Latter Day Struggles

By: Valerie Hamaker
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  • The Latter Day Struggles Podcast addresses beliefs and issues within the LDS faith that are challenging to talk about but vital to discuss for those trying to navigate their relationship in or around the church. Valerie and her guests invite psychological maturity, theological health, and institutional integrity.

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  • 301: What Patriarchies Teach Men about Weakness & Vulnerability
    Feb 3 2025

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    Series Title: The Profound Impact of Feminine Suppression on Men & their Churches [Part V of VIII].

    In this compelling episode Valerie and Nathan delve deep into the subtleties of benevolent patriarchy and how it places harmful pressures on men. They explore the unrealistic expectations for men to always be strong, the emotional and psychological costs of these societal norms, and how these pressures can lead to personal and relational breakdowns.

    Once again, Nathan lays it all out there with his own life experiences and talks about the debilitating pressure that he dutifully carried until he realized that this load was not only not necessary, but that it was not helpful, loving, or good for himself or his loved ones.

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    49 mins
  • 🔒 300: Unraveling the Patriarchal Male Superiority Complex
    Jan 31 2025

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    In this enlightening episode, Valerie and Nathan tackle another tough but important topic: the insidious issue of the male superiority complex fostered by systemic patriarchy. They discuss how patriarchal structures teach boys and men, both subtly and explicitly, that they are superior to women, impacting the emotional and psychological development of all genders.

    Nathan shares personal reflections on how he now sees that what he was taught and how he was treated as a boy and man in a patriarchal world and church deeply affected his own behavior and relationships. He invites all men to confront and unlearn these biases so that men both in and around the LDS church can embody their God-given potential, which frankly cannot be realized when their characters are crippled by patriarchal ideas.

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    SUPPORT GROUPS: Next support & processing group coming April 2025. To register/learn more, visit here.

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    45 mins
  • 299: What Happens When Collaboration & Connection are Neglected at Church
    Jan 27 2025

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    Series Title: The Profound Impact of Feminine Suppression on Men & their Churches [Part III of VIII]

    Glad you're back! In this episode Valerie and Nathan delve into the impact that the overemphasis on masculine energy has on the ideas and practices within the LDS church because it is an institutional patriarchy.

    Today they focus on the masculine trait of competitiveness and explore how this plays out in unhealthy ways when not balanced with collaboration, its feminine counterpart.

    They then show how the masculine attribute of protection can also go sideways when not balanced with the feminine trait of emotional connection. In each case, they will offer on-the-ground examples that you might have felt uncomfortable about but never thought to connect to the deprivation of feminine energies within the church.

    This episode and series was designed to show that healthy humans and systems need the divine, balancing energies of the masculine and the feminine and that there are very real consequences when both are not honored and celebrated.

    As they say, once you see it, you cannot "not" see it. Val and Nathan are honored to be a part of this eye-opening and healing journey towards balance and personal and institutional healing.

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    CONSULTING: Interested in doing individual or couples work with Valerie or a member of her trained team? Time-limited packages with Valerie and extended work with her team of coaches and therapists are available ⁠⁠here!⁠

    SUPPORT GROUPS: Next support & processing group coming April 2025. To register/learn more, visit here.

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    45 mins

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So very healing!

I am loving listening to Valerie as she respectfully and insightfully gives voice to faith expansion and how to manage my personal development in a healthy way. I am on my way to embracing my own authority ❤️

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Great Podcast for a balanced approach

Great podcast to help create understanding between lds members and those that no longer participate. We don't all need to agree, but we all desire to be understood.

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