Life doesn’t come with a manual—but it should. In this episode, we unpack the unspoken rules of success, relationships, and social dynamics that people learn the hard way. From why effort doesn’t always equal reward to how people manipulate social capital, we break down the game so you can stop playing yourself. Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

In The Unwritten Rules of Life: What No One Told You, we explore the silent agreements, invisible expectations, and unwritten laws that govern how success and failure unfold. Why do some people thrive while others stay stuck? What are the common mistakes people make in love, work, and personal growth? This episode cuts through the fluff and lays out the real game of life that many wish they knew earlier. Whether you’re navigating relationships, career choices, or self-improvement, this episode is packed with practical wisdom to help you level up.

Key Themes & Discussion Points:1. The Myth of Hard Work: Effort ≠ Success

• Why doing more doesn’t always mean achieving more.
• The difference between being productive and being valuable.
• How the world rewards perception over effort.

• The real reason people lose interest—even when you do everything "right."
• Why emotional availability is currency (and how most people misuse it).
• The silent hierarchy in relationships that no one talks about.

• Why being agreeable doesn’t get you ahead—it gets you overlooked.
• The psychology of respect: How people categorize you the moment they meet you.
• How to balance kindness with maintaining power.

• Why people strategically position themselves in friendships and networks.
• How to recognize when someone is keeping you around for their convenience.
• The reason some people climb social ladders while others remain invisible.

• Why self-discovery is a trap if you don’t take action.
• The real secret to figuring out what you want in life.
• Why overthinking kills progress (and what to do instead).

2. The Unfair Truth About Relationships3. The Hidden Cost of Being "Too Nice"4. Social Currency & How People Use It Against You5. The Illusion of "Finding Yourself

• Life Lessons No One Tells You
• How to Succeed in Life
• Unspoken Rules of Success
• Hard Work vs Smart Work
• Social Currency and Power Dynamics
• Why People Disrespect You
• Psychology of Success and Failure
• The Friend Zone & Social Hierarchy
• How to Take Control of Your Life
• Relationship Advice & Power Shifts