• The Five Principles of Relationships: Love
    Feb 2 2025

    Distant. Divided. Dysfunctional. Devour. Devastation.


    Matthew 22:37-39

    Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the first and greatest commandment.

    39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’


    Love is the greatest commandment.


    1 John 4:8

    Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.


    1 Corinthians 13:4-8

    Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8 Love never fails.


    Luke 10:25-37

    On one occasion an expert in the law stood up to test Jesus. “Teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?”


    26 “What is written in the Law?” he replied. “How do you read it?”


    27 He answered, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”


    28 “You have answered correctly,” Jesus replied. “Do this and you will live.”


    29 But he wanted to justify himself, so he asked Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?”


    30 In reply Jesus said: “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead.


    31 A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side.


    32 So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. 33 But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him.


    34 He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him.


    35 The next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Look after him,’ he said, ‘and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.’


    36 “Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?”


    37 The expert in the law replied, “The one who had mercy on him.”

    Jesus told him, “Go and do likewise.”

    Love is not transactional.

    Love is transformational.

    Luke 15

    Sheep (15:1-7)

    Coin (15:8-10)

    Son (15:11-32)

    1 Cor. 13:6

    Love . . . rejoices with the truth

    Galatians 5:22

    But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy . . .

    How do I know if I’m loving?


    Am I rejoicing over what God rejoices over?

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    51 mins
  • The Five Principles of Relationships: Honor
    Jan 26 2025

    Distant. Divided. Dysfunctional. Devour.

    1 Peter 2:17

    Honor everyone. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the emperor.

    Honor is due.

    Genesis 1:26

    Then God said, “Let us make mankind in our image . . .

    Matthew 10:40-42

    “Anyone who welcomes you welcomes me, and anyone who welcomes me welcomes the one who sent me.

    41 Whoever welcomes a prophet as a prophet will receive a prophet’s reward, and whoever welcomes a righteous person as a righteous person will receive a righteous person’s reward.

    42 And if anyone gives even a cup of cold water to one of these little ones who is my disciple, truly I tell you, that person will certainly not lose their reward.”

    Honor those in authority.

    Honor those around you.

    Honor the least among you.

    Matthew 9:1-8

    Jesus stepped into a boat, crossed over and came to his own town.

    2 Some men brought to him a paralyzed man, lying on a mat. When Jesus saw their faith, he said to the man, “Take heart, son; your sins are forgiven.”

    3 At this, some of the teachers of the law said to themselves, “This fellow is blaspheming!”

    4 Knowing their thoughts, Jesus said, “Why do you entertain evil thoughts in your hearts?

    5 Which is easier: to say, ‘Your sins are forgiven,’ or to say, ‘Get up and walk’?

    6 But I want you to know that the Son of Man has authority on earth to forgive sins.” So he said to the paralyzed man, “Get up, take your mat and go home.”

    7 Then the man got up and went home.

    8 When the crowd saw this, they were filled with awe; and they praised God, who had given such authority to man.

    Matthew 9:20-22

    Just then a woman who had been subject to bleeding for twelve years came up behind him and touched the edge of his cloak. 21 She said to herself, “If I only touch his cloak, I will be healed.”

    22 Jesus turned and saw her. “Take heart, daughter,” he said, “your faith has healed you.” And the woman was healed at that moment.

    Dishonor robs us of reward.

    Honor positions us for reward.

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    52 mins
  • Nothing new is easy for you.
    Jan 22 2025

    Colossians 3:1-17

    Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.

    2 Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. 3 For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God.

    4 When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory.


    5 Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry.

    6 Because of these, the wrath of God is coming. 7 You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived.

    8 But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips.

    9 Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices

    10 and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator.

    11 Here there is no Gentile or Jew, circumcised or uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave or free, but Christ is all, and is in all.


    12 Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.

    13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.

    14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.


    15 Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.

    16 Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts.

    17 And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

    Nothing new is easy for you.


    Set

    Colossians 3:1-2

    Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. 2 Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.

    Self


    Colossians 3:5

    Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry.


