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  • Raising Godly Kids- Time, Affirmation, Media, and Worldview

    Raising Godly Kids- Time, Affirmation, Media, and Worldview
    Oct 30 2024
    “The number one factor or force that contributes to influence is time by quite a large margin. Whoever spends the most time with your child is going to have the most influence.” – Israel Wayne. Israel and Brook Wayne are both homeschool graduates and homeschooling parents. They have eleven children ranging in age from 24 to 3. They are the founders of Family Renewal and co-writers of Pitchin' a Fit: Overcoming Angry and Stressed-Out Parenting. During this episode, Israel and Brook share invaluable insights on influencing your child's life, managing parental anger, and instilling a biblical worldview. Israel provides practical tips on reclaiming time and managing media, while Brook offers heartwarming strategies to replace parental anger with positive reinforcement. Key Themes: Building influence through time: Israel kicks off the conversation by highlighting the importance of being the primary influence in your child's life. Time spent together is paramount. The data revealing that the average mother spends only an hour a day with her children—and fathers, a mere 29 minutes—serves as a wake-up call. Israel passionately advocates reclaiming time from other influences, like school and media, to foster stronger parental bonds. Positive affirmation vs. anger: Brook shares personal stories about the pitfalls of using anger as a tool for parenting. Through her journey, she learns that anger does not produce the righteousness of God. Instead, she emphasizes the power of love, gentleness, and positive affirmation to guide kids towards godliness. Managing media and screen time: With technology being a double-edged sword, Israel focuses on teaching children to be producers rather than passive consumers of media. Technology should be used to add value and contribute positively to the world, not just as a source of amusement. Cultivating a biblical worldview: A robust biblical worldview is likened to wearing clear, scripture-tinted glasses. Israel emphasizes the need for parents to be proactive in shaping their children's perspectives through daily interactions and teaching based on God's Word. “For the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.” – Brook Wayne. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
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    19 mins
  • MOMents – When Kids Doubt and Challenge Faith

    MOMents – When Kids Doubt and Challenge Faith
    Oct 23 2024
    Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group. During this episode, Lori and Lee Ann tackle some of the most challenging questions kids might ask. From the reality of God to navigating conversations about sex and deciphering the Bible's authenticity, Lori and Lee Ann provide practical advice, valuable insights, and rich resources to help parents nurture a solid Christian foundation in their children. Episode Highlights: Handling Kids’ Doubts About God's Existence: Your child comes home questioning, “Is God real?” Lori and Lee Ann offer invaluable advice in addressing this with both younger and older children. They discuss how to explain the nature of God—His spiritual essence, the historical reality of Jesus, and using examples like the wind and gravity to convey the evidence of God’s presence. Teaching the Importance of Sexual Purity: What do you say when your teenager asserts, “Sex between two people who love each other is okay”? Lori and Lee Ann address this hot-button issue by discussing God’s design for relationships, the spiritual significance of sex within marriage, and the importance of grace and redemption. They reflect on lessons from the purity movement and how to convey God’s high view of marriage without alienating your kids. Combating Perceptions of the Bible as a Fairy Tale: How do you react if your child labels the Bible a fairy tale? Both ladies tackle this question by emphasizing the importance of apologetics, historical validity, and the unique nature of the Bible. They point to resources such as Answers in Genesis and the work of historians. They explore ways to engage your child in meaningful dialogue, reinforcing the Bible’s authenticity and relevance. Key Takeaways: Engage in open, honest conversations with your children. Ask questions to understand their doubts and guide them thoughtfully. Equip yourself and your kids with resources to defend and deepen your faith. Books like Raising Kids to Follow Christ by Lee Ann Mancini offer practical applications for everyday parenting. Recognize and address the pressures from society while providing a foundation of grace and truth in your family discussions. Lori’s Website, Facebook, Moms Together Facebook, Moms Together Facebook Group, and Instagram. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
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    18 mins
  • Digging Deeper – What’s in Your Parenting Toolbox?

