Parenting the Tough Stuff

By: Wendy Lee Johnson
  • Summary

  • Parenting the Tough Stuff is the podcast for parents like you who are raising teens and young adults who are struggling. It’s your guide to feeling better about being a parent and holding things together when everything feels like it’s falling apart. Your host, Wendy Lee Johnson, is a certified life coach for parents and mother of 9. In her weekly episodes, she will dive deep into the topics that keep you up at night. Parenting teens in crisis isn't exactly intuitive. What worked in the past may not be the best moving forward. It’s time to find the joy in parenting again and get back to feeling like the best version of yourself. Hit follow and get ready to change your life. • If you have a question or topic you’d like to see covered on the show, send an email to wendyleejohnsoncoaching@gmail.com. • If you’re interested in actionable strategies delivered straight to your inbox, go to wendyleejohnson.com and sign up for her weekly email.
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Episodes
  • Steady the Storm with Co-Regulation
    Nov 5 2024

    Episode Description
    Today, we're exploring co-regulation—a powerful parenting tool that’s especially important for adoptive families. Co-regulation can make a world of difference, helping our children feel safe, grounded, and connected. Whether you’re new to this concept or looking for more practical ways to apply it, this episode will guide you through what co-regulation is, why it matters, and how you can start practicing it with your kids to strengthen your family bond.

    Episode Breakdown

    1. Introduction
    I start with a story from my own experience—an “aha” moment that made me realize the importance of staying regulated as a parent. It was a moment that got a bit, let’s say, intense, but it became a turning point for me in prioritizing co-regulation. This story sets the stage for the rest of the episode.

    2. What is Co-Regulation?
    We break down what co-regulation really means and how it can provide our children with a sense of safety and emotional security, especially when they come from difficult or disrupted pasts.

    3. The Science Behind Co-Regulation
    A little brain science! We dive into why our calm presence can have such a powerful effect on our children, helping them feel secure and connected.

    4. The Challenge of Staying Regulated
    Kids, especially those who’ve experienced trauma, struggle to stay regulated. Here, we discuss why it’s so important for us to stay calm first, so they can feel our steady energy and co-regulate with us.

    5. Four Key Lessons from Parenting Teens
    Over the years, I’ve learned four big lessons that help me show up for my teens and stay connected with them:
    - It’s Not About Me
    - They Don’t Need Me to Fix Things
    - Avoiding Minimizing Their Experience
    - They’re Learning Self-Regulation

    6. Practical Strategies for Co-Regulation
    From sharing Spotify playlists to helping with chores, we cover everyday strategies for creating safe, connected moments with teens that allow them to co-regulate with us naturally.

    7. Common Challenges in Co-Regulation
    It’s not always easy, and that’s okay! We discuss common roadblocks and how to extend grace to ourselves as we do our best, even when things get tough.

    8. Conclusion
    A reminder that every small effort matters and that our work as adoptive parents to create a safe and supportive space truly makes a difference.


    If today’s episode resonates with you, I’d love to offer a bit more support. I’m currently offering a free consult call where we can talk about what’s happening in your family and find ways to strengthen your parenting approach. Whether you’re facing specific challenges or just looking for extra guidance, let’s connect. Here's the link to schedule your free consult —just click and pick a time that works best for you!

    https://calendly.com/wendyleejohnson/free-consult

    Thank you for joining me today! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with other adoptive parents who might find it helpful. We’re all in this together.

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    19 mins
  • Helping Your Kiddo Thrive
    Oct 29 2024

    We all want our kids to thrive, but what does that really mean?

    Often in our culture, thriving is associated with excelling at sports, maintaining a high GPA, or maintaining friendships. But here’s the kicker: thriving is so much more than just those quantifiable achievements. In fact, I believe thriving is more of a direction than a destination.

    Many of our adopted kids come from challenging backgrounds. Maybe no one in their birth family graduated high school, or their birthparents struggle with issues like addiction or incarceration and these same issues keep showing up in our kiddo’s journeys. All of these challenges can cast a long shadow over what we perceive as thriving.

    I this episode we cover what thriving really is and how this can change your relationship with your child.

    I coach adoptive parents. If you would like some support, schedule a free consultation HERE

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    18 mins
  • Boost Your Distress Tolerance During a Crisis
    Feb 1 2024

    Have you ever wanted to just survive a crisis without making it worse? As parents, when things get really tough we immediately experience some pretty intense emotions. Many times, it’s hard to stay present or even make sense out of what’s happening in the moment. If you want to learn some truly incredible tools for tolerating distress during a crisis, then this episode is for you. 

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    26 mins

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