In this episode of Going Inside, I continue my Internal Family Systems (IFS) demo with Sarah in the third session of a four-part series. We explore how internal and external expectations can block freedom, joy, and imagination. Sarah connects with a part of herself that has carried the burden of meeting others' needs since childhood, believing that anticipating and managing expectations would keep her safe. Together, we invite more trust, curiosity, and playfulness into her system, creating space for greater ease and self-acceptance.

*This is part 3 of a 4-part series of real Internal Family Systems therapy sessions

*Please note that the client's name has been changed to protect their privacy.

Key Takeaways:

1. Expectations can create internal pressure that limits our ability to be present and embrace spontaneity.
2. Protective parts often form in childhood to keep us safe, but they may no longer serve us in the same way as adults.
3. Trusting the present moment allows for greater emotional freedom, creativity, and self-acceptance.

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