    Digging Deeper – What’s in Your Parenting Toolbox?
    Oct 16 2024
    "Your actions may speak louder than words—let your love for Jesus be the loudest message your children hear." – Rhonda Stoppe. Three women of Christ on a mission, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, have joined together to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone who is raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional counselor of 27 years. Rhonda Stoppe is a best-selling author, speaker, and podcaster who has helped countless women build “no regrets lives”! During this episode, all three ladies dive into the concept of the parenting toolbox, sharing invaluable tools and cherished experiences that can strengthen your journey as a Christian parent. Key Takeaways: Rhonda’s toolbox- love God with all your being: Rhonda shares how the cornerstone of her parenting toolbox is to love God with every fiber of one's being. She reflects on how her personal journey to deepen her love for Christ—through daily scripture reading and fervent prayer—became the most impactful way to draw her children and grandchildren closer to Jesus. Her story is a testament to the transformative power of a genuine, fervent faith. Michelle’s toolbox- authenticity and sincere faith: Michelle shares heartfelt narratives about her experiences as a grandma and step-grandma. She emphasizes that the greatest tool in any Christian parent's arsenal is authenticity. She recounts instances where her authentic faith spoke louder than words, teaching her grandchildren the essence of true Christian living. Her reflections on 2nd Timothy 1 highlight the enduring influence of a sincere, unmasked faith. Oreo cookie and yes-no sandwich communication: Michelle unveils the Oreo cookie communication technique—an ingenious way to couch constructive criticism between layers of positive reinforcement. Meanwhile, Lee Ann introduces the yes-no sandwich, a method designed to assure children’s desires are acknowledged, even if they can't be immediately fulfilled. Both techniques aim to foster a nurturing and positive family environment. Living simply and loving deeply: Rhonda captivates listeners with the story of her transition from a city dweller to life on a debt-free ranch. She describes the rustic charm and the significant sacrifices made to follow her husband's dream. This story exemplifies faith in God's provision and highlights the profound message of living simply and prioritizing what truly matters. As the episode wraps up, the recurring theme is clear: raising strong Christian kids is about embodying Christ’s love, living out an authentic faith, and employing practical tools to nurture your children's spiritual growth. The discussion is saturated with encouragement and grace, offering hope and practical wisdom to every parent striving to lead their children on the path of righteousness. Resources: Rhonda Stoppe’s books & Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield’s books. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
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    20 mins
  • Rethinking Education- Embracing Homeschooling with Sam Sorbo

    Rethinking Education- Embracing Homeschooling with Sam Sorbo
    Oct 9 2024
    As an education freedom advocate, Sam’s mission is to help parents and their children emancipate from our modern school system. A successful Hollywood film actress, writer, and producer, Sam stepped back from her own career to immerse herself in the home education of her three young children for over a decade. Recognizing the brokenness of our institutional system led Sam to understand there is much more to education than academics. As a prolific author, podcast, radio host, international public speaker, and home education mentor, Sam is dedicated to teaching families how to educate differently. During this episode, Sam shares invaluable advice for those considering homeschooling, exploring everything from making a flexible plan to understanding that children learn at their own pace. Comparing homeschooling to potty training, Sam reassures parents that they won't "break" their children by providing a customized education. Sam and Lee Ann dig deep into the evolution of homeschooling, critique the traditional school system's focus on creating dependency, and highlight home education's economic and social benefits. Key Takeaways: Public school myths: Sam argues that public schools are intentionally designed to control and standardize education rather than promote individual thought. Real-life success: Many high-profile, successful individuals—often dropouts—testify to the pitfalls of traditional schooling. Financial realities: Homeschooling can be cost-effective, and resources are more accessible now than ever. Encouragement for future homeschoolers: Dive into homeschooling with thorough exploration and keep an open mind. Even if you opt for public schooling, get involved in school boards to positively influence the educational system. So, you want to homeschool but are unsure where to start? --> Connect with the Homeschooling Community: Engage with parents already on the homeschooling journey to gain valuable perspectives and support. Flexible Planning: Create a structured plan for homeschooling, but remain adaptable if certain methods don’t work for your child's unique learning pace. Overcoming Fears: Embrace the idea that children learn at their own speed, likened beautifully to the different timelines seen in potty training. Never fear you will "break" your child by following a paced, relaxed approach. Sam’s Website and books: They’re Your Kids, Teach from Love & Words from Warriors. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
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    33 mins
  • MomQ- Connecting Your Faith to Motherhood