    Colossians 3:8

    But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. 9 Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices

    Colossians 3:12-14

    Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.


    Colossians 3:10

    and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator.


    Surrender

    Colossians 3:15-17

    Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, . . . Let the message of Christ dwell among you . . . And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

    Nothing new is easy for you, but there’s nothing new that God can’t do.

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  • God, there's nothing new about You.
    Jan 12 2025

    James 1:16-17

    Don’t be deceived, my dear brothers and sisters. 17 Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.


    Hebrews 13:8

    Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.


    God, there’s nothing new about You.


    Divine Constancy


    No Qualitative Change


    No Quantitative Change


    Psalm 102:25-27

    In the beginning you laid the foundations of the earth, and the heavens are the work of your hands.

    26 They will perish, but you remain; they will all wear out like a garment.

    Like clothing you will change them and they will be discarded.

    27 But you remain the same, and your years will never end.


    Malachi 3:6

    “I the Lord do not change. So you, the descendants of Jacob, are not destroyed.”


    Dependability


    God, there’s nothing new about You.

    Your faithfulness will see me through.


    Lamentations 3:22-23

    Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail.

    23 They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.


    Confession


    1 John 1:9

    If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.


    Confidence


    Hebrews 13:6-8

    So we say with confidence, “The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me?”

    7 Remember your leaders, who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith. 8 Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.


    Proverbs 3:5-6

    Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;

    6 in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.

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    46 mins
  • Nothing New Under the Sun
    Jan 6 2025

    Ecclesiastes 1:1-11

    The words of the Teacher, son of David, king in Jerusalem:

    2 “Meaningless! Meaningless!”says the Teacher.

    “Utterly meaningless! Everything is meaningless.”

    3 What do people gain from all their labors at which they toil under the sun? 4 Generations come and generations go, but the earth remains forever.

    5 The sun rises and the sun sets,

    and hurries back to where it rises.

    6 The wind blows to the south and turns to the north;

    round and round it goes, ever returning on its course.

    7 All streams flow into the sea, yet the sea is never full.

    To the place the streams come from, there they return again.

    8 All things are wearisome, more than one can say.

    The eye never has enough of seeing, nor the ear its fill of hearing.

    9 What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again;

    there is nothing new under the sun.

    10 Is there anything of which one can say, “Look! This is something new”?

    It was here already, long ago; it was here before our time.

    11 No one remembers the former generations, and even those yet to come

    will not be remembered by those who follow them.


    Nothing New Under the Sun

    Expectations

    Excuses

    Do not look “under the sun” for what is not there.

    Do not look “under the sun” for what only comes from beyond it.


    Matthew 6:9-10

    “This, then, is how you should pray: “‘Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, 10 your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.

    God specializes in doing “new” with you.

    Lamentations 3:22-23

    Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.


    Psalm 40:1-3

    I waited patiently for the Lord; he turned to me and heard my cry.

    2 He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire;

    he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand.

    3He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God.

    Many will see and fear the Lord and put their trust in him.


    Isaiah 43:18-19

    “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past.

    19 See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?

    I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.

    Hebrews 9:15

    For this reason Christ is the mediator of a new covenant, that those who are called may receive the promised eternal inheritance—now that he has died as a ransom to set them free from the sins committed under the first covenant.

    Ezekiel 36:26

    I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.

    2 Corinthians 5:17

    Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!

    Romans 12:2

    Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.

    Revelation 21:1-5

    Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and there was no longer any sea. ... He who was seated on the throne said, 'I am making everything new!

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    53 mins
  • Midnight and Medleys
    Dec 29 2024

    Acts 16:22-26
    22 The crowd joined in the attack against Paul and Silas, and the magistrates ordered them to be stripped and beaten with rods. 23 After they had been severely flogged, they were thrown into prison, and the jailer was commanded to guard them carefully. 24 When he received these orders, he put them in the inner cell and fastened their feet in the stocks.

    25 About midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and the other prisoners were listening to them.

    26 Suddenly there was such a violent earthquake that the foundations of the prison were shaken. At once all the prison doors flew open, and everyone’s chains came loose.

