconnection * How my relationship with anger transformed into a powerful catalyst for understanding * The breakthrough moment in my journey when I stopped trying to change and started getting curious * Why understanding our emotions is crucial for sustainable transformation * Practical strategies for embracing all parts of ourselves in our development journey

    Real Talk About Personal Growth

    I get really honest about my experiences - like being labeled "the angry one" and how that impacted my path to understanding myself. Through exploring Internal Family Systems (IFS) and psychotherapy (I'm obsessed with Martha Sweezy's work!), I've discovered that real personal growth happens when we get curious about what our emotions are trying to tell us.

    A Fresh Perspective on Personal Growth

    This episode is perfect if you're feeling stuck in your journey or tired of traditional self-help advice. I share raw, authentic experiences about how shifting from "how can I change?" to "how can I grow?" has transformed my approach to development and understanding.

    Embracing Your Whole Self

    And as I always say - take what resonates, leave what doesn't. But I'm really curious to see how this new perspective might transform the way you work with all parts of yourself. Join me in this honest conversation about growth, where we explore how understanding ourselves, rather than trying to change ourselves, might be the key to authentic transformation.

    Stay Connected

    Follow along with my content: * New episodes every two weeks * Deep dives into psychological concepts made accessible * Real-life applications for your journey of growth

    Links Mentioned

    The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner https://www.amazon.com.au/Dance-Anger-Changing-Patterns-Relationships/dp/0062319043

    Internal Family Systems Therapy for Shame and Guilt by Martha Sweezy https://amzn.asia/d/5qmcKlh

    #PersonalGrowth #AuthenticGrowth #SelfDevelopment #IFSTherapy #EmotionalGrowth #SelfDiscovery #MentalHealth #PersonalTransformation #GrowthMindset #EmotionalIntelligence

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    Receive bite-sized insights and practical strategies to boost your confidence, nurture relationships, and live authentically in the face of life’s challenges.

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    17 mins

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