    MomQ- Connecting Your Faith to Motherhood
    Oct 2 2024
    How do you think having a mentor can impact your journey as a parent? Candace is a dedicated follower of Jesus Christ, wife, and mother of three adult children. She is also a visionary women’s ministry leader, disciple maker, and experienced Bible study teacher with a strong understanding of women’s needs. In 2021, she founded MomQ, a Christian Mom Community based in Austin, TX. Their mission is to equip moms with biblical wisdom to build strong families and raise children of character. During this episode, Candace discusses her amazing organization, MomQ, and how it can support moms all over the world. Highlights of the episode: Uncover the essence of this community-driven group that focuses on authentic conversations, biblical wisdom, and holistic support for moms. Learn about their unique approach encapsulated by the "Q" – which stands for quotient, enhancing moms’ spiritual and practical knowledge. Support for the whole mom: Understand how MomQ differentiates itself by focusing on not just parenting but also supporting marriages, personal well-being, and self-care. Listen to Candice discuss why grounding a mom's identity in Christ is crucial for enriching every aspect of her life. Real talk on relevant issues: From dealing with mom guilt and easing anxieties to understanding the purpose of parenting through Deuteronomy 6:4-7, Candice and Lee Ann delve into pressing challenges with a biblical lens. Get insights on mental health, resolving conflicts, and why God allows suffering. Encouraging overwhelmed moms: Candice shares heartfelt advice for those swamped by life's demands. She points to powerful scriptures like Isaiah 43:1- 3 for comfort and emphasizes the importance of community, urging moms to join supportive groups and seek trusted mentors. Exciting developments: Discover MomQ's fresh venture into video-based curriculum launching this fall, designed to support churches and broader Christian communities. Lee Ann and Candice weave together personal experiences, biblical principles, and practical advice to fortify your parenting journey and deepen your faith. Tune in now to hear the full conversation, and don't miss Candice's encouraging words on prioritizing what matters in your family life! You can learn more about MomQ and connect with Candice by visiting momq.org or following them on social media at @momq512. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
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    15 mins
  • Understanding the Truth Through True Crime with J. Warner Wallace

    Understanding the Truth Through True Crime with J. Warner Wallace
    Sep 26 2024
    If you're a parent or mentor who's guiding young hearts towards Christ, you do not want to miss this episode! J. Warner Wallace is a Dateline featured Cold-Case Detective, Author, Speaker, Senior Fellow at the Colson Center for Christian Worldview, and Adjunct Professor of Apologetics at Talbot School of Theology (Biola University), Gateway Seminary and Southern Evangelical Seminary. During this episode, J. Warner discusses his groundbreaking new book, The Truth in True Crime. J. Warner’s unparalleled experience in true crime offers a unique perspective on human nature and the universal quest for the truth. Key Takeaways: Discovering the Hidden Truths: J. delves into how our children are often exposed to a culture that dismisses Christianity as outdated or even harmful. Learn how to equip your kids with the knowledge and resilience they need to stand firm in their faith amid an increasingly critical society. Unearthing Life Lessons from True Crime: He explores the compelling connection between his experiences as a detective and the fundamental principles of Christianity. His book Person of Interest talks about why Jesus still matters when the world rejects the Bible and includes 15 crime stories that show why Christianity describes us as humans the way we really are. Understanding the Importance of Marriage: Addressing a pivotal yet controversial topic, J. reveals the data-backed benefits of traditional marriage and its crucial role in human flourishing. This segment is particularly valuable for parents guiding teens and young adults toward making wise, intentional choices about their future spouses. Balancing Truth and Grace: One of the most challenging aspects of Christian parenting is teaching children to balance the fullness of truth and grace. He provides a powerful framework for fostering an environment where both justice and mercy thrive, echoing the perfect love of God. Engaging the Youth: J.’s book isn't just for parents; it's a must-read for teens and young adults too. With true crime emerging as a highly engaging genre, it's the perfect gateway to deeper conversations about theology, morality, and Christian living. 🎧 Tune in to get a unique blend of true crime intrigue, practical life lessons, and Christian apologetics that will surely resonate with you and your teens. J. Warner’s Website & Facebook. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
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    21 mins
  • Finding Simplicity- Secrets to a Grounded, Purposeful Family Life

