Episodes

  • Vivez la diffe'rence!

    Vivez la diffe'rence!
    Jul 21 2025
    We might sound like a broken record, but when it comes to issues that are problematic in marriage, none is more conspicuously at the top of the list these days than SOCIAL MEDIA, and our @#$% phones!! In today's episode, Brian and Jamie talk about the prevalence of "early divorce," throwing in the towel WAY too early, and how easy it has become in our current culture (not easy, as in not difficult emotionally, rather convenient). And what is leading many to be discontent, comparing their relationships or spouses to an on-line unicorn, is the addiction to social media, and the negative bias that we all have once we fixate on our differences.

    Brian and Jamie challenge us to "fast" from our phones and social media, for a pre-determined length of time, and to notice the positive changes in our lives, and in our marriages.

    Note - this will be our last podcast until the first of September. Enjoy the fast or the reruns, and we'll see you in the Fall! We love you all!

    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.

    A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    43 mins
  • The Second Wife (It's Not What You Think)

    The Second Wife (It's Not What You Think)
    Jul 14 2025
    This week, Jamie, is inspired by a Ben Rector post, talking about a chance encounter with the owners of a newish restaurant in San Jose, CA, called The Second Wife, brings some thoughts about putting yourself out there, risking "failure," and what that risk can bring into the world. Although not crowded (like, he was the only one there) when Ben walked in, he thought about the passion of the owners who had previously meticulously laid out the silverware on each table, how the cooks in the kitchen were prepared, and even how the owner commented, "Oh, you'll LOVE that dish," after he had ordered.

    Brian and Jamie get into the divine, creative spark in each of us that is just waiting to be birthed into the world, and how many times, we may miss the opportunity to see God bring them to fruition, many times due to a variety of fears.

    Be inspired today to do the thing, write the book, start the business, record the content, make the phone call - do it scared!!!

    And as always, THANK YOU to our generous donors - we COULD NOT DO IT WITHOUT YOU!


    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.

    A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    42 mins
  • Prayers for South Texas Flooding Victims

    Prayers for South Texas Flooding Victims
    Jul 7 2025
    In the wake of the tragic loss of life, property, homes, and loved ones, Brian and Jamie dedicate this episode to the victims and families of the Kerrville/South Texas flooding on July 4th. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all!!

    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.

    A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    24 mins
  • Laughter for the Long Haul

    Laughter for the Long Haul
    Jun 30 2025
    Have you ever had one of the cringiest, most embarrassing moments of your life, only to turn around a few minutes later to recall the event with your spouse, and find yourself laughing your butts off!!??

    In today's episode, Brian and Jamie recount some of their most embarrassing, but most hilarious moments that they've shared, (while being publically humiliated), but lived to tell about. They talk about the importance of not taking themselves too seriously, being able to laugh at themselves, and the major bonding experience that this can be. Some of their most treasured moments of their marriage has been laughing themselves silly recalling what could have been a disaster, or even turned into a big fight. Learning to laugh with one another can be one of the best medicines to heal, and to create a marriage for the long haul!

    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.

    A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    44 mins
  • Meet Kay Smith - Cactus Canyon GM, Chef, Adventurer, and Unreasonably Hospitable Person

    Meet Kay Smith - Cactus Canyon GM, Chef, Adventurer, and Unreasonably Hospitable Person
    Jun 23 2025
    You are in for a treat!!! In today's episode, you will be blown away by our new friend, Kay Smith. Jamie and I met Kay recently at one of our favorite Mexican food joints, and instantly knew we had encountered a kindred spirit! After just a couple of brief conversations, we knew we had to interview Kay for the podcast - mainly focusing on her hospitable manner, and the incredible culture in which she leads and works. But, boy, were we in for a surprise!! Who knew Kay was a chef in a former life, had grown up with incredible challenges, had been through a fairly recent divorce, and had backpacked her way through 9 countries in 5 months - solo!!!! Wow!

    Sit back and enjoy an incredibly deep conversation about spiritual connection, and inner healing and transformation. Thank you, Kay!

    (***MY APOLOGIES FOR THE SECOND CAMERA CUTTING OUT, THE LAST 13 MINUTES OF EPISODE IS KAY ONLY)

    Brian

    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.

    A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    1 hr
  • Meet Zoe Penzes - What Life is Like for a Single, 22 yr old Female

    Meet Zoe Penzes - What Life is Like for a Single, 22 yr old Female
    Jun 16 2025
    In today's episode, Jamie and Brian sit down with Zoe Penzes, a dear friend of the family (and girlfriend of another dear friend of the family), and discuss what life is like for a 22 year old female in today's world. They talk about the sketchy online dating world, navigating how to meet someone in today's culture that has similar values, the fears and concerns about dating, and finding THE ONE. They discuss why many are opting to wait until much later to get married, if at all, and the temptation to be jaded because of our parents' experiences, as well as all the nightmares we see and hear about on social media.

    We get to hear about Zoe's past, growing up without a father (who tragically passed of cancer when she was 2), and the void that left in her life, and what she felt was missing, and what she was looking for in a partner, and future family. Zoe shares great advice for anyone looking for a solid, long-lasting relationship...one that will last for the Long Haul!

    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.

    A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    48 mins
  • How to Love and Support your Kids When You Disagree with Their Life Choices

    How to Love and Support your Kids When You Disagree with Their Life Choices
    Jun 9 2025
    In today's episode, Brian and Jamie answer a couple of questions from listeners, talk about parenting, and a few things they discussed on their online parenting workshop, as well as some things they've learned about parenting along the way. They zero in on how important it is to love and support your children, no matter what, even when that is challenging (because you might disagree with their current life choices).

    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.

    A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    47 mins
  • Happy Anniversary to Brian and Jamie - From Honey Moon Hell to Happily Ever After

    Happy Anniversary to Brian and Jamie - From Honey Moon Hell to Happily Ever After
    Jun 2 2025
    In today's special anniversay edition, Brian and Jamie talk about celebrating 36 years of marriage on June 3rd! They talk about how they met, the great, but rocky start, the train wreck, the counseling, and eventually all the healing that has led to the legacy that they are proud of today. They talk about their passion for helping other couples, giving them hope, and tools to try to save their marriages, or improve relationships, or even just have a more fulfilled life!

    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.

    A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    56 mins