    Partner
    Praise
    Prayer
    Purpose

    27 The jailer woke up, and when he saw the prison doors open, he drew his sword and was about to kill himself because he thought the prisoners had escaped. 28 "But Paul shouted, 'Don't harm yourself!
    We are all here!'"

    29 The jailer called for lights, rushed in and fell trembling before Paul and Silas. 30 He then brought them out and asked, “Sirs, what must I do to be saved?

    31 They replied, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved—you and your household.”

    32 Then they spoke the word of the Lord to him and to all the others in his house. 33 At that hour of the night the jailer took them and washed their wounds; then immediately he and all his household were baptized.

    34 The jailer brought them into his house and set a meal before them; he was filled with joy because he had come to believe in God—he and his whole household.

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    47 mins
  • An Undignified Arrival
    Dec 22 2024

    An Undignified Arrival


    Luke 2:1-7

    In those days Caesar Augustus issued a decree that a census should be taken of the entire Roman world. 2 (This was the first census that took place while Quirinius was governor of Syria.) 3 And everyone went to their own town to register.

    4 So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David.

    5 He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child.

    6 While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, 7 and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them.

    Humility


    Luke 2:6-7

    6 While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, 7 and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them.

    Philippians 2:5-8

    In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:

    6 Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;

    7 rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness.

    8 And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself

    by becoming obedient to death— even death on a cross!

    Jesus’ humility brought hope.


    Vulnerability


    Luke 2:7

    . . .she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them.


    Philippians 2:8

    And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself

    by becoming obedient to death— even death on a cross!


    Jesus’ vulnerability led to victory.


    Philippians 2:9-11

    9 Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name,

    10 that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth,

    11 and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.


    Simplicity


    Luke 2:8-12

    And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night.


    9 An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. 10 But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people.


    11 Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. 12 This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”

    In Jesus’ simplicity, He brought salvation.

    Luke 2:13-20

    Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying,


    14 “Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”


    15 When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.”


    16 So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger.


    17 When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, 18 and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them.


    19 But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart.


    20 The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which were just as they had been told.


    Differently

    Jesus’ undignified arrival was not an unforeseen accident, but rather an unparalleled announcement of good news.

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    44 mins
  • Peace Is Not Just Possible, It's Promised
    Dec 16 2024

    Peace was promised.

    Isaiah 9:6-7

    For to us a child is born, to us a son is given and the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. 7 Of the increase of his government and of peace there will be no end.

    Peace is possible.

    Luke 1:26-38

    26 In the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent from God to a city of Galilee named Nazareth, 27 to a virgin betrothed to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David. And the virgin's name was Mary.

    28 And he came to her and said, “Greetings, O favored one, the Lord is with you!”

    29 But she was greatly troubled at the saying, and tried to discern what sort of greeting this might be.

    30 And the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. 31 And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus. 32 He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. And the Lord God will give to him the throne of his father David, 33 and he will reign over the house of Jacob forever, and of his kingdom there will be no end.”

    34 And Mary said to the angel, “How will this be, since I am a virgin?”

    35 And the angel answered her, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be born will be called holy—the Son of God. 36 And behold, your relative Elizabeth in her old age has also conceived a son, and this is the sixth month with her who was called barren. 37 For nothing will be impossible with God.”

    38 And Mary said, “Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word.” And the angel departed from her.

    Luke 2:13-20

    And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying,

    14 “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace among those with whom he is pleased!”

    15 When the angels went away from them into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let us go over to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has made known to us.” 16 And they went with haste and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby lying in a manger. 17 And when they saw it, they made known the saying that had been told them concerning this child. 18 And all who heard it wondered at what the shepherds told them. 19 But Mary treasured up all these things, pondering them in her heart. 20 And the shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all they had heard and seen, as it had been told them.

    Peace is a blessing.

    John 14:27

    Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.

    Peace isn’t just for me.

    Romans 12:18

    “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”

    Galatians 5:22-26

    The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, PEACE, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other.

    Philippians 4:7

    And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

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