    Finding Simplicity- Secrets to a Grounded, Purposeful Family Life
    Sep 24 2024
    Looking for a fresh, grounded approach to Christian parenting amidst the chaos of modern life? Brenda L. Yoder is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, school counselor, speaker, and author of Uncomplicated: Simple Secrets for a Compelling Life. She’s also authored Fledge: Launching Your Kids Without Losing Your Mind, Balance, Busyness & Not Doing It All, and has been featured in The Washington Post, Guideposts, and Chicken Soup for the Soul books. She hosts the Life Beyond the Picket Fence podcast and co-hosts the Midlife Mom Podcast and Midlife Mom Facebook Community. Brenda specializes in faith, life, and family beyond the storybook image. During this episode, Brenda discusses her latest book, Uncomplicated: Simple Secrets for a Compelling Life. Brenda, who has experience from life on a simple Amish farm to in-depth mental health counseling, sheds light on how to lead a purpose-driven, family-centered life in today's fast-paced world. Together, Brenda and Lee Ann discuss how the simplicity and resilience found in traditional, hands-on experiences can benefit family life in our overcomplicated, tech-heavy society. Key Takeaways: Life skills rediscovered: Brenda identifies essential life skills, such as problem-solving, prudence, and self-control, which are crucial for raising resilient and faith-grounded children. Common-sense approach: Through relatable anecdotes and practical wisdom, she explores how common sense, backed by both neuroscience and biblical principles, can guide parents in nurturing their kids effectively. Building values: With compelling arguments, Brenda underlines the importance of teaching values like interdependence and responsibility, showing how even simple family chores can have a lasting impact. Mental health insights: For parents struggling with anxiety and overburden, she draws from her counseling expertise, providing doable strategies to regain peace and focus on what truly matters. Practical and scriptural ties: Each chapter in Brenda's book ties practical advice to scriptural foundations, offering a holistic and faith-affirming perspective that's bound to inspire Christian parents. Ready to turn your chaotic routine into a meaningful, peaceful, and faith-filled family experience? Learn how to uncomplicate your parenting journey and instill confidence, resilience, and faith in both you and your children! Brenda’s Website, Instagram, & Facebook. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
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    20 mins
  • Navigating Teenage Comparison and Peer Pressure

    Navigating Teenage Comparison and Peer Pressure
    Sep 19 2024
    “When we detach value from certain behavior and attach it to what Christ says is the most valuable, then we're not sending our kids back into that comparison trap.” – Lee Nienhuis Lee Nienhuis is an author, speaker, and Bible teacher. She co-hosts the Martha & Mary Show and the You Can Tell the Children podcast with Bible2School. Lee’s books Brave Moms, Brave Kids and Countercultural Parenting are a clarion call for parents looking to raise wholehearted Christ followers. Lee and her husband, Mike, have four kids and live in West Michigan. During this episode, Lee Nienhuis discusses her newest book, which she co-authored with Shannon Hopkin, Comparison Girl for Teens, and how it can help teens navigate the complex world of teenage comparison and peer pressure. Lee shares practical tips and steps parents can take to foster an environment of support, affirmation, and biblical values, steering their daughters away from the pitfalls of comparison. Key Takeaways: Focus on having regular and meaningful conversations with your teenagers. This can help build a trusting relationship where they feel comfortable discussing their struggles and triumphs. Model positive behavior and be mindful of your own comparisons and criticisms, especially in front of your children. Avoid self-deprecating comments about your appearance or abilities. Instead of comparing your teenagers to others, highlight and encourage their unique strengths and talents. Praise their efforts and the qualities that make them special. Emphasize biblical values by helping your children understand their worth through the lens of their faith. Use biblical statements of value and worth that emphasize God's love and purpose for them, independent of societal metrics. If you realize you’ve made unfair comparisons or set unrealistic expectations, sit down with your child and apologize. This models humility and the importance of seeking forgiveness. Be proactive in managing your teenager's time on social media. Encourage offline activities that build self-worth and community. Teach your teens that success isn’t solely about academic achievements or career milestones but about being in the center of God’s will and being faithful, kind, and loving individuals. Invest in helpful resources like the Comparison Girl for Teens. These tools can provide structured guidance and topics for family discussions that foster spiritual growth. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
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    20 mins