In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, we're talking about the often intimidating process of being deposed during a divorce. We break down what a deposition is, how it works, and the importance of preparation to ensure you present yourself as a strong witness. Morgan, a seasoned divorce lawyer, walks listeners through key strategies for handling a deposition, including how to answer questions succinctly, when to ask for a break, and why staying calm is crucial. They also discuss the role of the lawyer in preparing for the deposition, including the importance of honesty, not over-explaining answers, and how to keep your emotions in check, especially if you're feeling overwhelmed or manipulated!

In this episode you'll learn:

1. The purpose of a deposition in a divorce case and why it's crucial to the litigation process
2. How to prepare for a deposition, including working with your lawyer and understanding what questions might come up
3. The importance of staying calm, professional, and concise during a deposition.
4. Why honesty and control over your emotions can make a significant difference in how you’re perceived
5. How to navigate potential emotional triggers, and how to avoid major mistakes like over-sharing or losing your temper

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In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea opens up about her personal journey and how getting divorced legitimately saved her life. She shares her experiences of being in an unhealthy marriage, the physical toll it took on her, and the turning point that led her to take control of her life. Andrea also discusses the mistakes she made during her divorce process, including choosing the wrong lawyer and rushing into decisions without proper counsel. Despite these challenges, Andrea highlights the importance of having the right support and taking action to improve your life after divorce.

In this episode, you'll learn:

1. The emotional and physical toll an unhealthy relationship can take, and the importance of recognizing when it's time to make a change
2. How to avoid common mistakes in the divorce process, such as rushing into decisions or hiring the wrong attorney
3. The power of taking small steps toward healing, understanding that it takes time but can ultimately lead to a healthier and happier life
4. The importance of quality time with your children post-divorce and focusing on what truly matters
5. Why finding the right legal representation and support system can make all the difference in navigating divorce

This episode is a raw, honest look at Andrea's experience and serves as a reminder that, though divorce is challenging, it CAN lead to personal growth and happiness.

Our Divorce Crash Course was designed to hold your hand through the process and help you avoid major and expensive mistakes. Learn more here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course

Our Family Wizard is another fantasitc resource for those who need help navigating the "fun" world of coparenting. Head to this landing page to see how we work closely with them to support our listeners! http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck

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In this episode, we dive into the complex decision of whether to pause your divorce process and explore the possibility of reconciliation. We discuss why some couples might reconsider divorce, the emotional and practical aspects to consider before making a decision, and the importance of having real, lasting change before hitting pause. We also touch on the legal steps involved in pausing or halting the divorce process, including options like the reconciliation calendar, and the financial and emotional risks that come with this decision. This isn't easy friend - but we've got you covered.

In this episode you'll learn:

• The reasons why some people file for divorce but later reconsider, and how to recognize if reconciliation is truly possible
• What steps to take if you're considering pausing your divorce, including discussing it with your attorney and understanding the legal implications
• How to distinguish between temporary emotional moments (like a spontaneous romantic night) and genuine, long-term changes that could save your marriage
• The importance of being aware of the risks, both emotional and financial, that could arise when halting the divorce process
• How working through these decisions with proper guidance, both legal and emotional, can help you make the best choice for your future

Our Divorce Crash Course was designed to hold your hand through the process and help you avoid major and expensive mistakes. Learn more here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course

Our Family Wizard is another fantasitc resource for those who need help navigating the "fun" world of coparenting. Head to this landing page to see how we work closely with them to support our listeners! http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck

Friends, slide into our dms, we love love love hearing from you. We are always here to listen and help in any way we can. You've got this and we've got you.

Instagram: @hownotosuckatdivorce

Follow Andrea: @theandrearappaport

Follow Morgan: @divorceattorneychicago